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2 stanleykubrick answered
M at 36 Try to adjust to more erotic and sexy lingerie, try some novelties in sex that you haven't done and you know that he likes it, sometimes when you have sex try to pee a little I think he would get aroused and maybe you will find a way to do it you are interested in him wishing you
3 lower73 answered
Hi, I'm your age too. It strikes me that you are quite nervous and bilious in your comments about him. You say yourself that you are fighting. Believe me, he is no less nervous than you and understands not only from things said directly, but also from hints. He just pretends not to understand because he is nervous and doesn't care, and that suppresses libido. I also quarreled with my partner, after 5 minutes he started unbuttoning my pants, but it was still boiling and boiling inside me. Then I refused sex or we did, but it never worked. I don't know what you're doing in bed, but honestly, I haven't read anything impressive about your abilities, just muttering about how passive he is. An excited person, 30 years old, cannot be passive. You just don't turn him on. By no means do I want to justify it in my own words. He also has to put in more effort and not be so passive, but when he doesn't want you ... it's harder. You have to act on an emotional basis. To make him feel good mentally. To relax, not to be stressed and to wait for you to stop muttering. Be more balanced, sexy, feminine, change something in yourself, buy cool lingerie, buy him one of those sex games that are played by two (there are also some in bookstores). Diversify with something. It is so easy for a woman to seduce a man. Just be a slut and you won't be able to lift your pants from sex ... buy cool lingerie, buy him some of those sex games that are played by two (there are also some in bookstores). Diversify with something. It is so easy for a woman to seduce a man. Just be a slut and you won't be able to lift your pants from sex ... buy cool lingerie, buy him some of those sex games that are played by two (there are also some in bookstores). Diversify with something. It is so easy for a woman to seduce a man. Just be a slut and you won't be able to lift your pants from sex ...
4 CelesteMillerX answered
In the first place, stop being your ideal wife. Let him help you in cleaning, in looking after the children. You rest. And you can't want him to be sexual if he's not. In general, it's important for a man to see if you understand each other financially and if you have the same sexuality. You do not fit the second indicator. There is nothing left for you but to stop handling it for sex. It may not be possible anymore. And that's how you complex it. I don't know, in the extreme case you found something side ..
5 larabhupathi answered
Lack of communication is the scourge of modern couples. Talk to him about what you wrote here, but more delicately by saving some unpleasant details. Find out if he doesn't like sex, is overworked or something. A vacation with a break somewhere can also work well for you. In the end, do not rule out the possibility of breaking. If he is experienced in this area, he can do it from the very beginning of your relationship without realizing it, which is why you lack the usual indications of a sharp change in behavior.
6 saki1524 answered
Do you know the reason? You press on him regularly and why the hell do you go to bed naked with him? Make him want to undress you. A product that is always offered to me is not interesting to me! When I look at you, only sex is in your head. Be cold, be inaccessible, be passive, maybe that's how things will turn out? At the age of 30, shouldn't you have settled down a bit? Always go to bed with him, make him want you with your beautiful inaccessibility and undress you, Good luck! CT
7 triglyph answered
Well, for the first time I hear of a naked man with a naked woman next to him kissing and caressing him and he falls asleep! . I think he pretends to be asleep to avoid sex. There is another.
8 suzanne7311 answered
And I think there is another. He asked a friend, brother, cousin to pretend to be a private detective and then put the evidence on the table.
9 sweet_milk__ answered
Why should I go to bed with clothes? I've been used to sleeping naked for a long time, long before I started having sex. For me, the two have nothing in common, and when I sleep alone at home I sleep naked. Why should he comply with him, so that the gentleman doesn't accidentally think that he is being offered?
10 biankalove21 answered
And I think there is a third party involved in the relationship, which explains the behavior!
