Masturbation Or Mistress

   Dude, you're worse than me. Mine and I do it at least once every 2 months. My advice is to ride on the chicks, why complicate your life in old age and I am. You can also try a prostitute, but from personal experience I tell you that it is nothing special, or an artificial vagina or something like that for a change.

   SEARCH! IT IS HUMAN TO HAVE SEX WITH A WOMAN!

   Man, tell your wife ... tell her you want to live! Tell her that you feel young and full of hormones and you want to !!! If she doesn't want .... a language of understanding and 30 years of marriage. Otherwise ... cover up the idea of ​​another woman. It's substandard and somehow .... naughty to spit on 30 years of marriage. Talk about it and come up with something. :) Good luck!

   Hello! Why should he spit on his 30-year marriage ?! There are sexual and non-sexual women who love to do it and who don't care! That is why men find and have lovers! Like women actually! Nobody says that once he has a mistress, his marriage must be over! Nothing of the kind! On the contrary! I am FOR finding one! I am a woman and I love to have sex! I adore! So I fully understand how you feel! It's not the same with chicks! I may have sounded vulgar, but that's the truth! Why hide behind false morals!? !!!

   Thanks to the lady, I am looking for such a woman for a mistress who loves sex and knows how to give pleasure to both her partner and herself. I also support "hiding behind false morals".

   Marriage and sex are sometimes two very different things. That way you will get sick! What self-satisfaction - it's so stupid! Find a mistress, just be careful your wife doesn't pick you up when you love each other. I am a woman and very naughty at that.

   I'm № 4 God forbid we meet someday! :)))

   I am in a similar state. Sex once a month. I am 48 years old. I didn't look at others because of the family. For my wife, sex is a good thing but not a necessity. I didn't look at others because of the family. She has already started, I want her to find a lover so that I can look for other women, but she does not give up at all. Somewhere after 35 years. I started to masturbate 1-2 times a month but not everyone. And by the way, my wife is very jealous and does not allow any women around us for a closer friendship. I have told her many times that another man will not be able to endure this situation, and she will. A few years ago, I told her lightly as a joke that in order not to cheat on her, I sometimes masturbate. And she shouted that I was dirty, perverted, etc. But it was still a joke on my part. And then I realized that I have lost irretrievably much of the joys of life. 4-5 years ago, thanks to the Internet, I cheated on my wife for the first time. So far I have done it only 5-6 more times because I am very busy and I do not have time and convenient time for breaking. The most interesting thing I find about my desires is that I prefer women of my generation and older. Others always look smaller and I, as a student, always like poop. So don't waste the little time we have left. He is looking for pleasure outside, but very, very discreetly. Save your family. Do both things, knock whatever you want, if you can, knock one of your chicks. It is human after all. "COLLEAGUE" :))) So far I have done it only 5-6 more times because I am very busy and I do not have time and convenient time for breaking. The most interesting thing I find about my desires is that I prefer women of my generation and older. Others always look smaller and I, as a student, always like poop. So don't waste the little time we have left. He is looking for pleasure outside, but very, very discreetly. Save your family. Do both things, knock whatever you want, if you can, knock one of your chicks. It is human after all. "COLLEAGUE" :))) So far I have done it only 5-6 more times because I am very busy and I do not have time and convenient time for breaking. The most interesting thing I find about my desires is that I prefer women of my generation and older. Others always look smaller and I, as a student, always like poop. So don't waste the little time we have left. He is looking for pleasure outside, but very, very discreetly. Save your family. Do both things, knock whatever you want, if you can, knock one of your chicks. It is human after all. "COLLEAGUE" :))) He is looking for pleasure outside, but very, very discreetly. Save your family. Do both things, knock whatever you want, if you can, knock one of your chicks. It is human after all. "COLLEAGUE" :))) He is looking for pleasure outside, but very, very discreetly. Save your family. Do both things, knock whatever you want, if you can, knock one of your chicks. It is human after all. "COLLEAGUE" :)))

   Thank you all for the kind attitude to my problem!

