Hello! I found out I was a lesbian 2 years ago. I fell in love with a girl, fortunately she fell in love with me !!! Our relationship lasted a long time, but a boy fell head over heels in love with me. Once he invited me to a disco, I of course accepted. We got drunk. We went to his house and he undressed me. He pushed me onto the bed. We had great sex. The next day I saw my girlfriend and I couldn't look her in the eye, I felt terrible because of what happened last night. I'm honest, but this time I didn't dare tell her. We were not so close anymore. Over time, we moved further and further away. I have strong feelings for the 2nd as well. What to do? Should I tell her? Which of the two should I choose?
1 dm_oesterreich answered
Difficult choice. But when you say that you are no longer so close with your girlfriend, maybe you should let things go with the boy. Listen to your heart, decide which of the two you feel better with, and act. Just one piece of advice - I respect honesty, but if you've been with this girl for a long time, maybe such a revelation would hurt her a lot ...