11 cutie_asia18 answered
Hello, it's the same here. A large percentage of men have more young children, regardless of the fact that you mainly take care of them. I struggled with this for 3 years, I tried everything, from doing all the work myself from the arousal to the whole act of being on top, I tried to be inaccessible ... everything. It wasn't a conversation, it wasn't a miracle. He's still tired, he's beating me up, he's not trying, sex is boring at times. And for those who have already prepared their stones to measure me with them, I will encourage them by saying that I just found a lover and solved my problem. I had become a ball of nerves from the lack of attention, now I'm extra. I have a man who adores me and has put my orgasm first and one who, when he thinks of me, is welcome. I am calm, cheerful and kinder to my husband, I don't get attached to petty pickpockets and our relationship is definitely better. I have to admit that as much as my lover kisses me in a week, my husband doesn't kiss me in a year. They are losing us like that, dear gentlemen, with indifference! I sincerely hope that this will be just a period and one day my husband will be the man I married and I will not need another. Unfortunately, I became convinced that complete surrender to others and neglect of yourself does you no good. You have to be a little selfish to save yourself mentally and physically and raise your children without being a wreck at 40! Success! whom I have married and will not need another. Unfortunately, I became convinced that total surrender to others and neglect of yourself does you no good. You have to be a little selfish to save yourself mentally and physically and raise your children without being a wreck at 40! Success! whom I married and I will not need another. Unfortunately, I became convinced that total surrender to others and neglect of yourself does you no good. You have to be a little selfish to save yourself mentally and physically and raise your children without being a wreck at 40! Success!
12 Lintower answered
I don't think there is another. For there to be another, there must be a radical change in behavior, unjustified absences, and other very obvious things. I think this option is out of the question. Regarding the idea that I don't have any qualities in bed, it's a bit like shooting in the dark, but let it go ... it's bad for men, because some of you don't like women, they break you! It is a pity that you are depreciated at 30 and you keep getting more, while that is the case you will have badzhans. I love my husband and I don't want to break up my family for sex, but as # 11 said, the lack of sex affects mood and nerves, etc. My idea is why one side should always try and invest while the other consumes without effort? !! ... There are many similar stories here and my example is not a precedent. And, up to # 6, I'm not a commodity and I'm not offered!
13 slowjerk55 answered
Author, don't be so sure that there is no other. This radical change in attitude, unjustified absences and other "obvious" things, as you put it, are just folklore and have nothing to do with reality. The only true symptom is the lack of sex. This is the truth, the other is Boshlaf. My husband did not change his attitude towards me at all, he did not have unjustified absences, he was caring and attentive. Just in the evening after work he stopped by the car and with a colleague inside. 10-15 minutes for a quick sex and hop, here it is, he was coming home on time. You had dinner and, like your husband, snored blissfully. It never occurred to him to have sex with me. So again, don't be so sure. There is nothing certain in this life - you do not know where it will come from.
14 amirkarara answered
The author's beliefs that there is no other are very good, until it turns out the opposite. As I mentioned above, if he cheated from the beginning, you will not feel a change in his behavior, and if he is cunning enough he would not use written communication. Did you still talk to him that you need attention and sex, that it affects you badly, that you don't feel wanted and loved, etc.? Men generally like to be told everything in plain text, and although you have been eloquent enough in your actions, it would rather make him think that you are interested in sex in itself, without realizing that you feel emotionally neglected.
15 katiealex answered
Emmy, the same with me, only I'm a man of 28. My wife after giving birth is not the same (she didn't want much before), and our child is almost 3 years old. I know how it is, and it's even more "nice" when he pushes you, says he doesn't want to, not now, not later. How can you not lose your desire ... Then some disease there, a fungus and so on for several months. I personally can't give you advice, I'm in a very similar situation. I act on my own, but I already think that if I find someone else, I will have sex with her. Well, you're a human being too ... And that's about the tension ... Who isn't under tension nowadays? !! For some it is eternal, however, and it strains others ... Number 11. There is indifference in the opposite direction, and let me tell you, the child while he is very young is ok, it is difficult, but if he grows up, there is no excuse. Only, that it is always more important for my wife to make the pot and wash the floor (I help her in everything, I have to say before someone attacks me), instead of spending 10 minutes on me. I wish the author success, whatever she decides, I hope it's for the best! I hope you are more determined than me, good luck!
