I can answer that question, but you're not going to like it.
Because of the weight, 165 and 65 kilograms is a lot, you have to be a maximum of 55, and more likely 50.
This is the truth, separately we are already talking about the physical features of the face.
I'm 25, man, but I'm like you... they're ignoring me. And I had and still have a problem with the weight, although I have lost over 30, I have more fat, palates, stretch marks and hanging skin.
I have a friend arguing, his wives cling to him, while I'm shunned like the plague.
And I train - even this friend set me on fire, but the results are too slow.
Boy, 23.
I'm so sorry :( I don't know why this is happening. :(
/ Next to the Moderators - Don't you see how many people similar to the same story meet in spodeli. net You need to do something more this question. Love is hard to find, but no one bothers to anonymously share what they really feel. You need to find some way to find people with a similar history /
Weight.. I'm sorry, but there's a lot of you. You're about 10 over the norm. Go on some kind of diet. It's very, very, very.
It's the pounds. I'm 166cm and weigh 49-50kg But there's still a lot to be desired. For this height, you have to be max 50kg.
Try the dating sites. It's hard to find a serious relationship there, but i guarantee you sex.
I'm 38 years old - I definitely have 10 extra pounds and i'm just fooled by the fact that I'm just fluffy or bigger. I try to take them down, but it's not easy at all - at 20 years old with a normal physique (neither full nor weak) I weighed and felt fit at 52-53 kg. It is clear that everything is individual, but for a young person you definitely have a lot of weight, and the opposite sex definitely has a choice and a basis for comparison. Take action from now on, because over the years it won't get any easier, and do it for yourself, not for the boys - for your health and self-esteem is better, you'll see :)
Although in the above comments they say that weight is your problem, I can tell you that I am 1 67 tall and weigh 68 kg. but when I go out on the street, there is rarely a man who does not look at me, but dresses away from the opposite.
1Most men like straight, long hair - press.
The color does not matter much, but for them like most should not be red (not everyone likes it) and to take you more seriously not to be blond, best sits dark chocolate, but it is sexy and liked by everyone, and sits great on any skin type
2Not dress provocatively, but not as if you were 45.
Don't wear shirts. Buy high-heeled boots now there are those in the New Yorker and wear them with high-waisted jeans (with a belt ), pair the outfit with a handbag and short T-shirt and jacket (leather is best), can also with a shirt tied like a bun on the front or tank top.
3 Don't get too much makeup, if you don't need it, no man watches if you have mascara and glan, really... moreover, the natural person is somehow more real, natural and animal-looking, and gloss and mascara is very and unnecessary....
4Ne do not be active!
You start flirting with your gaze and waiting to talk to you, don't be too enthusiastic!
5Be gentle, shy, feminine, don't argue and don't take the initiative!
Success!
'Why are you judging the girl so harshly when there are passengers on every train? So many girls with "overweight" weight, I also know those who are not particularly pleasant, but have friends? If he lose someone and another pound, it wouldn't be bad, but does that depend on it all!?
It's not the weight, don't listen to them, there are all kinds of men, they don't all like skinny women, and you. You could be 55 kg tall. or 65 kg. depends on the construction, muscle mass, not everything is kg.
On the subject, I have no idea... You sound normal, maybe, just change the middle, because the bg guys in the neighborhood... don't expect a lot of deep interest from them, you may not have a problem, but re that they're looking for easy and stupid girls...
What are you just spitting on the girl, maybe she can't lose weight to the 50kg you are. and maybe he doesn't want to be 50 kg. and he wants to be 65kg. it all depends on the radiation, definitely a girl can be 50kg. and look like a grandmother and it could be 90-100kg. and look like a princess
How does everyone think a girl at 60-65kg is fat? Omg. Is that a lot for girls? I'm a 95kg boy and I look like a wrestler haha.
People, 165 cm by 50 kg is in the underweight column, what are you talking about...
There's just no right guys around her, environment - that's it. But it's a problem for a lot of people. Where do I meet him? I only know where no- tinder and dating sites. Where do you? I don't have an answer. But you can change the way you dress. Skirts, dresses, something sexier without being vulgar. Good luck, and i want your head up. You're only 20! Show more self-esteem, it helps. I'm 45, I'm not giving up, and you're a nose!
