My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years, we have been living together for 3 years. I'm terribly attached to him and I can't imagine we're not together. Even soon we think we will live only alone (now we are with my parents). I'm sure he loves me too. He forgave me for the many nonsense I did and the many insults he suffered from me (I realize that sleep is difficult). He has made too many compromises. BUT we are very different. I feel like living, I want to go out, to have fun. Rather, he sticks to his career and is a homemaker. It's hard to even get him to go for a walk (mostly because he works all the time). We still have a lot of differences in character, but if I start to list them ... I spent long nights thinking about ending our relationship. I even tried to do it, but the moment he hugged me ... I melt and I can't pronounce a syllable. I don't know what to do. It doesn't even attract me sexually anymore. What keeps me with him are the warm hugs. Give advice.
1 jokiccenter answered
You do not appreciate your friend and his attitude towards you. It is right not to lie to him about your true intentions and that he is not attracted to you. You're just lying to him now. Separate, find another who, like you, will want to have fun. And with the first problem between you - he will catch another. Then you will have real fun.