Love At First Sight-sojuyeon_

Hello, a confused 23-year-old girl writes to you. So, I met a boy at the place where I work and maybe from the first or second time, when our eyes met, I was attracted to him ... and now I think that I'm in love! :) In my work the team is large - over 200 people, I have no friends and you can say that the first 2-3 weeks I looked at most of the boys, but in particular I was attracted by one. I detect it either when I come or leave work, or in the chair where I go down to lunch. He sometimes comes alone, sometimes with colleagues and is quite talkative with them, but he has not talked to me yet. The first time I saw him I was wondering - why is he staring at me like that? !! And the next few times we saw him, I watched him — and he looked at me, but for minutes, not seconds. I found it interesting when I first sat down at my table, where I had lunch with another girl. He listened to our conversation, but did not join. I went down to the chair alone to see if we accidentally came across him, he could come sit next to me and talk, but no ... he sits in the distance at a table and watches me from there ... I have the feeling that maintains distance. And when I talk to someone else, he sits at the next table and listens to our conversation, but without getting involved. That's what happened when another boy was sitting down to lunch with me, and he took me down - I was trying to talk to him about some common topics, about work, and he first asked me where I was going out and if I wanted to go for coffee sometime, when I refused, he invited me to go for a walk, if I don't want to go for a walk, maybe to a disco, I was ashamed and I didn't say anything to him ... and I don't like him either. And my man was at the next table listening to everything! How did I know he was listening, like we were talking to this one, who was sitting down to lunch with me, I mentioned that the colleague at the next table was more in tune with the things his department was doing. I heard only one big sigh and felt that he stopped having lunch for 2-3 minutes ... He is an Aquarius and as far as I read in the forums, they are quite distant and strange people. I am Libra and in principle we should not have problems in communication, but something does not work out for us. I got scared and "searched" for him on Facebook and wrote to him "I was wondering if we hadn't seen each other somewhere, eg at work": D quite clichéd, but he still answered me immediately. We exchanged 4-5 lines, mostly who works in which department and that was our conversation 1 month ago ... Nothing since. I see him again, we exchange a look, but he doesn't dare talk to me, and I don't dare to talk to him. I'm generally nice, but shy, and yet I took the first step. It annoys me a lot! And we have no common acquaintances for now from colleagues or friends to ask about him - he's supposed to be talkative, but it's as if he swallowed a cane ... And I'm confused. I feel like he likes me too, but he hasn't shown it to me yet. It just holds my door when we hit the entrance / exit. Cavalier .. but what of that, one hello does not say,. I'm tormented and I don't know what to do. And so it has been for 6-7 months. / I found out a lot about him - where he studied, then he followed, where he is from, what his friends are like, his family, his ex-boyfriend, that he is single ... I made a fake profile for this purpose. Don't judge me - when you're in love, you do stupid things! Immediately accepted a friendship, I had put a picture of my cousin with a fake name: D. I think, no matter how shy a man is, if he really likes you, will he come to you alone or at least make some effort to talk to you? Don't you think so ??? So far I have only had 2 boyfriends, but I have not had a serious relationship, and by serious I mean living with a boy. I want the person next to me to be not only my boyfriend, but also my friend. ADVISE ME What to do if you still read the whole story, even when we disagree I think I could sometimes say "hello" to him, but as soon as he notices that I'm looking at him, he looks away: (((strange man! I wonder if it's still worth hoping for something or not? 1 month has passed since our first conversation on Facebook, but he hasn't written to me since then, so I took a final measure - I blocked it, so I don't suffer anymore Why should I know so much about him, since there is no contact, communication and conversation live! Thanks in advance by serious I mean to live with a boy. I want the person next to me to be not only my boyfriend, but also my friend. ADVISE ME What to do if you still read the whole story, even when we disagree I think I could sometimes say "hello" to him, but as soon as he notices that I'm looking at him, he looks away: (((strange man! I wonder if it's still worth hoping for something or not? 1 month has passed since our first conversation on Facebook, but he hasn't written to me since then, so I took a final measure - I blocked it, so I don't suffer anymore Why should I know so much about him, since there is no contact, communication and conversation live! Thanks in advance by serious I mean to live with a boy. I want the person next to me to be not only my boyfriend, but also my friend. ADVISE ME What to do if you still read the whole story, even when we disagree I think I could sometimes say "hello" to him, but as soon as he notices that I'm looking at him, he looks away: (((strange man! I wonder if it's still worth hoping for something or not? 1 month has passed since our first conversation on Facebook, but he hasn't written to me since then, so I took a final measure - I blocked it, so I don't suffer anymore Why should I know so much about him, since there is no contact, communication and conversation live! Thanks in advance Why should I know so much about him, since there is no contact, communication and conversation live! thanks in advance Why should I know so much about him, since there is no contact, communication and conversation live! thanks in advance