16 zj10 answered
Interestingly, most people think there should be another ... as we can see # 15 is on the same ledge only as a man. I have not completely ruled out the possibility of having another, but I do not believe it. I'm jealous and I check things out just in case. He may not write to anyone, or he may write - when he catches it (if)! I will write that it was because it was broken. What torments me is that you give a lot and receive nothing. He has never been very sexual, but in recent months things have died down. I have talked to him many times about this, but nothing has changed. Every relationship has its ups and downs. I've never sexually harassed him, although that's what it looks like here. You can't help but get tired of courting the person next to you when it's mostly one-sided. I even think that since I gave birth to my second child, I am even more motivated not to get involved in a routine. As I said, the sad thing is that there are many like me who give, give and their halves consume and that irritates and pleases. I have no idea what the reason is, but when it weighs on you, you can't be ok. Thanks for the comments. The author.
17 GoddessHoney answered
Do you use any contraceptives? Maybe he just doesn't want more kids, and it's easier for him to refuse you sex than to tell you in plain text.
18 amandajanejones answered
Well, # 17 we use of course. After all, we are responsible people. I personally do not want more children and this has never been a problem. He is rather boring and lazy and is used to me acting. This irritates me and I'm tired. I say again that we have sex, but by my standards not enough. I think he is boring and inert. I also say that I offer special dinners at least once a week, followed by courtship until we reach the happy ending, where he feels loved and wanted. And I do not know when I will feel like that ... It's like I'm his mother and I have to I breastfeed and take care of ..., otherwise he knows how to teach me what to do in life and everyday life. I want the roles to be reversed and he to take care of me, because soon the baby will grow up and I will not be sure of him with a child in his arms from morning to night.
19 tsaniamarwa54 answered
I'm in the same situation as yours, only I'm a man. For a 7-year relationship, my girlfriend took the initiative for sex 5 (FIVE) times! I am 1.92 cm tall, 88 kg, it is quite a sporty body, women often look at me. To top it all off, I'm gifted, about 20 cm wide ... and I have a pretty high libido, I endure a lot - I've been doing cardio for years. My perfect friend with the appearance of Mila Kunis, Western education and a hell of a good character told me ... "It's not all sex." When I "attacked" her at night, it often happened that I felt that he was doing it only for me ... without any desire on her part. This led to a moment when she slept in the other room, and I masturbated, because I know that there is no desire ... no passion. And so a seemingly perfect relationship ... for which friends and acquaintances, parents, all said we were a perfect couple, in fact, he was very lame. I tried many things, we went through many dramas and tears, but it didn't work out and we broke up. Is anyone to blame? I'm not sure ... It's easiest to say "she didn't want us to have sex". At the same time, she could say "He wanted too much." People have different levels of libido. It is true that after a while we freeze and the passion subsides, ie the relationship cannot be built only by "sex". However, for one to masturbate in the other room and for the other to sleep, it DOES NOT WORK. The sexual needs of the partners next to us are our concern ... if we can't satisfy them, we should let them seek their happiness elsewhere. Sad, but such is life. The sexual needs of the partners next to us are our concern ... if we can't satisfy them, we should let them seek their happiness elsewhere. Sad, but such is life. The sexual needs of the partners next to us are our concern ... if we can't satisfy them, we should let them seek their happiness elsewhere. Sad, but such is life.
20 saraxcam answered
# 19 is absolutely right. A relationship cannot be built only on sex, but the opposite is also true. There can be only love and respect without any caresses. It is important for a couple to be sexually matched. Maybe some of the relationships fall apart because, despite seeing the incompatibility in the partner, they expect something to change over time, but some people are just different. After all, if a person really cares about someone, they can keep in touch with them and if they end their relationship with mutual understanding. Author of you, I will say that this is not the person for you and you have already understood it. You have even decided what actions to take, but to do such things behind someone's back is low. Be open, explicitly tell him that these things are hurting your relationship. If after such a comment you do not receive understanding, it is clear that he does not want to invest anything more in your relationship. It doesn't matter if he just stopped loving you or found another. Keep in mind that his verbal aggression is actually a sharp change in character. One does not behave like that with someone he loves. I was in a similar situation and although there was no infidelity, I regret to admit that I misbehaved with the girl who had feelings for me, I was annoyed by her desire to pay attention to her, and so on.
