Hello, I am a girl of almost 16 years. I have been liking a boy who is much older than me for a long time. He is far from me. See you from time to time. We had a relationship (not sexual). We used to write to each other, but that stopped, I don't know why. I love him very much and I don't stop thinking about him. He has a girlfriend and they are even getting married. Despite his girlfriend with whom we are friends, we still saw each other and went out to swimming pools and restaurants (of course without her knowing). I don't want him to marry her, I want him for me. I can't help but think of him. The thought of being with her drives me crazy. Please help me.
1 litransornot answered
You have to reconcile. Once he has chosen to marry her, he clearly loves her. You have no right to ruin his plans for the future and happiness just because you love him. Plus you're 15/16, and he obviously wants a family. Life is ahead of you, as are many other boys.