Love Between Women - Right Or Wrong?

   I do not know....! You ask difficult questions. But when you seek advice, mine is: Keep your marriage, because it is very, very difficult to build and it will be very painful for your husband to destroy it in seconds. And with the girl in question, be true and good FRIENDS, so you will both keep what you have built for so many years, and you will be close to the person you can't live without! Good luck!!!

   Just listen to your heart.

   There are generally accepted norms. I think it would be better to keep your families, raise your children and fulfill your duty as mothers and wives. As modern as it is, these are extremes and the pseudo-society accepts them. But this has nothing to do with common sense and morality. This is not about prejudice, this is about unnatural things. It is no coincidence that in nature there are female and male individuals. Love as a spiritual category YES, we must treat people with love, but carnal love between individuals of the same sex - this is against nature in general. A point of view like yours will only confuse your children. At least think about them. The personal example of the parents is very important. Why do you have to break your psyche? Is it so difficult to control yourself and focus on another object? You can be together, but not in the way you were - that is, only as communication, but not as intimate partners.

   (From the author) You must find it easy to make a decision ... thank you anyway ...

   Do as your heart tells you, not whether it's right or not. You can best make the right decision on your own, think well, talk to your girlfriend, ask her what she thinks about it.

   Be together when you love each other, there is absolutely nothing wrong, abnormal or wrong with two women loving each other and being together. Everything our heart dictates is right! Don't torment yourself, be together, be happy! It is time for all of us to get out of the generally accepted social norms, everyone is trying to change or hide the fact that he is different from the others, but everyone is unique in his own way and this must come to light. If you get together with your so-called girlfriend ... it would be a big step for you and a small but significant one for all people who are under the shackles of the norms. Success!

   About what he wrote number 3 for children: People, don't you want to break the norms? Don't we live in a free and modern country? If you want to break them, DO NOT raise your children according to them, you leave them the right to choose what to tolerate and what not.

   Are you sure that your girlfriend loves you as much as you love her, because obviously you love her really much ... is it worth the risk and effort ... think well !!! Good luck!!!

   (From the author) It is worth all the pain and effort!

   Hmm .. I read somewhere that women are bisexual by nature .. But this actually has nothing to do with the topic. My advice is to follow your heart and be who you are and what you like. We live in a free country. Everyone has the right to choose. Yes, you will hurt your husband, but better that way than lying to him and your life as a whole being a lie. You have to figure out for yourself what you want and what is best for you. Most people would think that this is selfishness, but is it selfish to be happy ?! I think you should have done something much earlier with your girlfriend, but it's never too late. I wish you luck and lots of smiles! :)

   Fight for each other .... If you love each other and feel that you want it, why hurt yourself because of some universal rules accepted ?! I have a friend and I am happy with him, you are married and you are not happy, and why can't you achieve peace and tranquility in your life? Well, and ?! Someone will rebuke you, another will praise you for your courage (I am from this group). Well, don't be afraid. After all, you are already big and you know how you can approach your relatives and friends to understand that this is your desire and what you want. The important thing is that you have tried to be normal (according to society), but this does not mean that your sexuality is a reason to point the finger. FIGHT !!! Personally, I would be happy to have friends who are against others and to assert their rights ... (I will be happy to write to me - tery_canova @ mail.

   Only number 3 gave a meaningful and adequate answer. Everyone else is sincere, well-meaning, without insults, but immature. Strange to be "open, modern, democratic, liberated" readers here tend to give advice, the truth of which they are hardly convinced !!!!! The important thing is to look "on the crest of time". If I ask them how they would react if they found out tomorrow that their mother loves another woman and leaves the family to live with her, I am 100% sure 1000% that such an ugly act and insult (as well as human shame) they would never forgive! I will advise them before giving this "smart advice" to the ladies to experience their love, to put themselves in the place of their children. Well, dear author, you had the right to choose the call of your heart (flesh), but ... before you started a family. If you don't have children yet - neither you nor she, it is HONEST not to lie to your husbands and break up with them. But if you have children, this is madness. You should have thought about it EARLIER, not now. This is my opinion - I can still write a lot, but I don't see the point. It will only end with this - if your parents were like you, you would not be in this world today - neither you nor your "love".