   Try another prostitute :)

   And I'm a woman, but with the same problem, I want sex, and my husband rarely wants that. He is good and we understand each other, but this bothers me a lot. Let's get together

   № 11, if you want you can try with me. I am № 8 A colleague of viktor59 @ abv

   Look what a dude you think he is. Find a mistress as soon as things are like this and tear her apart by fucking, and let yours catch the flies. Life is too short, how long do you think we will live. You are already 50 years old. Not that I wish you bad, God forbid, but 50 years is 50 years. Think and you will come to the conclusion that I am right and then find a mistress and live the rest of your life as God has ordained for you.

   I think the robot is for a doctor. Take her / Ie. go both.

   What such curses are born was. I mean "women" - I hope he at least cooks deliciously.

   Get a dog or an animal depending on the size naaaa ... uh .. yes! уфу ^^^

   Almost a three-year theme. But how relevant! It seems to never cease to be relevant, if not for the author, then for other readers. I am also a "colleague". Typical and everything described. I chose the path - "mistress". It is not difficult to do - this is evident in some women's comments to the post. The mistress - devoted to sex. She needed exactly what I needed. No falling in love, encroachments on "family values", etc. But my wife caught me. And what "tolerance" he showed - your imagination is poor. And after all, who took care of the "loss of family honor"? Will you guess? I, of course. I turned my back on the pleasure, put on my yoke and dragged it. Now it is also not difficult for me to find a great mistress. Even the same. But I have a family and responsibilities that "give" me the great opportunity to check at will. So, what to give happy moments to another woman? Why should she give them to me? The barn is cozy, warm and has hay. Well, sometimes they milk you more painfully, but you can doze off as much as you want.

   First you share about the problem with the woman and if she rejects you you do what you want.

   number 17 - I really liked your opinion. I am the mistress of a middle-aged man. And he is with me for exactly the reason that men point out here - lack of pleasure from home sex.

   what can I tell you, I hope you have found some solution to the problem, because I am a woman of 38 years, but my situation is the same. my husband does not pay attention to me at all, and I do what I want more than when I was for example at 20. I can't think of anything else only sex is in my head :)

   Hello! Congratulations to everyone, and also to the author, although I think that he has already cut the site - I do not find his answers ... Because I have already commented (17), it seems that I actually renewed the topic, but it still excites me and I will lets stay a little longer in it. After many years of following rules, I now live with the feeling that I have been lied to and deceived all my life. This would be inexplicable for people with a narrow horizon, because they see in me what I show them - what I show them by myself. It is hypocritical, but it is known only to myself. It's just that if I presented myself as I really am, many people would be happy, but for many more I could not be useful, which would cause them to persecute me, to stigmatize me. I'm not even just talking about sex. These are cases, actions and activities, which would be useful to other people, outside the family established by some ritual. And this would not harm the family - on the contrary, because it popularized it, it would make it more famous. But as with sex (I mention it only because it is at the heart of the subject and seems more understandable as a negation), so in any other respect, jealousy brings only negative dividends. I think the jealous husband deserves the pain because he inflicts it on himself. But in addition to himself, the jealous strikes many other people, and especially the person next to him. And we, as a society, and as you can see as individuals, support and comply with it (her). Although the examples so far are still in established families, do we do the same for our children? What kind of life are we directing them to? What are we trying to suggest to them? What behavior do we want them to have? I know that my words are a cloud of mist, which the first wind will carry away. Tolerance in our society will not be changed by my words, but I felt the need to share them. Sex is not love. Nor is love sex. The fact that there is some connection between the two should not unite them for us in one, as we have been suggested and continue to be suggested. Sex is just one of our opportunities for pleasure, which many of us are frantically looking for, but do not receive, and others are tired and tasteless (I will not give examples - the exhibition will be divorced). Why, however, do some try to influence others? Why does someone always blunt and claim to be hurt? Words like "betrayal", "infidelity", "fraud" are used ... What was transmitted? Who is betrayed? If your partner, whom you respect and love, whom you honor with all your attention and provide comfort in her life, cannot or does not want (which is all the same) to give you part of her attention, if she demonstratively declares to you that she is only in bed at your request, because he "loves" you, and that the pleasure he feels is almost a gift for you, what choice do you have, apart from the alternatives from the title of the topic? Well, I chose the second option to be respected by those I don't respect. The first turned out to be very dangerous for me. For the dear ladies who commented after me, I will say - I love honest and sincere people, but their and my openness has power only here, in an anonymous site like this. Outside, we will be stoned to death for a spectacle, like the poor lady in Iran recently mentioned in the media. I hope the moment in which you are already aware of what you are depriving yourself of, and so are other people, to be in your mind when you impose prohibitions and restrictions on others who follow you. Personally, I raised my children to follow their desires and dreams and I do not regret it. Now they are not by my side, but they live their lives to their liking (which does not make me an idealist - I know that they are also victims of many restrictions, but they can't do without them). In fact, is there a dissatisfied society somewhere in which to officially enroll? Do you not understand what reproaches (and not only reproaches) such a society would encounter today? I do not specify the gender of my children, because I hate the division of people by gender, just to point out some imaginary qualitative differences. I believe that both have the same need and the same right to be human in everything. Including sex.

