Hello! I will spare myself the criticism, because who am I to judge you? !! Besides, I'm sure you'll get a lot of criticism, but I know that's not what you want to hear. If you want to separate, the most important thing in the first place is to find a job. According to my calculations, your child is 6 years old. That is, either go to kindergarten or preschool. 1st grade will start soon. So, this is not an obstacle to finding a job. It is an obstacle only if it is convenient for you to be so! I don't know if you have completed high school, but if you don't, you should finish it. There are evening schools for people in your position. It's not that hard. This is one of the first steps to a better life. The other thing is, there are still people who give jobs to unfinished people. True, it will not be something prestigious, rather you will even think that it is below your level, but still there is no shameful job. It's a shame to put up with your husband cursing you, beating you, etc. It's a shame to force your child to witness these scenes. Start supporting yourself, finish high school, and then look for a more lucrative job and get out of the hell you live in. You can go to your mother if this is an option. You can also look for a room for you and the child. If you are from a small town, you probably have BGN 100 each. some rooms rented by grandmothers, or something. If you are from a big city, it will be saltier, but the pay will probably be better, so the two things will overlap. If you do not want to separate, but you want to fix your relationship with your husband, the steps are the same. Finish your education, find a job. Show him that you are independent, that you can do without him. Let's get a little into the movie that might lose you, that it is not irreplaceable and unique. To realize a little, and to change his attitude. But honestly, I don't think it will work. Such people do not change. This is how you took it, this is how you will tolerate it. But, it is up to you whether you will tolerate it, or you will get out of this situation as a strong and fighting woman, who has learned the lessons of the past. There is no other way out. Sit down, think about the situation soberly, but also thoroughly. Decide if you will have the strength to fight your husband, to fight life alone. It will not be easy, even at all. But, in the end, I'm sure it will be worth it. You are still young, only 20 years old. You will meet other men, you will not be alone for long, if this is what you are afraid of. But you, for your child, must try to do everything in your power to get out of this trap. Give him a happy childhood, give him a happy and loving mother. This is what the child needs, nothing else. But, for this purpose, you have to fix your own life. No one will come, and with a magic wand, give you the life you want. It all depends on you. And the sooner you realize it, the better! Success! And, if you want to share something else, to make it easier for you, I'm on a date! Depravity
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File a domestic violence complaint with the police. There they will tell you what to do. You can seek refuge with Father Ivan. Temporarily, while you are stabilizing, there are also state shelters for mothers with children, don't put up with it, you will find a better person. The drunkenness of this one is to the grave, he is not a man.