Lack Of Sex On The Part Of My Husband

   Um, I hear a lot of women complain about that. Find a way to make him want to do it yourself. Or seriously talk to him that this is a problem for you and you want to try. Start fitness in your free time together - it will both strengthen the relationship and you will do something useful. Run in the park too. It's good. I don't know about sex, there may be a problem, but he may be ashamed to share, or he may be at an age when he is not having sex, or he may be really stressed. And he was really convinced that there was no other. Take the topic seriously to see that this is really a problem for you.

   Without wanting to be rude or hurt you, I think that if you make oral love to him all the time, he can't refuse you and you will awaken the sexual in him. n. with a man of 25 years

   Yes, the stomach interferes. If you are fashionable and well-maintained, it is natural to want him to be like that. If he is suspicious of you, it may be because he is clearly aware that he is not at your level now and before. Invite him every day, I hope you find the real cause of laziness in bed, here you will come across similar topics, but you have to get to the truth yourself. And if you really don't have enough, find a lover, don't let the years go by. You must be to blame for his big belly, who knows how well you cook. :)

   Honey, there's probably no other, because the belly was unlikely to grow, and you let go of your detective skills and learn if it's happening outside your home. Sometimes we over-trust ourselves too much.

   I will write you how to solve the problem. Provoke him and seduce him - this is the solution! For example, go home more naked, maybe even in thongs, give him hugs, kisses, massages, provoke him with sexy movements, watch erotic movies (not porn), make him French love without asking him and any things you consider that they may increase his sexual desire. It's good to mention age. However, if it is a 50-year-old man, it is normal to have some decline in his sexual desire and abilities.

   Oh, I had such a problem in the past. Well, nothing helped, what female numbers ... in the end he had just started to "beat" the numbers. Neither quality nor quantity. When I got tired of it, I started to look at myself and sigh quite openly at the eye-catching male specimens. At first jealousy, my dear .... I behaved like these tanned men on the streets. One day I come home and hear a terrible snort from the door. I shout to myself: here's mine, now I've caught him because there are still no forces for me. I enter the living room "naezhena", ours threw himself on the floor, made some funny movements (supposedly facial supports), reddened the ridge. Naturally, I immediately pretended to be very impressed, I took a wet look at ... the place where it is assumed that there should still be tiles and then down. He was naked, obviously to see the "rising" of the muscles. I started inviting him to snort :))) The rest is history, since then he knows and trains regularly. Sometimes I "pinch" him thinly, compare him with others on the outside, I don't want him to decide that he is too amazing for only one woman;))) You are your wife! Act!

   From personal experience - fatigue and problems crush a lot. Most likely it is, and with a child it is not easy. When it appears, nothing is the same.

   Experiment in sex, for example, with handcuffs and other similar things.

   Your problem, author, does not come from your husband's laziness or laziness. Proof of this are the many fat men sex maniacs, and the fact that the lazy are not lazy just to eat, drink and have sex. Just because your job is more responsible doesn't mean more stress! In your high-paying job, it can also stress him out, as a man he feels, to bring a little money from his wife. If you tell him straight in the eye that you earn more, it just steps on him. The man's instinct is maintained by the woman next to him. Almost every wife finds a way to arouse her husband as many times as she needs. The problem with you is that your husband has stress, the opposite of stress is calm. You are the person who has to offer peace, find a way to calm him down.

   If the problem started in your head, you would say what you think, how you feel, and we would help you. In this case, it's all in his head, but we can't know what, because he's not here to say how he feels. We can only guess, because theoretically the reasons can be thousands - health problems, worries, boredom, mistress, the reason may be in you, etc., etc. Therefore, you need to talk to him, to predispose him and if he decides he will tell you.

   Same here. We don't want to talk, we don't want sex, we don't want anything. He seems to be bored. It's stuck to the computer and there's no fix. He became jealous and suspicious. Like a dog that doesn't eat bone, but doesn't give it to anyone else. I haven't thought of anyone else, I love him and I don't know what to do in such a situation. Is sex a mirage?

   I personally could not solve this problem with my ex, and as with you, I was under stress, and he was just lazy. For 2 years I put up with his nonsense, I walked unsatisfied, I talked, I begged, I threatened, I talked again - I can't do it, like a donkey on a bridge. I'm sorry for every second I've endured this sexual laziness of his. If you find a recipe for fixes share though.