   Number 20, let's try to solve our problem together and I can think of nothing but sex in my head!

   N22, you will solve the problem temporarily, in the worst case you will get a new problem: o}

   20 and 22 - you have nothing in your head, it is clear that you will only "think" about sex (like animals) ...

   Dude, fuck that morality! What if you can't in this life, in the other? He talks to his wife seriously. In fact, the problem is hers, not yours. Let her give the solution. And in this way take responsibility! Of course, there are compromise solutions. You may be to blame too (we are not under your quilt). Don't write here, talk to her. The reluctance to talk and share loosens your hands.

   N20, I had to try, it doesn't work OK!

   Let me tell you, I recognized myself as the author, so I started following this topic. That we bring it for years by watching when it is released. I am №17. I had turned it into needlework to such an extent that, you remember, we sleep on one bed - the bedroom, she dreams next to me, and I catch up with the shortcomings two fingers away. I learned not to ejaculate by squeezing the outlet duct tightly at the appropriate moment and all of the strain on my body returns to my bladder. So don't get dirty. Easy, but when I looked around and saw how many women are around me, who are also deprived of the pleasure of this communication, I said to myself, what a heroism it is not to have sex (or to harass your wife who does not want it) in family, and to deprive of the same those women who are also deprived, and not worse than yours? That, love, love, stars and romance ... 50 is not like 15. We are supposed to be the same, but we are not. Other winds chase us. So what's stopping you from having sex after all? Why do we need to write poems about this? And so I allowed myself ... The other is described under №17. I will not repeat it so as to annoy. But now, when I'm 56, I think I'll "pick onions ..." again, whatever happens. A lot of friends from my generation died ... What will I say to myself when an illness knocks me down (I already know that no one gets away with it) "Hey. How dedicated I was! Hey, how I sacrificed my pleasure!", And for what? To deprive one chamber of others of the same. My wife, she didn't break ... well, to break, well, I never wanted her to report to me ... The other is described under №17. I will not repeat it so as to annoy. But now, when I'm 56, I think I'll "pick onions ..." again, whatever happens. A lot of friends from my generation died ... What will I say to myself when an illness knocks me down (I already know that no one disagrees with that) "Hey. How dedicated I was! Hey, how I sacrificed my pleasure!", And for what? To deprive one chamber of others of the same. My wife, she didn't break ... well, to break, well, I never wanted her to report to me ... The other is described under №17. I will not repeat it so as to annoy. But now, when I'm 56, I think I'll "pick onions ..." again, whatever happens. A lot of friends from my generation died ... What will I say to myself when an illness knocks me down (I already know that no one gets away with it) "Hey. How dedicated I was! Hey, how I sacrificed my pleasure!", And for what? To deprive one chamber of others of the same. My wife, she didn't break ... well, to break, well, I never wanted her to report to me ... for what? To deprive one chamber of others of the same. My wife, she didn't break ... well, to break, well, I never wanted her to report to me ... for what? To deprive one chamber of others of the same. My wife, she didn't break ... well, to break, well, I never wanted her to report to me ...