21 catalinapsy answered
To the author and number 11. I was the lover of just such a woman as you - sexually dissatisfied with her husband. I myself have been divorced for years and have no worries about these relationships. Our relationship was emotional and sexual. There were no unnecessary feelings, she didn't want a divorce, and I didn't want to get a little more involved. Everything seemed to be clear in the relationship between us. We kept in touch for three years and finally her husband found out. A cruel and bloody divorce ensued. Her husband did not accept any explanations or remorse from her. Her 17-year-old son went to live with her husband, and she stayed with her 12-year-old daughter. In addition, she was sentenced to pay her husband's share for the family home, which was provided to her by the court. She failed to pay him with one salary. There was a lien on her salary. Mentally she collapsed, clung to me like a straw drowning man, she didn't care so much about sex anymore, she wanted support, understanding, sympathy and what not. At first I put up with her and got into a position. In the end, however, I got tired and delicately lost it. We had no appointment for engagements in such a situation, and she was sure there would be no problem with her husband. After we broke up, she openly hated me and almost accused me of seducing her and ruining her marriage. It was difficult for me to deal with the situation, but I managed, even though it took me time and nerves. So here are some tips: 1. Dear sexually dissatisfied married ladies, when you cheat, keep in mind that sooner or later our husbands will understand and will not get into a situation, no matter how perfect wives you are at home. Your divorce is imminent, and will you have the courage and dignity not to bother your lovers with your problems? I guarantee you that after the divorce you will not have sex, you will be interested in completely different problems. 2. Dear men, do not deal and do not be lovers of married wives. They are confused emotional beings who both do not want to divorce and want to be sexually satisfied. Well, the Bulgarian proverb: "there is no option to the end and the soul in heaven" (sorry) fully corresponds to the case. Dear men, you don't have to be the emotional plug of anyone's married woman. To know sex with a married woman is great, but until a time when her husband understands. Then sex acquires other dimensions .... In Bulgaria there are many divorced women who have large children and a person can really have a healthy and functional relationship . Good luck to all and smart!
22 azusaiy answered
My wife and I have the opposite!
23 dutch_friend_x answered
22 / male 45. I fully share your opinion regarding point 2. It applies to both sexes. I myself was also the mistress of a married man for almost 10 years. I was very young, I studied, I worked very hard, because I supported myself 100% in the big city and I didn't have time for men in general. I also wanted to build a career, to have a good job, because I come from a poor family and I didn't want to create one myself. The married man won me over with great difficulty, with a lot of charm, conversation and attention. I also knew his wife and it was obvious that their marriage was just a formality because of the children, and his wife, to put it mildly, was not a very social individual, but a woman with great self-confidence and rude behavior towards her husband and others. Over time, I liked him. There was chemistry between us from the beginning. I thought that for me at this stage of life such a relationship is good, because I will have time for the more important things and goals in life, and at the same time I will not be completely without a man. Yes, but over time, feelings came from both sides, the man spent almost every night in my apartment and even ate at my place, had personal belongings and clothes in my apartment. However, he did not want to divorce for the sake of the children, and it was clear that he had to part with a large part of his hard-earned property, and his wife did not work in practice, but was a "businesswoman" for pleasure. For me, however, the years passed. I gave him an ultimatum and moved out to live in another city and imagine - he actually divorced because of me and now we have been officially together for almost 5 years, we have been married for 1 year and so on. But the difference with your case is that my friend was ready to take responsibility and your mistress was not. His children, too, had grown up and soon went their separate ways. Your girlfriend was also not obliged to pay for her ex-husband's apartment, but she was able to move to an apartment, sell the apartment and take 50% of the money. No one is to blame. Already as a woman with experience and at a certain age, I would advise no one to be a lover of married people. You always become a vent for a failed marriage and the whole relationship is at your expense. You get very little and are sucked emotionally, sexually and mentally, and the chances of a married man divorcing are very small. Likely to stay with you too. The risk is also high that you end up stealing a towel as the "bad" seducer. I, too, would never cheat. If I'm not happy, I'll divorce, but I respect the man next to me enough not to make fun of him.