   Where does this world go with a sexy bride the man does not want? There is something rotten here. I have two kids and hard work you want, and I have sex all the time (yes my wife is very sexy). He even jokes that I'm a sex maniac because I always want to. It's really good if you provoke him too, but even if he doesn't want to (and has no medical problem) NO MAN IS THIS. It's like he doesn't like sweets, but you don't eat anything you adore. If you don't wake up, you go to the "confectionery" and when you get excited ...... you like "tolumbi", you like "eclairs", don't you remember ..... Sex is the only free fun in this expensive place. The men waited, and that's it. Tell him that if it doesn't work, you start the neighbors with a house book. Hey, I just got mad. People of old age make love, and this young bride leaves unsatisfied! Then there was infidelity! There will be it, as there are such snails.

   I am a man of 30 and I have sex with my wife most of the time 2 times a day we have been married for 7, 5 years now she is pregnant for the second time her breasts have become full which excites me even more I don't know what the problem is with your husband but with me sex I have a big weakness, I hope your relationship gets better, don't be in a hurry to cheat, everything may fall into place

   Many men in Bulgaria and around the world are experiencing a deterioration in sex life and sperm quality. They are not always related, sexually active men may have severely deteriorated sperm counts. However, there is a massive worldwide deterioration of both. Here are quotes from official sources: "The reproductive health of the average man is declining sharply, writes the Independent. Between 1989 and 2005, the average sperm count, according to the study, decreased by 1/3, which increases the risk of infertility. healthy sperm also decreased by 1/3, says author Jeremy Lawrence. "In fact, sperm quality has deteriorated so severely that there are almost no sperm donors left to meet the criteria.

So, statements like those of Number 16, how could a man not have been valid for a time when he lived in a cleaner environment and real things were eaten, not chemistry. And the same real food now is on the "BIO" shelf and still not what it should be. Men's readings and sexual dysfunctions have been deteriorating rapidly over the past 2-3 decades. After another 2-3 the situation will be even worse, get used to it. Everywhere they write about some of the causes, such as stress, bad food and "E-tata", lack of exercise, cigarettes and alcohol ... but there is no mention of the real and biggest cause of the problem. Americans have known the cause for many years. There is a whole documentary about it and everyone can watch it. The film is about a small town in the United States, where a plant using certain chemicals is nearby. As a result, no boys are born in the whole city at all. If he is born he is either stillborn or soon dies of disability. This is not a fabrication, but a real city and there are only women there who work for the factories in question. It is well known who the chemical is and is well studied by scientists. Moreover, when it enters the body, in addition to causing cancer, diabetes also confuses hormones in the body. I will only tell you that every day each of us is in constant contact with the chemical and takes a dose of it. It accumulates over time in the body. It is everywhere and used in many everyday things. For example, it's in the plastic of the mouse you're crawling, it's in the bottled water you drink, it's in the baby products, it's in the cans, it's in the clothes, it's in the toothbrush you use. ,, in the pen you are holding. It is gradually released and enters the human body and accumulates over time. This is the chemical Killer with a capital letter, called Bisphenol A and this is well known by scientists. It is found not only in almost all plastic products, but also in many other products. It is a major cause of cancer and diabetes. Some hospitals and schools in the United States have banned the sale of products containing Bisphenol A. And if you are wondering if its use is intentional, there are harmless substitutes for this chemical. But to curb overpopulation, something that wars and diseases have done before has had to use this "cunning" approach. They do not even deny the purpose. There's an interview, there's a recording where people say they're going to use this and other methods, like food supplements, as well as some of the vaccines in order to reduce the population and contain overpopulation. K-Man

   Our educator - "Stone" and what is the moral of your post?

   The author. Remember when you try everything that follows? it made sense for someone else to tell you. From now on your husband will have sex, camels after 3 5 or 10 years. He forgot to get well, you hated him and he took you for granted. You know WHAT to do in the future, right? !!

   №11, enough with this nonsense - I'll do a thousand acrobatics for him to remember! And does it occur to you that a woman likes this and just stops doing anything? It's the big dondurka in every respect of these fragile creatures men - starting with their mothers, who do not stop while they are alive, go to girlfriends, wives and get to dondurka and sex! That there is a reason for all the work - there is. And very often it turns out to be just laziness, yes, laziness in terms of sex. He probably won't refuse oral love - because he won't bother, of course!