   Dear sir..in my opinion you will not get the answer to your question here, but in a conversation with your wife..I am married recently and my husband and I are over 3 and I am horrified at the thought after 20 years. of a joint marriage and experienced what not together..to fast something like that and seek opinions from strangers ... to something so personal that is only between you and her. Social values ​​are degrading at full steam..and it is easiest to say find your mistress, be content ... and you are a man..think what you have built together..why you are with this woman..for your vows. .and drop this topic and take a conversation .... My husband is a foreigner and I do not want to brag, but just to say from observations in BG, things are so wrong on this topic and talking about it between couples is one thing shameful..and the consequence is..here..and maybe something else,

   Be, it seems to me that I understand such statements as that of 28. At 30 years old. I thought so too. We share everything, we build everything, we do everything ... But now I see that all this, and valid for everyone, is that it is perishable and goes away. More importantly, however, 28 has created a wonderful illusion behind which to justify the fact that it does not work in our country - even a man has found only somewhere. Her next remark will be that Bulgarian men and Bulgaria in general are a place below and below her "dignity", and her husband (or partner) is a sun that has nothing to compare with here. It is true only insofar as foreign women fall in love and openly share it with the Bulgarians. Come to the Black Sea coast and you will see for yourself. There is no point in taking a mind from a woman who is unable to realize herself (I am talking about sexual realization, not professional realization, although I am almost certain, that her marriage to a foreigner is precisely due to the lack of normal livelihood both at home and abroad). He can be as picky as he wants, but women who can do it can do it. The others are just angry. The same goes for men. So to the author: As long as you can, do it - infidelity comes from depriving us of something so normal and the blame is always on the woman who tries to dominate, and repulsion from sex is one of her weapons. Don't listen to their nonsense for sublime nonsense. Either he indulges in his family, or elsewhere, or nowhere. All the important things he lists 28 are not the only merit of the woman. The merit is (mostly) mostly to the man. Shouldn't there be respect for this part, the second? There is another side. Rejected women (when it comes to husbands who don't respect their spouses because they have them), should they also be encapsulated in the hands of a meaningless meal? They do not destroy their families, they do not turn their backs on their responsibilities, they also "somehow" make up for the lack of attention and emotions at home. And you blame them too ... In fact, your desire is to live in darkness and oppression in order to envy your "great moral values." Well, it can't happen. All famous great people, both men and women, are known for their adventures and their sensuality, expressed not only to their spouse. Be healthy, alive and "playful" your desire is to live in darkness and oppression in order to envy your "great moral values." Well, it can't happen. All famous great people, both men and women, are known for their adventures and their sensuality, expressed not only to their spouse. Be healthy, alive and "playful" your desire is to live in darkness and oppression in order to envy your "great moral values." Well, it can't happen. All famous great people, both men and women, are known for their adventures and their sensuality, expressed not only to their spouse. Be healthy, alive and "playful"

   At 50, I had the most exciting extramarital affair, with the most liberated woman I've ever met! Checks are a short pleasure, with a woman it is indescribable .... Discretion is mandatory.

   Hello colleagues, I'm 32, we don't have a family, we don't have children and sex is from the rain to the wind, it keeps us in the power of habit, there is understanding, but there is no passion, as 17 says in the barn, it's nice and cozy. Many times I have vowed to end the relationship while it's time, but I always stop by deluding myself that things will get better, but they don't get better, and it's my fault that I had to smash everything to dust from the very beginning. how do I know it will happen. This is also because I am a coward, I tell myself now that you have a decent girl who knows what you will come across, then you will have to look, you will have problems and besides, there is some brotherly love for this person that does not allow you to hurt him. So colleagues, I don't know what to do, I was looking for comfort from others and it was very nice, but for a short time I didn't blame them because the girls wanted full surrender and not flirtations.