24 helgapeppa answered
Dear madam, my wife and I have been together for 17 years. My libido significantly exceeds that of my wife. For these 17 years, despite all my efforts, I have not achieved absolutely NO change in terms of our intimate life. In fact, there is a change - sex, as far as there is, is becoming rarer and more unsatisfactory. My advice is - ACCEPT your situation and RECONCILE. You will NOT have regular and quality sex with your husband, regardless of your efforts. In case you cannot come to terms with such a situation, look for another solution that is fair and acceptable to all parties. It will be painful in all cases, but better a terrible ending than an endless horror. I sincerely wish you success.
25 couple8383_ answered
Yes, I began to realize that there was no point in tormenting myself. We have talked many times since I wrote here, but there is no significant change. I wouldn't want to harass him and push him away with my puppies, so I'll put up with it. Taking stock, I see that he has never really been so sexual comparing things at the moment. Maybe I should accept him as he is (unless he cheats on me - in which case I will have to castrate him while he sleeps)! Haha Thanks for the comments. The author.
26 _sophie_livingstone_ answered
How exactly did you discuss it? Did you explain to him that this situation affects you badly emotionally? If he is not interested in your happiness, then he does not love you, but he has simply seen in you a housewife who can give birth to him and raise children. In my opinion, he has already lost interest in you anyway, you can hardly repel him more. If in the end "because of the children" you do not want to part with it, you can buy a replacement toy. This will make it easier for you to avoid the option of resorting to infidelity. And if your husband accidentally finds it, you just feel that he has a job he can't do.
27 iamsoup2 answered
# 28 if I buy a toy I don't care how I would react! Regarding infidelity, I do not intend for the moment, if I get there I will hardly write here. We have commented many times, I have already explained 5 times that sex is not absent, it is just not enough at least for me. Because of the children I do not sit, I do not even used as an argument. I love him, I respect him, he takes care of us, he never left me alone in difficulties and ... sex doesn't work. It may be temporary, it may not be - we will live and see. Marriage is always a compromise, otherwise it can't last long.
28 kkyyhh77 answered
I am a man of 32 years. Married for 4 years. with a child of 2. My wife and I do not have sex more than 4-5 times a month. She pushes me (not as much as you), seduces me, etc. She is caring, a good housewife, a good mother ... But for a year I have had a sexual relationship with a girl of 22. Even when we met at work, I he wanted me to knock her to the floor and tear her apart from sex. This is instinct! It works so hard that I can't control myself. I embarked on this adventure and having sex with my wife was left behind. I know, I'm not right at all, but I'm freaking out about the physical intimacy with this girl. I'm not in love. Just an animal instinct. My wife doesn't know. I gave her no reason to doubt. I respect her and I don't want this nonsense of mine to hurt her. I see the other one either on the lunch break or I leave work a little earlier and we go somewhere for a quick ... Well, author,
29 lacouple22 answered
n. 30 is the typical example that when a man goes to cheat, you can't catch him. That's why I don't follow my husband at all, and we're not even Facebook friends. I told him only one thing - if you are going to find lovers / outings, it should not be at my expense! If it doesn't satisfy me, he has no right to a mistress :) During a vacation he wanted to go for a "happy" massage and I didn't mind. He came back quite happy and we had great sex, but then he decided to go again and was disappointed. In my opinion, everyone has their own body and can make choices in this regard, but I have two conditions - you owe your spouse protection from sexually transmitted diseases and what 30 does not fulfill - you owe your partner sexual gratification and fulfillment of marital obligations . For example, I'm monogamous, I don't want to date other men for sex and my husband doesn't want to date other men - that's why he has to satisfy me sexually. Then he must satisfy me, regardless of his animal desires