I want to share this story because I don't think it's within the normal range and it's just that I'm left with a bad impression. I took a man from another city and we are a happy family. He hadn't seen his relatives in a year and we already had a 5-month-old baby when he could travel on vacation. His parents were divorced and then we stayed with one of his parents. However, my husband's brother realized that we would spend the night there and he was jealous. He brought his family and although there was no room, they stayed with us for a week and one child was ill. There were snot. And the fun began with my child falling asleep and waking up every 5 minutes of running and the cries of the little ones. And I was even embarrassed that we had a separate room, and the other girl did not have such privacy. But they can afford to stay whenever and however much they want, and my husband always wants to arrange everything in advance and warn. Still, I don't think it's right for my husband's brother to be jealous, because he goes to his father's every other week, and my husband goes once a year. And my mother-in-law was so sad for the child, but she came to see him twice in half an hour. He was on vacation, too. But she excused herself to relatives that when we lived in another city we were far away from her. Now her excuse was that she was making repairs.
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As far as I understand, you accuse him of jealousy, and you do not allow him to have good intentions, to spend more time with his brother, his children to get to know his aunt and uncle, his wife to get closer to the ether and find a common language, even an opportunity to become friends. You see your inconvenience, and what happened to them and yet they endured without grumbling to spend time with the whole family? And as for the mother-in-law, of course she will find reasons not to pee for a long time and often in her ex-husband's house, since you know they are divorced and she mentioned that she is doing repairs, why didn't you offer her to go out with her so that she can enjoy her grandson in peace? She may be doing repairs, she may be ashamed of the poor situation in her home, so she invented the repairs, she knows why she didn't invite you to their house,