The title says it all. I'm a young man, but I feel like a retiree. I'm lonely and I don't know what to do to change it. I try everything - I constantly talk to girls, go on dates, etc., but when it comes to the final part, ie the more serious commitment and things fail. Sometimes I wonder if the problem is not in me. I watch my acquaintances, friends, find girls and feel happy. I'm tired of being alone and doing what I can to change it. I support myself, I invest in myself, I strive to develop, but no matter what I do, I'm still not good and interesting enough. Sometimes, when left alone at night, I cry. I don't feel like living that way. I try everything. Many people say - do not think so. But I can't push a button and stop feeling that way.
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So am I, even though I have a child and an ex-wife. I'm also not very liked and I'm tired of chasing the standards - humor, money, appearance, hobbies, etc. I'm tired, I'll just have personal pleasure, obviously we are not charismatic.