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June 14, 2020
2 shantal_sky answered
He wants you to look for him. Show him a wish. He's shown you enough. Everyone needs gestures, deeds! You're on the move, and you're waiting...
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June 14, 2020
3 brittany_foxx answered
He's bored. He's filling his time chatting with you.
A man who likes you would love to see you when you're in BG. Apparently, he doesn't have that desire.
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June 14, 2020
4 a_cool_friendship answered
Sounds like a typical example of a "it hurts, itches" behavior.
I think the gentleman in question doesn't want a relationship with you because of the distance, so he's trying to avoid any physical contact that we add the meetings to. But, perhaps, he thinks chats is a safe zone, and he actually enjoys writing and talking. If you see each other while you are in Bulgaria and, for example, sleep together or kiss, this will complicate the whole situation. He knows that because he's already sure you have feelings. In short, I think he's looking for at least a total multiple, an option in which he keeps you at arm's length, close enough, but safely away. When/if you come back here, I guess his attitude will become much more straightforward and clear.
You're asking what we'd do if I were you. Well, I wasn't going to be wasting time putting energy into a story that might only be possible in the future, but not specifically at the moment. I mean, I wouldn't look for him very often until I stopped looking for him at all. It's just that I can end a story at once when I have feelings. If you can, good for you, think about it. I would respond to his messages, we know each other and we're on good terms, but I wouldn't let our themes go into the romantic range or become too deep and meaningful. When I'm coming home for vacation, I'd let him know, but I wouldn't ask him out. I'd kind of put a prominent distance between me and him, because I wouldn't want to suffer and think about love when she gave up on me. If he accidentally notices and pays attention to my behavior, I would tell him in a straight text that I have feelings, but not intentions to support them, so I distance myself from him to pass me by. Respect yourself to the point where you protect your heart. I understand that his behavior confuses you and your feelings make you softer, but you can't let him play you and make you feel less meaningful. It seems extreme and infantile to block it at once without explanation and obvious reason.
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June 14, 2020
5 mack720 answered
How do you know it's not for sex? When you come to Bulgaria and see yourself, what are you doing?
I'm not messing around, but the truth is like this: a man either wants you just for sex, or he wants you for a girlfriend. The middle position is not, and it is difficult to go from the first column to the second, especially since you have already slept. If he's telling you he doesn't want a relationship, trust him.
Well, there's another situation that has to do with your question "What am I for, for interesting conversations? " Well, yes. Some men (and many women) like to constantly write with someone, where from boredom, where to pump their self-esteem. He already had you, you're not interested in taking you down, but he can use you for entertainment when he doesn't have anyone to write with. He's probably spinning a few more like that.
If you want honest advice, don't waste your time and ask him to look for explanations. If he wanted anything serious with you, he'd have taken steps a long time ago. Don't buy into writing, heart-to-heart on Facebook and a theme like that. You need to know the price and not get into movies. "Deeds, not words," as the poet said.
G22
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June 14, 2020
6 babydoll_laura answered
I think you have it, though. He's not sure about you, because once you've come to the most intimate closeness that's supposed to be the peak, the climax in some ways, you're very light, without a scar of regret, you've gone through nine mountains in the tenth to chase your education, your career... You've shown him what kind of merchandise you are and what your mentality is... How to trust you and how to show you cordiality, feelings in this situation?.. It's very clear that he's offended and that you let him down. That's why he distanced himself. If you want to fix yourself, of course, you're on. He can't make you change, that's ridiculous. If you, however, are convinced of your changed attitude, it is you who should show it to him and convince him. There is a need for a man to guess you and think and do your duty. It's incredibly cheeky.
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June 15, 2020
7 coffeegirl112 answered
Author, you're not telling us the most important thing- what exactly is his inadequate behavior? Give us an example. Give us an example and what exactly does it tell you when you're abroad?
So how do we advise you? They're all different.
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June 15, 2020
1 nyxiela answered