for some women. It is quite normal in a long relationship to experience some saturation, boredom, but this will also occur in the next relationship. The secret of a happy, long marriage and family is to have quality and regular sex. Whoever thinks that he will be able to ignore his partner and get away from him is lying. Someday the other will find something sideways and you will separate long marriage and family is to have quality and regular sex. Whoever thinks that he will be able to ignore his partner and get away from him is lying. Someday the other will find something sideways and you will separate long marriage and family is to have quality and regular sex. Whoever thinks that he will be able to ignore his partner and get away from him is lying. Someday the other will find something sideways and you will separate
30 MaddisonClaire answered
Up to # 30 - men like you disgust me. You are obviously proud of your "achievements". It is obvious that you are primary and the bird is more important than the family. As for the baseness - I hope you at least use a condom so that you don't stick something on your wife. How low has 1 man fallen to hide during lunch breaks in kenefs and cars to cheat on the woman who gave life to your child .... If you were my husband and I found out I would poison you with antifreeze or more bad - I'll take everything from you (if you're not barefoot and naked like most complex adulterers). You will pay every day for your choice. Reason distinguishes us from animals, but if instinct is leading in you - you are clear to me !! Don't think that your wife doesn't know, she probably feels what a husband she is. Many women choose to swallow or not dig because they know they will not leave their husbands and infidelity would only hurt them! You will always miss something - in the car, in the phone, on the computer ..., he will reach into one of your pockets, he will find a note ... do you understand sooner or later. I wish your wife, who greets you in the evening with the child, who is by your side, for better or for worse (and not until you lose her temper), to find out about your exploits and to scatter you in the courts. I wish every adulterer to die alone, because everyone makes a choice. And everyone should be responsible for their actions !! I am rude in this comment, because for me infidelity is the lowest act in human relations ... which is beside you, both in good and in evil (and not until you lose x * ya) to find out about your exploits and to scatter you in the courts. I wish every adulterer to die alone, because everyone makes a choice. And everyone should be responsible for their actions !! I am rude in this comment, because for me infidelity is the lowest act in human relations ... which is beside you, both in good and in evil (and not until you lose x * ya) to find out about your exploits and to scatter you in the courts. I wish every adulterer to die alone, because everyone makes a choice. And everyone should be responsible for their actions !! I am rude in this comment, because for me infidelity is the lowest act in human relations ...
31 paul42023 answered
Find a good lover just for sex
32 iloveemilfs answered
Amy is either not very sexual, as she put it, or she doesn't want you for some reason, or she probably has another. In any case, offer him toys, something like that, and if he stays like a stump even then, then the problem is serious. And either you have to look for another man, or at least someone who will make you tremble just when you see him :)
33 sweet_cherry99 answered
33. Men smell like a cuckoo like you and there is no smoke;) Did she scatter it in the courts haha? Only in the dreams of a screaming feminist. Such a law was introduced during the communist era in 1956 and was later repealed due to its great stupidity. You can't make anyone force you. You can gain a lot of weight and stop attracting your husband and he wants a child, he turns him on ... in court the defense will be - well, she got fat and I couldn't do it haha. You women are not from this planet.
34 paulinaslonce answered
My advice is to talk to him that he is not doing enough. Instead of complaining here, tell him. Explain how serious it is. When I was with my ex, I never refused her and I tried to keep her happy so that she wouldn't go to someone else. These are quite personal problems, but they should still be discussed with the partner to resolve them if possible.
