Hello! I am currently at the end of a rather long and painful relationship because of the distance. I am a student in a country close to Bulgaria, and my friend works in a more distant country. We have been together for 4 years and it is very difficult for us with our rare visions for 2 weeks. We've been thinking about breaking up for a while, or rather I can't go on like this. I'm looking for other boys, I'm used to not having a boyfriend anymore. But I have fears that whatever I do, I will end up in such a situation. In the fall I had a new acquaintance, I had returned to my hometown for 2 weeks and went to some courses. I met a boy who had also returned for a short time. I liked it, he looked good, he was smart, he didn't smoke, he had a sense of humor that matched mine. We got along for a short time, we got along, and he liked me (noticeable), but I didn't tell him anything, we only saw each other as friends, but there was an attraction. These 2 weeks passed, I left, .. he went to another city, then abroad .. (I just know that nothing can happen and I stay away.) We keep in touch on Facebook, we write to each other from time to time , he told me that he had found a girlfriend with whom they were currently away. I didn't tell him about my experience with these relationships, and I didn't tell him why I stayed away from him when we saw each other. If two people do not have any common plans, it cannot happen. My friend is coming on vacation now, we discuss this a lot with the separation, and he wants to talk in person. This will pass, I will be left alone, "free" and at the same time closed from the distance, I am still not in Bulgaria, and I do not like the boys here, the language is also a barrier, I can not relax. I have a feeling, that I miss a lot, I'm sure there is a great choice, although many of them are idiots, I'm lucky and I go to places where decent guys can meet. Which are already busy because I haven't hired someone to be real with, not just in my imagination. F22
1 officiallybratayley answered
So how do you plan to live in this country where you are when you don't like people? Have the courage to start with someone, even if you are at a distance, because then you will still be able to build a plan together and find a place for both of you.