   I bet that this story was not written by a 50-year-old man

   31 DISCHARGE ME categorically !!! until you have children to roar and suffer !!! 34 - how are you sure? to the author - As a mistress I tell you - find a mistress, but make sure she is a married woman if you do not want a commitment.

   An interesting topic. I am close to the age of the author and his problem is completely foreign to me. I have not been married for many years and probably my opinion will not be completely authoritative on this issue. However, I will share it, because it is not known from which bush the rabbit can jump out :) ie the solution. And so. In my opinion, sex is a physiological necessity at a certain stage of human development. Whether he was a man or a woman. Just like eating, drinking, sleeping and more. So imagine the following situation. A man (or a woman) walks down the street. For some reason, he has not eaten anything but rusks for months and is starving for some normal food. There is enough money in your pockets, and the street is full of restaurants, pizzerias, donuts, pastry shops, grocery stores and whatever else you can think of. In my opinion, there are two options: 1. He enters the first restaurant and eats normally what he / she likes. In this case, everything is natural and normal. 2. He grits his teeth and doesn't go anywhere, but goes home to the rusks. It is true that in this case he will not die of starvation, but if the bread diet continues, irreversible changes will occur in his / her body, because crackers cannot provide all the necessary substances for the normal development of the body. It is more than clear to me that only the right choice is the first option. When a need arises, it must be met. Of course, it is quite possible that I am wrong, but I think so. I hope I was useful. but if the bread diet continues, irreversible changes will occur in his / her body, because the rusks cannot get all the necessary substances for the normal development of the body. It is more than clear to me that only the right choice is the first option. When a need arises, it must be met. Of course, it is quite possible that I am wrong, but I think so. I hope I was useful. but if the bread diet continues, irreversible changes will occur in his / her body, because the rusks cannot get all the necessary substances for the normal development of the body. It is more than clear to me that only the right choice is the first option. When a need arises, it must be met. Of course, it is quite possible that I am wrong, but I think so. I hope I was useful.

   Hi, I'm 34 and I had a similar problem. I was with a woman for 12 years together, in the beginning everything was flowers and roses. Then we got married, and suddenly the sex stopped. And for a young man in need, it was like murder. Sex really matters a lot for a relationship. I am a patient person and I was patient, patient, and as my colleague says, I was manually processed. My wife didn't want sex, she said it didn't matter if she had sex or not. So I endured for a long time, but in the end I couldn't stand it and found a mistress. I didn't fall in love with my mistress, but I did tell my wife. We divorced, we have no children. I want to tell you that everyone should be happy, one way or another. So my advice is to find a mistress, but if she doesn't want to ruin her family, take care of herself. There's a saying- "Don't ask an old man,

   Hi, I'm a woman and I'm 30 years old and I have a lot of sex. My husband has not refused me so far, I am completely satisfied, but I want to do it with someone else and that's it. And I will do it, it's only a matter of time before I find the right one. It is more complicated with us. You have to trust the person you're breaking up with a lot, because we have a lot to lose. I mean, if my husband cheats on me, I won't be impressed at all. And now I wonder how you survived 30 years with a woman. I have been married for 5 years. and I can barely stand with one man. It is very clear that you will be looking for what these chicks are.

   № 17 I liked what you wrote. Your wife is a bitch. He doesn't want you, but he doesn't give them to you. He will follow you. that it will catch you. How did it happen that you let yourself get caught? It must be the children intervened. And what kind of men are you?

   Find a single woman and ride with her!

   And if you have a monster woman, I'll ask you how you're going to break. I will drive on checks because I am so unbearable and only when I see her nasty face I fall. If I can't, I'll be on the check with whoever I have to. But she won't see either.

