Hello. My boyfriend and I have been together for about half a year. Everything developed very quickly, from dating to first date, then kissing, etc. I am a girl who does not have much experience in love (he is my third boyfriend, I am 20 years old), but he has (at 22 is, not that it matters). The problem is rooted in his last relationship, which lasted 5 years. He claims that he suffered great psychological trauma. The young lady in question was a jerk, jealousy, a tramp of dignity and whatever other negatives you can think of. They broke up a few months before we left with him.
He claims that because of her he is currently afraid to fall in love again - she marked his life too fatally because he was in love with her and dedicated himself to her at that time. Relations between us are very good at the moment, but we just talked about them recently. He admitted to me some time ago that in some of our first meetings, he began to feel the thrills of love. He likes me very much, he loves me. But he's just not in love. He is afraid of being disappointed again. I feel kind of unequal because I'm in love with him and he's not. I'm anxious for this bad memory to haunt us and for me to suffer from it. He said he needed time to immerse himself in our relationship and abstract from his past.
Do you think it is possible for a person to fall in love after 5-6 months of relationship? I am very pessimistic, because usually if a person falls in love, it happens in the first months of the relationship when the interest is strongest. I don't know if I should hope in advance. And another question. In your opinion, can love without falling in love exist? he was beginning to feel the tremors of love. He likes me very much, he loves me. But he's just not in love. He is afraid of being disappointed again. I feel kind of unequal because I'm in love with him and he's not. I'm anxious for this bad memory to haunt us and for me to suffer from it. He said he needed time to immerse himself in our relationship and abstract from his past. Do you think it is possible for a person to fall in love after 5-6 months of relationship? I am very pessimistic, because usually if a person falls in love, it happens in the first months of the relationship, when the interest is strongest. I don't know if I should hope in advance. And another question. In your opinion, can love without falling in love exist? he was beginning to feel the tremors of love. He likes me very much, he loves me. But he's just not in love. He is afraid of being disappointed again. I feel kind of unequal because I'm in love with him and he's not. I'm anxious for this bad memory to haunt us and for me to suffer from it. He said he needed time to immerse himself in our relationship and abstract from his past. Do you think it is possible for a person to fall in love after 5-6 months of relationship?
I am very pessimistic, because usually if a person falls in love, it happens in the first months of the relationship when the interest is strongest. I don't know if I should hope in advance. And another question. In your opinion, can love without falling in love exist? I feel kind of unequal because I'm in love with him and he's not. I'm anxious for this bad memory to haunt us and for me to suffer from it. He said he needed time to immerse himself in our relationship and abstract from his past. Do you think it is possible for a person to fall in love after 5-6 months of relationship?
I am very pessimistic, because usually if a person falls in love, it happens in the first months of the relationship when the interest is strongest. I don't know if I should hope in advance. And another question. In your opinion, can love without falling in love exist? I feel kind of unequal because I'm in love with him and he's not. I'm anxious for this bad memory to haunt us and for me to suffer from it. He said he needed time to immerse himself in our relationship and abstract from his past. Do you think it is possible for a person to fall in love after 5-6 months of relationship? I am very pessimistic, because usually if a person falls in love, it happens in the first months of the relationship, when the interest is strongest. I don't know if I should hope in advance. And another question. In your opinion, can love without falling in love exist?
Do you think it is possible for a person to fall in love after 5-6 months of relationship? I am very pessimistic, because usually if a person falls in love, it happens in the first months of the relationship when the interest is strongest. I don't know if I should hope in advance. And another question. In your opinion, can love without falling in love exist? Do you think it is possible for a person to fall in love after 5-6 months of relationship? I am very pessimistic, because usually if a person falls in love, it happens in the first months of the relationship when the interest is strongest. I don't know if I should hope in advance. And another question. In your opinion, can love without falling in love exist?
1 afro_sapio_sexual answered
Author, with three friends at the age of 20, you have enough experience - at least in number you have surpassed much older women, if that measured the experience ... Otherwise, catch and watch your studies and work and as long as your relationship is over. . Enjoy communicating with the person you love and don't dig into his past, don't ask him to say "I love you" and take down your stars - such love is always false. Men generally find it much harder to admit their feelings to themselves - let alone the woman. He just doesn't want to promise you anything, he wants to see what happens between you - normally after his experience with the other woman. Don't worry about it, no one has been operated on out of love for such a relationship in the past. Let it develop, and with it your relationship. Over time, there will be more confidence in you and things will adjust. I'm telling you from my own experience - my husband was divorced when we met, he had a very difficult marriage behind him and it took him 3 years to say "I love you". Sometimes real things just take time. Give it to him if you love him. Love without asking for a return service and enjoy the summer, your relationship, let things develop ...