   (From the author) Yes dear people, thank you very much for the advice and opinions! Some things are useful to me others not. I wish at least one of you knew exactly what I was talking about. The opinion and point of view of heterosexuals is painfully clear and familiar. Even as number 13 says, those who tell us to fight ... haven't encountered anything like that up close. And already have a child! However, thank you all for your comments! Maybe you're right that this is madness ... or maybe not ...

   In the interest of truth, my opinion can be purely professional because I generally do not get along with girls .. but I can understand this type of love because there are things for some women that are impossible with men .. even feelings are on a different level and so on .. in my opinion either forget everything and be together or keep in touch without your husbands knowing ..

   Like everyone else, I would advise you to listen to your heart. And I very much agree with №15: you can keep in touch without your men knowing. In my opinion, you better not suppress your feelings ... IT IS EXTREMELY PAINFUL !!! I wish you success!!!

   Hi, I don't think this should be taken as a break of norms or something like that ... There are things that are worth it, but to what extent? You can love each other and be together, but why if you really want it, haven't you done it yet? maybe you don't really want it ... maybe you're afraid of something (I don't want to offend you with those words). For example, that this has always been your goal and once finally achieved (with your recognition in front of everyone) it becomes an accomplished goal. And then what? Once a dream comes true, it is no longer like that ... then only reality comes ...

   Darling, I fully understand you. Until recently, I denied love between the same sexes. But I've been in a relationship with another woman for almost a year now. I am married with a child, she is engaged. We always look forward to seeing each other. Several times we thought of running away, but ...... always this but. We are both exhausted - there is no solution. We just steal our time to be together. For now I leave things like that, it's hard, but .....

   Leave the student relationship, look ahead, grab your child and look ahead ... if not one day you will wake up at 48 and ask yourself "Why did I break up my marriage and leave my child without a family?"

   Hello, I fell in love with a woman at first sight in a strong and wonderful way, so I want to tell you that now I understand many things that I did not even suspect. You risk success!

   I would advise you, no matter how hard it is to break two families, to do it, precisely because I know how strong the love between two women can be ... And if you live by the rules and suffer, no one will appreciate it, they will not I will give you a medal ..

   Thanks, to all of you who are trying to give me strength ...

   Listen to your heart ... I think you should be close to the people you love and not be to the person you don't love and at the same time think about another person ... Listen to your heart .. !!! Good luck .. !

   Honey, I know how you feel because I'm in a situation like yours. With the difference that I'm not married and she has another who loves madly. She is currently torn between the two of us and does not know how to organize her life. There is not a second that I do not think about her, she is everything to me, but unfortunately I can not spend as much time with her as I want. Fight for her, despite everything and everyone! Better happy with a woman than your life with a man who can't give you what you need. Fight for love, because it is the one that gives us meaning and strength to live! I'm with you!

   I know what it's like to be in love so much and still not knowing how to do it, I completely understand you, I think you should listen to your heart and not think about other people's opinions. I hope I was useful to you!

   I regret all my life that I let her go ... If what you have between you is real and unbreakable, then follow it. Do you have to sacrifice your own happiness for the sake of the conservative Bulgarian society ?! Think about whether it's worth it. I know that making any decision is incomparably difficult, but you have to be honest first with yourself, then with others. What do you want?! If you answer this question, you know what's next. Still, don't forget that true love comes only once, don't let it fly away ... :)

   27, here he does not sacrifice him for the sake of society, but for the sake of his family. one main question - do any of you have children? if he has children and you have built a family, never spoil it. you can always see each other, look for closeness as friends, share, wish for each other ... if the feelings between you are real, they will be preserved even in this situation.

   I want to tell you to follow your heart and get together if you have to break two marriages, the most important thing is to be both. I am 16 years old. and I have such a problem only that my girl is in Kostenets, and I am 60 km away from her but I go there every day. so be with her and the only way not to hurt your family is to hide. I think I will be useful to you. Good luck!!

