Hello! I am an 18 year old boy and this year I am 12th grade. Since the ball is coming in a few months, I decided to invite a girl. We haven't talked much with her. Because I fell in love with her and you wait all summer to invite her and I made a surprise. While she was out of her classroom because she was in the next class, I put a rose with candy and a card in my bag that said, "Do you want to be my prom lady?" Of course I wrote who it was from. I waited all day for an answer from her. I was so happy because I had never had a boyfriend and I was glad that I took the first step, which was to overcome my fear of inviting her. The next day, before the first class, I was with my friends in her class. When I left the room, she stopped me and said she wanted to tell me her answer. Of course she tried not to hurt me and said she had a gentleman. I listened to her, smiled and said that there was no problem and that everything was fine. Yes but no. I was sad all day. I tried to pretend that everything was really fine. I had talked to my classmates for advice on what to do and they all told me not to hurry, but I was very impatient. After he cut me off, they still had a chance to get something between us or it was simply impossible. Even though she cut me off, I can't stop thinking about her. Please give me some advice. Thanks for your attention! Even though she cut me off, I can't stop thinking about her. Please give me some advice. Thanks for your attention! Even though she cut me off, I can't stop thinking about her. Please give me some advice. Thanks for your attention!
1 skslovan answered
Well, how can I tell you ... sometimes a dump lasts for YEARS, the two can go through several relationships until they finally get together, and you want something like that to be sucked for a day, even for a few hours? How do you imagine this job - you click your fingers and already "have a boyfriend"? !! I have no doubt that this is so, because your writing is full of clichés: "I took the first step", "I overcame my fear of inviting her", "she tried not to hurt me" - these are all clichés that you heard / read somewhere (maybe on this site as well), but it is obvious that you have no idea what it is really about ... So if you ask me - at the moment GIVE UP, but completely. He makes no more hints or words ... because stubbornness repulses and even frightens, disgusts. You can possibly act only after a few months, but for the prom directly forget it! "Crazy in love" was ... No matter how much you think you are in love, in 2-3 years you will forget her, even if you see her every day. If you don't see it at all - and even faster.