   Abe people, it even hurt when I read you. I am a 31-year-old man with a ten-year relationship behind him, a marriage without a signature. You live one life, you are already on the last train, what do you think you will be up to 80. The woman at the table and understand each other as great people. If not to leave. We humans are also more resilient than cockroaches. Any restrictions and we learn to follow them, and we complain only on anonymous sites. But I don't anymore, I live my life and I'm damn happy. It's like I haven't lived before. I wish it to others.

   Well, I'm the mistress of such a rejected man, and I don't care how many people blame me. We both feel wonderful ... There is nothing better than being able to talk about everything that excites you after a good sex without hiding or hiding something ... Being yourself and not worrying about what they would do the Puritans thought of you ... Good luck

   Maybe I should share something, I'm 31 years old and I have sex with my husband once a month or once every two months, he just doesn't want to, he's still tired, otherwise he checks my phone with great jealousy, sms, three times he calls me where I am and when I will return and so on. How do you think it lasts without a man, given that I like sex a lot! No way, the lover is something normal in my opinion and who does not understand it means it's just not right with the hormones. And it is not necessary to ruin a marriage, provided that everything else is fine! Everyone has needs and must satisfy them as much as possible.

   Quite by accident I came across this topic. I am a man of 35 years. I thought that only I had this problem, but it turns out that we are many. My wife and I love each other a lot, but only that much. We have been together for 10 years, but when it comes to sex, everything is different. I tried to flirt with different women, I liked it. I believe that if I find a mistress I will save my marriage, I will be able to think about something other than that my wife does not like to have sex. And I want to do it every day with her. After all, my heart does not give. I used to be a great womanizer. Unfortunately, it comes back to me now. The more I did years ago, the less I do now ... I want to meet a woman we know why we see ... to have fun.

   45, well you decide, but now you just think so. Once you find a mistress, if she is a normal and literate girl (not like the Zlatkas of our day), you will soon develop deeper feelings and attachment to her. No way. Sex brings you closer. Once you have fallen in love with another woman, your attitude towards your wife will change. You will see that the other wants you, may fall in love with you. What are you going to do, then? You-the pragmatist who has married his youthful love, who already sees in him only the good friend, father and roommate, you - the lover? How does this fit into a life? Will you be torn between home, family and children, debt and marriage and new feelings, your desire to spend more time (in and out of bed) with your new love? You better not go to the forest if you are afraid of bears, I tell you. Once you get caught up in the dance, do you get feelings, if you start looking at your marriage as a restriction on true happiness, you are lost! (your marriage is lost)

   46, very well said. Unfortunately, the situation made me think so. This has been going on for years and I'm tired of talking the same thing every other day. If anything has changed so far, it's only been a week or two. Then the same thing and talking again. I'm tired ... I think I should try something different, whatever happens.

   I will tell my opinion. I am a man of 37 and I hardly have sex with my wife. She still doesn't want to, she's still sour. We have been arguing about this for 10 years. But now I don't want to be with her and we don't fight anymore. Otherwise, other family matters are fine. My thought is that there are no universal things in nature, ie there is no man / woman for everything. If she is a good mistress, she will be a bad housewife. If she is a good mother, she will be a bad wife. Abe is always compromising on something. So have sex with your mistress, respect your wife, look after your children and blow your whistle.

   I am the same age, a woman and with the same problem - my husband no longer wants me. And I have a lot of sex. If you know how this reluctance destroys his self-esteem. That's why I couldn't stand it and found a lover. Now I feel great, I don't feel guilty and I don't suffer from depression, the feeling of being wanted and liked is great. My husband and I don't have any other problems and I don't plan to divorce, the other man is also married with no intentions of divorce and that suits both of us perfectly.

   Well, that's how my lover and I got together. From coffee to coffee, it became clear that he had not had sex with his wife for 2 years, and I with my husband for 10. I'm not kidding at all! Can anyone blame us for deciding to correct this injustice? And who are we actually cheating on? To people with whom we have no intimate contacts.

   Direct answer to the question - Masturbation. Enough with these lovers. The foreign is foreign. It is its own

   55, what is the problem with lovers and what does foreign and one's own mean? No one is owned by anyone, so there is no one else's own.