   If we could know the right solutions ... if only someone could tell us a little ... I broke up with her after a long struggle between the mind and the heart. Now I live in a daily lie, deceiving myself and the man next to me that something can to get up. I get up and go to bed thinking about her, I hide to cry quietly for her. I dream that we have run away and nothing matters. But the reality is different.

   Dear, I am 20 years old and I have confessed everything to my relatives and friends, it was really difficult for everyone to accept the truth, but some accepted it, others did not and they condemned me, now I am with the woman of my life. I ADVISE YOU to admit everything and be happy together from how much to destroy yourself

   Look, darling, my situation is much more confusing than yours, but I think I'm doing well with the situation I'm in for now. I myself love a woman madly, I know she loves me too, but she loves another woman. I know about it and I don't stop fighting for her love. I am married myself, but my husband knows about me as well as the other members of my family - my mother and my children. It's really hard for my mother to accept all this, but she does her best, she sees that this woman makes me happy and therefore happy for me, even though she actually wants to keep her family. I myself was very worried about how my children would accept all this, but I think I raised them well and to my surprise everything is normal, they did not hate me, the choice I made, or anything like that. Their love and attitude towards me have not changed, I have remained their beloved mother. Yes, my life is a bit confused at the moment, but I hope everything will fall into place in time. I am glad that I put the cards on the table and revealed who and what I really am, before I took this step I was suffocating, and now I can say that I am happy and free. My dear advice is to be together and be happy, life is one and live it as your heart desires. No one will admit to you that you sacrificed for someone else. Sooner or later the children go their own way and you will stay with someone you don't love and what you earn from all this, nothing, just a life that has passed before your eyes without even understanding anything from it. Be yourself, good luck! Yes, my life is a bit confused at the moment, but I hope everything will fall into place in time. I am glad that I put the cards on the table and revealed who and what I really am, before I took this step I was suffocating, and now I can say that I am happy and free. My dear advice is to be together and be happy, life is one and live it as your heart desires. No one will admit that you sacrificed for someone else. Sooner or later the children go their own way and you will stay with someone you don't love and what you earn from all this, nothing, just a life that has passed before your eyes without even understanding anything from it. Be yourself, good luck! Yes, my life is a bit confused at the moment, but I hope everything will fall into place in time. I am glad that I put the cards on the table and revealed who and what I really am, before I took this step I was suffocating, and now I can say that I am happy and free. My dear advice is to be together and be happy, life is one and live it as your heart desires. No one will admit to you that you sacrificed for someone else. Sooner or later the children go their own way and you will stay with someone you don't love and what you earn from all this, nothing, just a life that has passed before your eyes without even understanding anything from it. Be yourself, good luck! that I put the cards on the table and revealed who and what I really am, before I took this step I was suffocating, and now I can say that I am happy and free. My dear advice is to be together and be happy, life is one and live it as your heart desires. No one will admit to you that you sacrificed for someone else. Sooner or later the children go their own way and you will stay with someone you don't love and what you earn from all this, nothing, just a life that has passed before your eyes without even understanding anything from it. Be yourself, good luck! that I put the cards on the table and revealed who and what I really am, before I took this step I was suffocating, and now I can say that I am happy and free. My dear advice is to be together and be happy, life is one and live it as your heart desires. No one will admit to you that you sacrificed for someone else. Sooner or later the children go their own way and you will stay with someone you don't love and what you earn from all this, nothing, just a life that has passed before your eyes without even understanding anything from it. Be yourself, good luck! No one will admit to you that you sacrificed for someone else. Sooner or later the children go their own way and you will stay with someone you don't love and what you earn from all this, nothing, just a life that has passed before your eyes without even understanding anything from it. Be yourself, good luck! No one will admit to you that you sacrificed for someone else. Sooner or later the children go their own way and you will stay with someone you don't love and what you gain from all this, nothing, just a life that has passed before your eyes without even understanding anything from it. Be yourself, good luck!