   Number 19, neither my name is Kamen, nor am I trying to give morality. If you haven't read it well, my post clearly shows that it is purely informative and is intended to inform people where a problem comes from. I don't see why the word "morality" should interfere in my comment, since it has nothing to do with it. K-Man

   Perfect "K-Man"! Yes, but global problems cannot be solved unless we all try to do so! This cannot be done, but at least people should think about it! I don't mind the Americans ... but I have their global policy and their manipulative outbursts everywhere! "The Middle and Far East", "Latin America", that even Europe. In my opinion, however, all this is due to all people! An alternative would be to limit global birth rates while covering mortality. Something like "Man, even if he lives well, dies and another is born, one is born". For Bulgaria, as well as for the "European Union" itself (which for me has ended as an institution) it is good to increase the birth rate, because the European race is disappearing, and the situation with the Slavs and the Bulgarian genome is even worse. The warriors who are being fought are local (at least for now, thank God, but until when?), Because there are deterrents such as China and especially Russia, which have a lobby in the world game, otherwise the United States has long ago done "liver shit" "Syria and Iran. Yes, but these are NOT their problems, but problems on a local basis ..., between different ethnic groups, fundamental factions and corruption, as well as religious reasons! If there is anything to be decided, it is only between people in this local era, but not with the help of the United States and Britain in particular. If they try (however, they were afraid, because the glass of good wine overflows), then they will see the great bloody sword and the devastating consequences that it can have on a global scale. Basta, it's time for diplomacy, it's time for peace ..., but until when ??? It all depends on ourselves. Love each other and take care of your health !!! Libra

   to 22 of 19. Apparently my speech was arrogant. I apologize - you did not deserve this attitude from strangers and anonymous. It turned out that I expected more from your comment. What is it about - in the topic of the woman there is only one sentence ending with a question mark. I assumed that in any comment, the goal should be to help the writers, not to show what we have read, like the Enlighteners. You have written some information about something that may be related to the case in question. Regarding "morality" - you obviously did not understand my point of view. And it is: in every speech there must be a message to the recipient. At school it was called the "main idea". Whether it will eventually be helpful or the effect will be zero is beyond the scope of this topic. In this case, lean towards the latter. This with "Stone"

   Same thing with me, only with my wife. We have been together for many years, with children, I have been tormented by this problem for years. Nothing helps. Sometimes there are flashes in the tunnel for a short time and then the same thing. Now that I feel like it, I hit a villain and finish the question. Take care of yourself as best you can - masturbation, lover, divorce ... don't rely on yours.

   First I apologize for the deviation from the topic, but my previous comment is something like an answer! Now essentially! For sex I guess there is no problem with it! He sees that you are sexual! Besides, you're sexy ... how could she not want you! He wants you too! The question, however, remains that sometimes he wants to surprise him with sexy lingerie (not always to be super naked), maybe a little more sporty, with a legging or a skirt, with socks or tights! Why not try different options! Sometimes, for example, you can serve him to undress yourself ..., to try in different places as well!

   When I read somewhere that a man who doesn't want sex, his wife has to almost stab a feather in the back to arouse him, and only she has to make an effort to arouse his desire, startled me. Most men are unlikely to give in to this effort if their wives do not want sex, but will run away. Women should do the same, especially since it is much easier for them to find a partner for sex, as their husband pushes them away. No one is obliged to suffer and sit dry, because his partner does not make a gram of effort to fix something that is his fault, especially if it is laziness. A sexy woman will pretend to be interesting and untouchable. Let him see that you are wanted by other men and that he does not want sex with you, others want - will he still have this?

   "16. Where does this world go with a sexy bride the man doesn't want? There's something rotten here." !? №16, you pretend to be very open, so I turn to you. By sexy bride, what do you mean, to have long legs, big breasts, a beautiful face, lush hair and a poplar body, is that it? If only that, in the sex shops there are such wonderful "BARBIE" dolls that no Bulgarian can compare with them, even in terms of functions in bed. Unfortunately, these "sexy brides" (sexy for you) do not have the most important quality, they can not think, they are a dead matter. Which man will live the matter, if he is dealing with a simple (excuse me ladies, not all of them are) woman who gives herself ratings for sex appeal, who writes illiterately, and that means simple thinking. Take a look at how literate most posts are written, created by women. I'd rather deal with the ugliest, but also the smartest and most intelligent woman than with the "sexy brides" that №16 wants! The more beautiful a woman is, but not sufficiently educated, the more disgusting she is. Advice to the ladies (they are not obliged to take it and apply it), just as you take care of your external beauty and vanity, it is more important to take care of your inner purity, spirituality and most of all morality. So far I have not met women to comment on these qualities, they are always flawless, others are to blame for everything, they never find fault in themselves, and it is this arrogance that kills the desire to communicate in men. All the complaining women, before living with their husbands, cooed and fluttered like butterflies, and then, when they had already climbed on their heads, the great complaint began, grumbling and resentment. I can still write a lot, but I will get bored. Dear women, a man becomes what you make him be. If you had been sincere since the beginning of your relationship, if your mutual feelings were real, you would not be writing in such forums now, but you would enjoy happy families. Apparently, from the very beginning you were looking for and hoping that your husband would be a sex machine, an ATM, if he is deaf and dumb, even better. YES, but NO, you will not find such men, and the fact that you are afraid that you would look for lovers, in most cases, you only create additional problems.

