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Loves Or Hates?

By lizmreow June 23, 2020 8 answers Last updated June 23, 2020

Hi! When I was 20, I met a very beautiful girl. She was so beautiful, I didn't want to fall asleep because the reality I was living in for the moment was prettier than dreams. We had a relationship for about two months, then people got involved and through false rumors, intrigue, and as you know, we broke up. We broke up a little nasty on my part, blocked it in all the chats, deleted the phone number, and just stopped looking for it without giving her an explanation. After a while, I found another girl, and she changed a whole dozen boyfriends. It's been two years since then. During those two years, when we met by chance somewhere, we always greeted each other and smiled. We've even written in chats, I've invited her to meetings, of course, she always had a job and doesn't come out, but we've had long chats. But some time ago, she began to behave very strangely. When I meet her, She passes on the opposite sidewalk without anything preventing her from continuing her path (except me), or taking out her phone and starting to look at it, or starts scratching and neither says hello nor anything. She worked as a waitress at a restaurant. Once I went for coffee, when she saw me embarrassed and went to serve other customers, in the end, there was no way to serve me, but embarrassed. (story number 2) One day I went to coffee again in the same place, she was sitting at the bar on the bed and constantly turning and looking at me, from the beginning it seemed to me that I was insinuating, but the person who was with me, (he does not know we were having an affair) told me that a girl was just looking at me, and advised me to go meet me. something I said no.

 

Shortly afterward, She sat next to the bar and leaned on his shoulder and began looking at his phone, turning to me to see what I was doing, or what I was doing, given that she had a serious boyfriend. My personal opinion that he deliberately started to lean on him, as if he wanted to annoy me, but why?. (Story 3) I wanted a two-way invitation on Facebook, she didn't accept it. After a while, you ask again, she blocks me, so I can't ask her for friendship. My question to you is, and especially the ladies, can you interpret the behavior of the girl, initially there was no problem and we congratulated each other, then after a while, after about 3 years, began to behave like this. Do you think he has feelings, does he hate me? Does he love me? Am I indifferent? I can't understand her, why she's acting like this, obviously there's some emotion? Have any of you ever been to treat someone like She did with me? She's got a thousand guys on her Facebook page if she's tied up, why doesn't she want me there?

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taylorhot72_ answered · June 23, 2020
Bro, there's no other way to know here unless you ask her! Interpretations, no-gos won't help. The next time you see her, you ask her politely and with a positive mood, why she's blocking you, why she's behaving in your presence. But as I read the writing again, I think you just haven't gotten over it, and maybe a little annoying her, or she doesn't want to have any problems with the current one (by accepting in the fake exes).
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ana_keeluk answered · June 23, 2020
hey boy you're an obvious psychopath, leave the girl alone, crazy manics, it's full of them, poor girls
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sugary_sweet answered · June 23, 2020
My interpretation is this. You did super bad by cutting her off without explanation. She was confused, hurt, still in love. She went after men to try to forget you. But she still loved you, and when you saw her, she smiled to realize that there were no hard feelings, and even with some hope that something would happen again. But that kind of thing never happened, and she was alone with the pain. Hatred has begun to prevail. She realized that the only way she could try to forget you was to cut you off entirely from her life. That's why you keep your distance. What can I tell you, you've done super stupid and immature, and after all these years, you haven't even apologized to her and explained what he did. She must have loved you very much. And she probably hasn't forgotten you, but she hates you a lot. I may be wrong, but that's the feeling I have. If I were you, I'd find a way to look for her, apologize to her, something to do so she wouldn't feel so bad about what happened, because she's obviously having a hard time dealing with it on her own.
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waterfallsrainbowsmagic answered · June 23, 2020
I don't think she cares about you. G.25 years
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daantje7 answered · June 23, 2020
You're probably indifferent, after all, it's been three years, and your relationship hasn't been long that there's a lot of memories with you. Then you blocked her, why are you looking for her afterwards and offering her a friendship? If he respects himself, he'il say no. She may have thousands of FB friends, but you're an ex-boyfriend and her current girlfriend gets annoyed. Don't feed any hopes of a restart at all, and don't bother with it. I smile at colleagues and acquaintances, but that doesn't mean I have something to do with them or I want them for boyfriends.
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milfmilkhottie answered · June 23, 2020
By sending her invitations, you're institden. An ex-girlfriend sent me invitations, and he had a girlfriend. Well, I finally blocked it. There's no point digging through the past or being hypocritical. Nor does he need to look at photos and statuses with his girlfriend. I don't have to pretend to be comfortable writing to each other or asking me about my life. It's emotional harassment of a kind. So she doesn't have to be a friend, what are you for? Exchange common tales? Maybe she smiled at you because she knows you, a normal reflex. But he doesn't need to react any other way, and accept invitations. She smiled, but she remembered how you did to her, and she might get annoyed. Just don't get any more in aeration, people rarely forget the bitterness. Whatever you tell her sounds hollow and late.
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kissmur answered · June 24, 2020
I think it's because you've separated in a stupid way, without clarifying your reasons and relationships. Maybe she was talking to you at first because she felt guilty in some way about your breakup, she thought you'd look for her to get back together, and when that didn't happen in time, she reconsidered her opinion of you. And at the end of the day, why are you so keen to be friends? Do you have a conscience, what are you trying to achieve? If she was so valuable to you, you wouldn't have broken off your relationship in the first time.
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gabriel96011 answered · June 24, 2020
Nowhere in history does it say he's after her, why do you call him a psychopath? He's just interested in the girl's behavior, that they were close and then they don't know each other.
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