   To the author: READ THIS! THE IMPOSSIBLE LOVE IS THE STRONGEST! Hi, I'm a young girl, and how to say I've fallen in love with both a man and a woman who is mentally and soul-wise a very masculine girl, an incredibly accurate and good man even from a certain audience of men, she's a lot dude, than the men themselves. But as long as I want, I can go to bed with any man. In mathematics there are exact laws and rules, but there are exceptions, in nature there are also laws and exceptions. For example, in human nature heterosexuality is normal because it leads to generations, but in both mathematics and nature there are exceptions / I'm talking about attraction of people of the same sex /. There are both masculine and feminine traits in every person, and you never know when it will be unlocked. Love is blind, one can fall in love with the biggest garbage, love does not ask, sometimes one wonders why fate punishes him to suffer and toil, be it for love torments, loneliness, health, financial troubles, for example, I have come to the conclusion that everyone has weight, and no one is completely happy on the contrary, every person pays for past sins. My love for this girl is very strong, and lasts more than an average marriage, that is, for 9 years, we are not together, we are seriously quarreling, long and wide. Otherwise, I think you did well, when you get married you will still leave something behind, but it is important to leave not only your seed, but to pass on your knowledge and wisdom, but if you love each other so much, why don't you see each other? from time to time, and when one of the two gets into trouble, you know you can count on each other. financial troubles, for example, I have come to the conclusion that everyone has a weight, and no one is completely happy, on the contrary, every person pays for past sins. My love for this girl is very strong, and lasts more than an average marriage, that is. for 9 years, we are not together, we are seriously quarreling, long and wide. Otherwise, I think you did well, you will still leave something behind when you get married, but it is important to leave not only your seed, but to pass on your knowledge and wisdom, but if you love each other so much, why don't you see each other? from time to time, and when one of the two gets into trouble, you know you can count on each other. financial troubles, for example, I have come to the conclusion that everyone has a weight, and no one is completely happy, on the contrary, every person pays for past sins. My love for this girl is very strong, and lasts more than an average marriage, that is. for 9 years, we are not together, we are seriously quarreling, long and wide. Otherwise, I think you did well to marry, you will still leave something behind, but it is important to leave not only your seed, but to pass on your knowledge and wisdom, but if you love each other so much, why don't you see each other? from time to time, and when one of the two gets into trouble, you know you can count on each other. and lasts more than one average marriage, that is, for 9 years, we are not together, we are seriously quarreling, long and wide. Otherwise, I think you did well, you will still leave something behind when you get married, but it is important to leave not only your seed, but to pass on your knowledge and wisdom, but if you love each other so much, why don't you see each other? from time to time, and when one of the two gets into trouble, you know you can count on each other. and lasts more than one average marriage, that is, for 9 years, we are not together, we are seriously quarreling, long and wide. Otherwise, I think you did well to marry, you will still leave something behind, but it is important to leave not only your seed, but to pass on your knowledge and wisdom, but if you love each other so much, why don't you see each other? from time to time, and when one of the two gets into trouble, you know you can count on each other.

   Choose yourself and your feelings, how much more time do you need? Do you need another 10 years to understand that there is no point in what you build after loving another person :)

   if you want to do the right thing, at least get a divorce so the other person can decide how to get along. how will you feel if you are in the place of the injured partner. lies and lies and lies again to himself and to others in both cases (in the preservation of the marriage and in the separation from the spouse), but at least the other is given a chance for a possible normal life.

   It is a pity, but our society is not yet ready to be tolerant of the different. You don't write if you have children. I think it's worth keeping your marriage because of them, if you don't - keep your love.

   In my opinion, there is no need to worry about how people will perceive you. Everyone is different, we are not drawn according to a pattern, we have different opinions of characters, namely that makes our life interesting. Do not worry about society As for your question, no one can make the right decision for you, you know 6 things that are not explained here, you know how things are with families, children and you. The situation in which you are not easy, but if you decide to act, think about others around you, especially about children, because they always suffer the most. Success in life be healthy :) :) mitaka305

   Do not obey your emotion and selfishness. Do not hurt others, because now you have responsibilities to others around you. You have endured ten years, you will endure more. Gone are the days when you could only think for yourself. If after years the children go their own way and you are left alone, without a husband, then again you will have the opportunity to think only of yourself. Now do not move, the price is too high and you will not be happy if you decide to pay it. The grief you will cause will make your life bitter forever.