To number 8, I see you have good intentions, but you're either a pretty young girl or you're usually one. The advice you give, I will not comment, everyone has taste, BUT you use the word "most" - why do you think it is worth a man, be it a woman or a man, intimately, to be liked by most? Because the choice is bigger? There's no proper logic to that.
Avorke, I don't think you need to have much choice, but to attract the right people for you to enjoy, to communicate, and that happens when a person has a built character - interests, preferences and skills, and that defines his environment and the people with whom I wrote earlier - don't expect much from the male company around you right now. , not only because of their age, but also because of the level of culture, of people in a more general environment, where the majority chooses the fast, easy and casual.
Get your anorexia for 5 extra kilos and because of that snot that doesn't pay attention to you. A guaranteed result to dry your organs, just because someone called you a leoglio and for 2 kilos on top will hang you. The question is whether the Bulgarian men are not hugely disadvantaged by comparison with what they themselves represent
Man in his 40s
As a man, I'il tell you that first and foremost is the weight, and secondly the radiation. If you lose 10 kilos without changing anything else, you'il see how the boys start looking at you a lot more. Do it now while you're young and try to keep up with what you've achieved all your life. For the majority of men, full women are just unattractive... like low, bald men without self-esteem are unattractive to you women.
Now for the broadcast - it is true that sometimes there are also full women with incredibly sexy radiance, which completely compensates for the weight, but they are rather the exception. I can confirm what number 8 said about dressing and flirting. Learn to dress femininely and with taste so that clothes emphasize your body, but without showing too much. Flirt with your eyes and show restrained interest without looking desperate. Makeup is not contraindicated - in my life I have repeatedly been amazed at how a suitable makeup can change a woman's attractiveness.
I support n 11
At the same height, I was both 55kg and 75kg years later!
At 55kg girl, young but with counted ribs, a man never spun... When I was 75, though, I had some juicy breasts, tight hips and an ass, i felt perfect... and I couldn't get rid of men!
Then I met my great love...he just loves me and wants just that, I love it, and it goes on for 12 years!
I have skinny girlfriends without self-esteem and they go alone...
And your man will come when you least expect it!
Success!
Until number 17, right, men look at the weaker ones, I confirm from personal experience. But they're just watching. So it's not going to help her. She needs an environment with the right guys to socialize and a really serious relationship. On the clothes they welcome, but in the mind they send. Though. I know a very handsome man, but really handsome, after which they turn. But when he opens his mouth, you're going to run with 300 right now.
If your body mass index is fine and you're not fat. I'm the same height, I used to be 53 kg, and after birth 10 kg on top. That's not the problem, men want a woman to be communicative and self-esteem. They don't have to be all.
18, hard work, but if you say so. Over 60k for a woman is pretty bad.
Go to number 18 of 10/15
There are all sorts of people, as I told the author, there are men who don't like skinny women, but your statement is spiteful to skinny women like me, my ribs count and I'm 157/40 kg., but I'm haunted by all sorts of men, both tall, and tall, and full, and muscular, the common among them is that they adore weak women, and they are, they will never look at a full or fat woman, a matter of taste, so don't have a bad.
Up to 21 out of 18
I've been thinking like you, too, but life has disproved me, and I dare say that weak or fat, everyone's luck stands!
I think everybody enjoys women with cool bodies. To have a choice, lose weight. Don't listen to your grandmother, who taught you to eat. I'm very angry about how parents harm their children. Stop listening to people who tell you that appearance doesn't matter. Yes, yes. All the videos are half naked, right? And then when you look mind-boggling, you can say it doesn't matter. But now you'il have a choice of dozens of men who will aspire to you.
Crap... It's not in appearance. I have perfect weight and stature and appearance in general, I support myself, I'm noticed by men. However, every night I go to bed alone with the stuffed toys for years. I don't know how to contact men and get them by my side.
Girls, enough of those jeans and T-shirts! Wear beautiful dresses, skirts, be more feminine.
As of 25
And I'm with the plush ones, for them I'm sure they'il be with me forever, so there's something reassuring about that :)
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