Hello. I wanted to present to you one of my stories that happened to me in the last two months. I met a man on a dating site. Everything was completely normal in the beginning. We talked a lot on Skype, then on the phones for 1 month. He ended up with a child and his wife died in an accident. He is also a boxer and his lifestyle is radically different from mine. He has lived through it since his childhood. All the time I thought he was a man who knew what he wanted and how to achieve it. We started going out. He is not from my city, but this was not a problem for him, because the distance is about 30 minutes. We saw each other for a month, not every day, but we talked about it constantly. We shared many things. But later, during the meetings, I felt that he was saving some truths from what he was doing. I felt he was hiding things. He was also in prison twice for beating, which he admitted. He admitted that since the death of his wife he had no relationship with a woman, etc. I believed him in these things. But I started watching everything he does and says ... The movie was starting to get full. It started to get pretty criminal for me. He shouted at bodies, threatened. And I, for my part, ask him what's up, and he kept saying that this is a pig business and he can't help but have such a tone on his body. He went to boxing matches, which he made me go to, but I refused. After a month of walking, he became more and more confused. I no longer knew if I wanted a serious relationship with him, but we still wanted a lot and we did.
Was great. The next day it was gritty talking again, he said he was very much in love and so on. n. as before. We were very happy. At least that's what it looked like. But still, I decided to do a test because of these doubts about what kind of person he was constantly worried about me. One day I decided to join him on Skype, under a different name. I introduced myself as a girl from aha (by the way, we had promised before not to write to people from there and he promised me that we would not write to anyone anymore, after a scandal, of course). He tied himself up. He said he was alone, that he had no relationship, etc. He even said he divorced his wife, that she did not die in an accident, etc. I no longer know what is true and what is not. I was affected by the fact that he said that he had not met a decent person yet, and this was not the case because he told me that he had found something wonderful in my face, he promised many things, he said that he fell in love with me, that he wanted to we have a common future it. n.
Eventually, he found out she was my friend and I told him it was a rehearsal. He began to explain that he knew he had spoken on purpose, and so on. Of course, I didn't believe him. I said there was no point in calling me again, and he said ok. He doesn't fight after that or anything. He obviously saw how emphatic I was because I told him we would either be honest with each other or we wouldn't be together. He had some rumors about some of his lies, and he knew that if there was another blunder on his part, we wouldn't be together. And despite the fact that he is guilty, he did not call and did not fight at all.
After seven, he called me and said that he missed my voice, etc. I spoke in general and so on. Nothing since then. And I keep wondering what it was all about. Did he just use me, why doesn't he fight for me anymore? I do not know. What do you think? I'm very confused. I know he's not human to me, but I miss talking to him. When you think about it, all the people on these sites are lying a lot about whether he's one of those people, who, when they achieve what they want, run away? In the end, what I did is good, because it could have lied to me for years. I miss. I'm sorry I don't know if all this was real or not? What do you think...???
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"He was in prison twice for beating, which he admitted. "Darling, light a candle in the church because you got rid of it lightly and softly. You even had good sex. Forget about this man, because not every guy like that is so harmless - be glad he didn't beat you. It's gotten so much better, don't look for him and don't answer his calls, etc. Hope he's actually found another fool if you don't want to be his full-time punching bag. And I hope you've learned - don't trust these guys anymore, for God's sake. You are very naive and the web is full of guys who use fools like you! If the sex was OK, rejoice - at least they didn't use you in bed. But if you want more than sex, you have to change