   Number 38 who are you to tell others how to live, the author will live as she wants, not as you want, do not impose your opinion. In words, everything is very easy, the fact that you fall in love with another woman does not mean that he is selfish, there are many people who have families, but at the same time are either homosexual, and even heterosexuals regularly cheat on each other. To love does not mean to be selfish, or maybe you do not know what the word means, 1 -what she is will NEVER abandon her children, regardless of their orientation, and 2nd her life is hers, not your job. AND THOSE WHO ARE AGAINST THE SEXUAL AND HOMOSEXUAL WOMEN CAN TELL THEM, BUT IN FACT THAT EVERY MAN'S DREAM IS TO SEE TWO MY GIRLS. Every 20 women would be sexual, or at least once had an attraction or something to do with another woman, most women do not even admit it to themselves due to societal pressure. If society were more understanding, more women would reveal themselves, as I know many women who fall in love with men but occasionally go to one of their playmates. There are many celebrities who would be sexual but have a family and are married to a person of the opposite sex, for example Fergie she is married to Josh Duhamel, another, another Angelina Jolie to Brother Pitt and many others have had a rendezvous with representatives of their gender, not to mention the millions of women who do not admit it. but from time to time they go to one of their playmates. There are many celebrities who would be sexual but have a family and are married to a person of the opposite sex, for example Fergie she is married to Josh Duhamel, another, another Angelina Jolie to Brother Pitt and many others have had a rendezvous with representatives of their gender, not to mention the millions of women who do not admit it. but from time to time they go to one of their playmates. There are many celebrities who would be sexual but have a family and are married to a person of the opposite sex, for example Fergie she is married to Josh Duhamel, another, another Angelina Jolie to Brother Pitt and many others have had a rendezvous with representatives of their gender, not to mention the millions of women who do not admit it.

   Once you get here, keep going and don't look back. To think in time. Do not break the psyche of so many people for your own selfishness. And if you can't do that in any other way, keep in touch with the girl in question, but don't spoil anything else. In time, you will dine on your own, that she will run out on her own.

   NUMBER 40 LOVING SOMEONE IS NOT SELFISHNESS !!!! A true love like theirs cannot be exhausted, their love is strong and holy, the years prove it, 10 years of loving a person is a long time, a significant trace that remains forever. What does it mean for a love to run out - to end, maybe death would separate them ..... Ha, 10 years, so they don't sing about such love in movies and folk songs. Number 40, to tell the author that she is selfish, you are obviously against the opposite, and you discriminate, you obviously do not consider people to be bi or homosexual, I guess you are hetero and you do not understand people like us, you think that we have affairs for fun, and we do not feel real and strong feelings

   If you are a lesbian, be with another woman. Don't live for people's opinions. Let them look at their feelings and emotions. If you are bisexual keep your marriage. What is the problem with seeing this woman and having an intimate relationship? Normal men do not consider the sex of their halves with another woman to be infidelity. They are even interested. As long as their partner doesn't ignore them because of the other woman. There are so many people in your situation :) Experience your feelings. If you do not love the man next to you, divorce. If you love your husband, but also the other woman, be with both. And everything is temporary. Even if at first someone points a finger at you and blows you away, then he will get bored. The current generation of people are more broad-minded, even heterosexual. Those who are scandalized are over 45 years old. But let's not forget. Everyone has done something that can be pointed at. One cheated,

   You can be together in another country where people have no prejudices and will not be ridiculed. In Bulgaria you can also be together, but you will be condemned and hated not so much because you are a female couple, but because you have the courage and freedom to be together. People will say all sorts of things - both true and false, loved ones will be ashamed, and it is possible that they will deny you. Why not consider the option of going to work abroad? For in front of the families as friends, and there what you will do is your job and you don't need anyone here to know. You will always come up with something to leave - she has no money, she has no job. At least you won't ruin your families. If your heart wants it, you can't help it. But do it in a way you won't regret later. I am angry with those who in the comments above tell you to be together. Ok. There's nothing wrong with that, but they just want to see you. You know what a Bulgarian is. And it is not known whether this is not just an attraction to each other. Maybe over time the passion will subside and gradually disappear. Therefore, families should not be victims and destroyed by your relationships. I hope you make the right decision. Don't stop writing about how things are going - it's an interesting and meaningful topic! From real life.

