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Memories Of The Past Come To Me.

By nicollerouxx July 07, 2020 7 answers Last updated July 07, 2020

Hello, everyone. I have something like a problem - the memories of the past. 3 years ago I met a boy - and the two of us immediately started looking at each other, hanging out, sparks began to fly in general. That day we were together for over 5 hours. Everything went well, the night before we parted goodbye hugged me tightly and did not let me go for 1-2 minutes. I flew with happiness ... but not for long. After a few days, we talked and decided to get together. Everything was perfect, I flew in the clouds of happiness until one day I went to see him and he pushed me away. I stayed in place for a while, but so was he, and when he saw me he grabbed my head, hit me, and it was obvious that he was furious. I never understood what happened. It blocks me everywhere. Let me clarify that we met him in the morning and he was with his friends and when he saw me he hugged me and was very happy to see me. A few hours after we met, he pushed me away. For 3 years now, I never understood what happened between us, why he pushed me away.


All I know is that after he pushed me away, he suffered a lot and always blamed someone or something for what happened to us. You may think that I am humiliated, but I decided to talk to him with the help of his cousin and my relative. When I went in front of them, he did not see me. When he saw me, I took his hand, I wanted to talk and he pushed me away and said there was nothing to talk about, he found me and pushed the door. As far as I understand, some "benefactor" told us both something and he broke off our relationship from there.


I cried a lot. I became severely depressed when I saw it, my caps softened. He was perfect for me. For 3 years now I have been thinking about him and what happened. Now we are both engaged, but as far as I understand, the girl he is with is a drug addict and she pulled him down. After learning this, I cried again, I wished it was a lie.

 


Please tell me how to proceed? I want to forget it, but I can't. Whenever I almost shake off what happened, I dream it and I remember it again and the memories come to me again.

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hotstud913 answered · July 07, 2020
Very nasty job, honestly! I have been in a similar situation several times - all of a sudden the boy stops contact with me or gradually withdraws for no reason. It always turned out that someone had told him nonsense. I suffered and cried a lot, for one I even cried all day on my birthday! But do you know what I found out ... if one person believes not in you, but in some others there, and that BLINDLY, that is, without listening to you and taking an interest, then he doesn't appreciate you enough !! It's hard to accept, but you have to ... it's a healthier option. You don't need someone who doesn't trust you and who is influenced. So one day, even if you're together, someone can still tell him something and dump you. Is it going to be like this forever - I dump you, I want you, I dump you, I want you? You don't need such a person. Choose people who choose you.
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kimyuang answered · July 07, 2020
You can't forget him if you see each other often and he can't forget you.
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alanna_allen answered · July 07, 2020
So it was that I hadn't seen him recently, but I used to see him almost every day. Now, even if I don't see him, I still remember him. It's hard to forget, even impossible. I feel him in my heart. I want to forget it because the guy I'm with gives a lot to me and tries to make me happy.
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silly_butt_sugary answered · July 07, 2020
Keep going or admit it to you, do you know how many people admit it and no longer feel anything. They understand that even if they had something, it was far from love. And if you think seriously, you may not have to admit anything. Go out with other people, try and you will find the right one with whom the past will attack only to show you that your choice to look to the future and not to the past was 100 percent correct. I wish you success!
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_lorene_ answered · July 07, 2020
It's like the girl of my life wrote it. Exactly the same situation, except that for me, hugs and kisses did not have only one severely traumatized unrequited love. But it's my fault I knew her since I was a child, now we are 19 20 years old, during that time I had to steal her heart to fall in love with me. She was committed, I knew it and I hoped because we have known each other for a long time that she would drop it and be a little selfish with me, but I loved her from 3rd to 4th grade. My love for this girl has not disappeared after all the alcohol and rubbish that I took almost every night I cry for her and there is not a day that I do not think in my dreams and in my heart my feeling is that if I do not do things for her and I can I take care of her so that she is well and it makes no sense for me to do anything for anyone, I want her. The stories are approaching, I can't believe it was written by the girl in my story, but believe me, this boy doesn't love you spiral. You can't think of someone if he doesn't love you, if you think of him you both love each other
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yelena777 answered · July 07, 2020
Such men and men, in general, do not deserve to be happy. I have always wondered about stupidity, oligophrenia, etc. of people who are silent, do not give you a word to say, etc. In such situations, what has to be said is said 100% and the other is listened to, and from there on, whatever happens, will happen.
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thetaylornoir answered · July 08, 2020
I don't know if you will read it, but I will tell you the following: Do not try to understand it and do not bother, it will confuse you more. I was in your position many years ago, and sometimes I think of her again - the one who swore to me and betrayed me first. I still didn't understand what happened and why he kicked me for no reason or any other person involved. Over the years, I realized that my conscience was clear and there was no point in struggling and thinking about something that was clearly not up to me. In the interest of truth, a fate met us soon, and as a slap in the face, obviously, for her, she offered to see me, obviously, she liked what I had become, the profession, and everything else. However, now I am married and I do not regret anything. If fate hadn't shaped this number for me years ago, I wouldn't have had a wonderful wife and family, or a career like the current one. As people have said all evil, for good!
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