Hello :) I am a 16 year old boy and I have never had a girlfriend. I didn't like girls, no girl showed interest in me. I don't want advice like: "get more open"; "to go out" ; "to communicate with people" and so on. (because I have real friends, but I have never had a girlfriend, I will hardly have one in the near future.) Let me tell you about myself - medium height, thin, with long hair to the shoulders (I suffer a lot of disabilities from many people for that, but ... I don't care what they think, I like it a lot), I'm excellent, with not a great sense of humor. I am not an athlete and now I do not do sports (I used to dance, but due to health problems I gave up.) I have been studying Russian for 2 years, I will start going to computer science classes with friends soon. I don't like parties at all, I don't like to drink (I haven't gotten drunk so far, I just don't like the taste of alcohol, a lot), I listen to different music - from Celtic, instrumental ... to metal. I hate chalga and Serbian! This is me. I'm not the typical boy, because most people do other things than me. I'm happy with the current situation, and very much, but sometimes I feel lonely (on the part of friends, everything is very well, I'm talking about someone to hug, to share with, to go out just the two of us, to watch a movie together, to kiss ...) I do not find such a person. * _ * I will hardly find it soon, because the truth is that I haven't liked a girl for about a year or so (I'm not gay, just nobody catches my eye). In general, the girls around me are the same (not like the same people, but the same characters - arrogant, open ...) I would like to find someone nice, beautiful, funny, who is himself and speaks normally, without offending (jokingly nicknamed) the person next to him (not that it is offensive, we joke like that with friends), but to joke with me in other ways;), polite , cultural, which not only excites my body, but also excites my mind. I know I'm picky and I know the saying - "who chooses - masturbates", but I'd rather find such a person than to act wrong (I'm young and I can try, but yes, I'm stubborn: P and no: D). I have no experience in relationships, I have never had one, I have never kissed anyone. I would like to ask what type of boys / girls do you like, and what would you like the boy / girl to do for you and with you, what do you get from such a relationship with someone, and is it worth the effort to be with the person you are with? you like or is everything just unnecessary? (In principle, I can answer some of the questions myself, but only to some extent) :)
1 gohones answered
I don't find it obligatory to have a girlfriend at 16. Nor does it mean that you won't have one in the future. I don't know where this nonsense got into your head. At this age, there are usually a few boys and girls who are more liked. , walking, open, etc. Gradually everything falls into place. The only advice I can give you is to be yourself, but not to be from mixed companies and from common entertainment. That is, be more active. Also, if you like one, try to make friends with her - conversations, an invitation to the cinema, etc. and it will be understood whether you have intrigued her. Good luck! Life is in front of you!