Love, Distance And Alogical Behavior

The Story

Hi! I need opinions as I really feel very confused and I can't tell if the time has come to end my story. In short, a young man and I met this summer, super by accident. I can't say it was love at first sight, but we started writing to each other (we were in two different cities) and we fit very well like characters. In the end, we slept (having agreed that more than that could work, because I was going abroad to study). Yes, but as a result of our daily communication, I got attached and fell into it. For the first time, I felt like this was my guy. I confessed, but I got a negative answer - the man was not OK with an idea of a long-distance connection, but he said, let's keep in touch. The last month I was in Bulgaria, I was very absurd and mean. I reconciled, left, and from the beginning of November we started writing again, if not every day, every day, two. He was the initiator of this "convergence." The happy moment came when I got back to BG for the vacation... BUT he started behaving inappropriately again and not answering me, (that bothers me the most). The first time (late summer) I thought it was my problem... And yet I can't find the logic in his actions - when I'm 2,500 miles away, and when I'm 100 - it doesn't reflect me. Isn't that the other way around? It's not about sex, I understand that. What's he need it for? Just for having interesting conversations? Now I am facing the dilemma, whether to write to him and ask him what exactly is happening and what is his problem ; whether to directly remove it with a blockage on social media (although I consider it very childish) so that I can simply move on ; whether to play interesting and play "with his stones, on his head" (not to answer him, etc)... Have any of you ever experienced anything like this? And what would you do if you were me? Thanks in advance! P. S. I'm 24, and he's 32, if the age in this story matters.

Last Updated
June 14, 2020
Author:
aranza_sexy

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