I am a happily married woman. I have a man with whom I have been for almost 25 years. We had good and bad moments, normal for a family. But, the moment came when I met a man, and, in the chat. From that moment on, everything went upside down. I fell in love with this man. We chat for hours every night, during the day the phone calls are for hours again. We don't have enough time. And where is the problem? In the distance! They are 400 km apart. You will say, if desired, the distances do not matter. Yes, that's right, but when I told this man that I had the opportunity to see him, he fell silent, I felt fear in him, even though he kept telling me that he loved and wanted me. If we start this topic for the meeting he is afraid. Help me, give me advice, what can I count on in this situation?
1 lili_larsen answered
don't you think it's not very normal for this person to be afraid to see each other, that can only say one thing - he's not the person he's pretending to be. This is the good thing about the internet space - a person can lie to you not for months but for years and you can't understand. I would give you advice to worry not about a stranger but about your husband with whom you have been for 25 years, and he for these 25 years and was with you honest and faithful (I hope) love your husband and leave these chats with strangers, I know that is a mess and interesting and new and someone pays attention to you and makes you feel like a woman writing and speaking kind words to you. . . but remember in the beginning with your husband was not it the same?