Hi, First of all, you shouldn't blame yourself for anything. This is a disease for which you are not to blame. The man you slept with is not guilty either. Such things happen, I'm almost sure he didn't know. And that doesn't make you a less valuable person. Second - in 90% of cases the body clears the virus within two years. It is not a life sentence. My friend has HPV. He told me before we went to bed. But I decided I wanted to be with her in spite of everything. Her lesions had been removed with some scorch shortly before we met. The doctor said that the virus is transmitted skin to skin and once the external manifestations are treated, the risk of infection is small. There are also techniques with which to further reduce - during sex I do not take off my underwear, but just take my penis through the gap of the boxers and put on a condom. In this way we avoid skin-to-skin contact. She goes for preventive check-ups and we have decided that if changes are noticed again, we should stop having sex until they are removed. I avoid having oral sex with her, and if I do, I cover her with a cut condom. I will not lie to you, it creates a lot of difficulties, but to a large extent it is also how you accept things. I would not trade my girlfriend for another woman, regardless of her health problems. We agreed to wait as long as necessary for her body to clear the virus. Yes, you will have to avoid casual sexual contact so as not to risk the health of the other, but if someone really falls in love with you, the virus will not be a problem. it creates a lot of difficulties, but to a large extent it is also how you accept things. I would not trade my girlfriend for another woman, regardless of her health problems. We agreed to wait as long as necessary for her body to clear the virus. Yes, you will have to avoid casual sexual contact so as not to risk the health of the other, but if someone really falls in love with you, the virus will not be a problem. it creates a lot of difficulties, but to a large extent it is also how you accept things. I would not trade my girlfriend for another woman, regardless of her health problems. We agreed to wait as long as necessary for her body to clear the virus. Yes, you will have to avoid casual sexual contact so as not to risk the health of the other, but if someone really falls in love with you, the virus will not be a problem.
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Hi, First of all, you shouldn't blame yourself for anything. This is a disease for which you are not to blame. The man you slept with is not guilty either. Such things happen, I'm almost sure he didn't know. And that doesn't make you a less valuable person. Second - in 90% of cases the body clears the virus within two years. It is not a life sentence. My friend has HPV. He told me before we went to bed. But I decided I wanted to be with her in spite of everything. Her lesions had been removed with some scorch shortly before we met. The doctor said that the virus is transmitted skin to skin and once the external manifestations are treated, the risk of infection is small. There are also techniques with which to further reduce - during sex I do not take off my underwear, but just take my penis through the gap of the boxers and put on a condom. In this way we avoid skin-to-skin contact. She goes for preventive check-ups and we have decided that if changes are noticed again, we should stop having sex until they are removed. I avoid having oral sex with her, and if I do, I cover her with a cut condom. I will not lie to you, it creates a lot of difficulties, but to a large extent it is also how you accept things. I would not trade my girlfriend for another woman, regardless of her health problems. We agreed to wait as long as necessary for her body to clear the virus. Yes, you will have to avoid casual sexual contact so as not to risk the health of the other, but if someone really falls in love with you, the virus will not be a problem. it creates a lot of difficulties, but to a large extent it is also how you accept things. I would not trade my girlfriend for another woman, regardless of her health problems. We agreed to wait as long as necessary for her body to clear the virus. Yes, you will have to avoid casual sexual contact so as not to risk the health of the other, but if someone really falls in love with you, the virus will not be a problem. it creates a lot of difficulties, but to a large extent it is also how you accept things. I would not trade my girlfriend for another woman, regardless of her health problems. We agreed to wait as long as necessary for her body to clear the virus. Yes, you will have to avoid casual sexual contact so as not to risk the health of the other, but if someone really falls in love with you, the virus will not be a problem.