   I am a 24-year-old woman and I think that if I find out that my mother is getting married, I will hardly survive it !!!

   I am a woman of 21 and if I find out that my mother falls for women, I will not care.

   45, and if you understand that your father falls for men?

   Well, 46, exactly the same. I don't want my parents to define my personal life, so I wouldn't allow myself to set the tone for theirs.

   It's hard to say what's right and what's wrong. There are so many wrong, dishonest and horrible things these days. If you truly love each other and you are destined to be together - this will happen. It is very relative whether it is right, on the one hand - no, because you will break your family, on the other hand it is right, because you will be happy .. Personally, I would recommend you to talk to her about it and then decide together what to you are doing it in the future .. It is really difficult, but .. A person is as he is. I wish you success and I hope things get better! :) * Bubble *

   Number 47, theoretically sounds PERFECT, but it is unlikely that if you are a hero, you will experience it with such indifference!

   In fact, 49, I'm straight and I REALLY think so. Everyone has a priority value - for one family comfort, for another security, for a third piety, for a fourth something else. For me, the most important thing is freedom. It costs more than love, friendship, morality and everything you can think of. Because I want it too badly, I'm so good at giving it to others in full. If my parents, my sister, my grandmother want to have lovers, to become homo, to sleep with Negroes and Chinese ... their job. I may be surprised at first, but that's all. Personal life, therefore, is personal. It's just that these things don't happen on my territory, I don't command there. In addition, everyone who loves their parents would like to see them happy, but this does not necessarily mean together.

   NUMBER 43 I am angry with those who in the comments above tell you to be together. Ok. There's nothing wrong with that, but they just want to see you. You know what a Bulgarian is. ABE, NONSENSE TO WATCH SEIRA, DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH PEOPLE ARE EXCITED BY HER PERSONAL LIFE, they just advise her to listen to her heart, because life is one, and it will be a pity to live it in a lie. In Bulgaria, and anywhere, there will always be people who understand it, and those who will not accept it, yes, but there will be those who will understand it, and these people will not necessarily be from the LGBT community, there are also many heterosexuals who treat different people with understanding, being different does not make you a bad person. And those who do not accept people of different sexual orientations, no matter how much they insult them, no matter how much they slander them, no matter how much they spit on them, will not stop being with the man, whom they want, because everyone is free to be with whomever he wants. THEY, AND IF YOU WILL TAKE THE BACK PARTS OUT OF ANGER THAT THE AUTHOR HAS A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER WOMAN, THEY WILL NOT MAKE HER SEPARATE WITH HER, BECAUSE, WHEN THEY HAVE LYATOVO , people recently read how a lesbian couple saved 40 young people in Norway. SUCCESS to the author! :)

   I am a man. I had a girlfriend with whom we were together for many years in difficulties and joys. He left me for a woman. Am I disappointed? Yes. I have never spoken to or heard from her since. But still, even from the inside, I was happy for her because she found true happiness. Naturally, for some women this is a temporary phenomenon and after less than a year he called me again (things didn't work out with the girl he was with). Well, I didn't look at her that way before. The situation with the author of the topic is quite difficult. Whether to destroy a family or follow the impulse of your heart. I look at things pragmatically. Let's say the person she buys to be with is a man, not a woman. The question here is whether a family should be ruined because of this. I am certain, that just what she experiences and happens to her is a temporary phenomenon (common in women). They saw the other girl and old passions erupted and she is confused now. Believe me, if it was for 10 years this topic would not exist. There are few people who would stand so long apart from each other without swallowing it.