35 renegade57 answered
M39 I have been in a relationship for 5 years without marriage and very rarely my girlfriend wanted me or attacked me for sex, as I did her. Certain types of women can provoke me to be dirty in sex and make my animal. Our sex is several times a month in a hurry. I think that sexuality in a relationship affects relationships not only at home but also outside. Quality and regular sex with desire leads to satisfaction and this is reflected everywhere, and vice versa. You will definitely never see a sullen and tense guy who had sex two hours ago. On the contrary, he will be smiling, lively and cheerful. I'm for side links. Just use a condom and choose your partners carefully, even on an energy level. Think about how many people we pass on the street and how many of them are like us ... eager for adventure and new horizons.
36 amyandsteph answered
I totally agree with number 1. And don't tell your best friend. If you can't stand it, you better tell your mother, she won't betray you. You chose a non-sexual man. Men, for the most part, are either women or women. It will be very difficult for you to find a perfect loving, caring husband and everything. That's more in the movies. I am 28 years old, I have been with dozens of men. Those who offer a serious relationship are like your husband. Those who are gifted and are great lovers do not want a serious relationship. In this case, you won a family and a child at the expense of good sex. After giving birth, women part ways. Think about this option as well. I don't think there is infidelity. Your husband has been like that before. You can try talking to him. I hope it has an effect!
37 kartikmurali answered
I don't think you have much experience in bed either. A woman who loves sex will never marry such a man. From the very beginning, it is obvious whether someone is sexual or not. What worries you. I don't think it's the lack of sex. Rather, you worry that there will be no other. Well, I would reassure you. You found a non-sexual man, apparently this has suited you so far. You look like a man who would give up sex in the name of love. For reference, if someone doesn't have sex with me regularly, we can't become boyfriends, let alone husbands. How suddenly this became a problem for you ...
38 liokz1 answered
Why not make the following attempt. Stop looking for your husband for sex until he realizes and is looking for you. And when he looks for you, he pretends to be distracted. Stop teasing him at all until he feels it and wants it. If he doesn't show interest and activity again, look for something outside, and let him stay dry! But don't hang on to it at all. Like he won't, he won't, it's his job. A young woman will always find a lover outside. So what. Beauty does not happen by force. Since your husband cannot fulfill his marital duties and cannot satisfy you, then it is time for you to seek your happiness outside. Just look around, surely someone else likes you. It's not that hard. You will not stay hungry !!!
39 jeremyroach10 answered
dump him if he doesn't have sex what's wrong with you you'll go crazy with dissatisfaction I'm 45 years old and I constantly fuck the problem is in him lie down on me naked in bed to see what it's like to be fucked by foreign men
40 giumoriconi answered
From the Author: With the last 3, 4 comments I am most inclined to agree. Up to numbers 40 and 41 - I do not consider myself an inexperienced person, I am rather a person of compromise. Before we live together, you know how it is - dating, romance, nonsense, sex is the main thing and if you are not together every day it is very clear that when you are you will do enough. Now it bothers me because I'm afraid that while I'm devoted to the children (and especially the baby) he will growl outside, because it's much easier than trying with your wife. We have talked many times and I have already got used to this norm 4, 5 times a month. The man is not so sexual, what to do. Up to number 42, but now the tactics are like that - I don't tease him, I don't ask, I don't offer. When I have sought to act, I have not given up until now. And if he wants ... if I'm happy he has sex, if I'm not - healthy. I'm tired of trying to take something, it doesn't work. Now I do not expect anything, but I do not seize the initiative. To number 43 - I'm already going to bed in my pajamas. It's played. Who the fuck is going to bed!
1 spilleroftea answered
I support you in the fact that these problems are between the two of you and it is not right to spread them among relatives and acquaintances, perhaps only with your best friend. You have chosen a wife as you are with the idea of changing him. However, this never happens. Whatever man you take, such a man you get. It cannot be changed. However, it is good in a neutral environment, just the two of you as you discuss the problem with him. How does he plan to drive her, because when he chose you, he knew that you were sexual and he also had to show some diligence. Talk about his desires in sex, because even if you make an effort, he may have other fantasies. Do not blame and attack him, but listen to him. I don't think it's good to hide in the corners with a lover. It is always better to work on your relationship / marriage and a lie never leads to anything good.