It would be fairer if your normal life is not satisfactory, leave your husband's home with dignity, and not after you have become the subject of other men. The clever one thinks before, not after the events! a man becomes what you make him be. If you had been sincere since the beginning of your relationship, if your mutual feelings were real, you would not be writing in such forums now, but you would enjoy happy families. Apparently, from the very beginning you were looking for and hoping that your husband would be a sex machine, an ATM, if he is deaf and dumb, even better. YES, but NO, you will not find such men, and the fact that you are afraid that you would look for lovers, in most cases, you only create additional problems. It would be fairer if your normal life is not satisfactory, leave your husband's home with dignity, and not after you have become the subject of other men. The clever one thinks before, not after the events! a man becomes what you make him be. If you had been sincere since the beginning of your relationship, if your mutual feelings were real, you would not be writing in such forums now, but you would enjoy happy families. Apparently, from the very beginning you were looking for and hoping that your husband would be a sex machine, an ATM,

if he is deaf and dumb, even better. YES, but NO, you will not find such men, and the fact that you are afraid that you would look for lovers, in most cases, you only create additional problems. It would be fairer if your normal life is not satisfactory, leave your husband's home with dignity, and not after you have become the subject of other men. The clever one thinks before, not after the events! now you would not write in such forums, but you would enjoy happy families. Apparently, from the very beginning you were looking for and hoping that your husband would be a sex machine, an ATM, if he is deaf and dumb, even better. YES, but NO, you will not find such men, and the fact that you are afraid that you would look for lovers, in most cases, you only create additional problems. It would be fairer if your normal life is not satisfactory, leave your husband's home with dignity, and not after you have become the subject of other men. The clever one thinks before, not after the events! now you would not write in such forums, but you would enjoy happy families. Apparently, from the very beginning you were looking for and hoping that your husband would be a sex machine, an ATM, if he is deaf and dumb, even better. YES, but NO, you will not find such men, and the fact that you are afraid that you would look for lovers, in most cases, you only create additional problems. It would be fairer if your normal life is not satisfactory, leave your husband's home with dignity, and not after you have become the subject of other men. The clever one thinks before, not after the events! in most cases you only create additional problems. It would be fairer if your normal life is not satisfactory, leave your husband's home with dignity, and not after you have become the subject of other men. The clever one thinks before, not after the events! in most cases you only create additional problems. It would be fairer if your normal life is not satisfactory, leave your husband's home with dignity, and not after you have become the subject of other men. The clever one thinks before, not after the events!

   Aren't there other joys and pleasures in this life that you can worsen your mood because of some sex. Well, I personally would never cheat if the problem was just a lack of sex. Because if I really love someone and I know that he also loves me - I would feel as if I have everything. There are so many other things you can do together, diversify your life, and then, believe me, sex will return. Love gives a bunch of opportunities, and they are the keys to the rest. I hope you understand me. Iris

   27, and I, when I read that the woman did not want sex, the man? should he almost take her to another planet or not? buy a spaceship to get aroused and only he has to make an effort to arouse the desire ?, I shudder.The problem is hardly in gender.As you can see there are topics here where both sexes complain about the same thing.

   Dear educated 28, learn how to write a comparative and excellent degree in the Bulgarian language and then explain to everyone else how stupid they are. As for the rest of your post - for millennia men have not been able to understand what women want, but you, with your intelligence and erudition in one sentence, listed what women were looking for in a man. Given how much malice you have accumulated towards the fairer sex, obviously your conclusion did not do you much good. From a woman waiting to be bought a spaceship (the latter made me laugh sincerely)

   30, I have not read similar opinions from women, unlike the opinions of men. Shiver as much as you want, just do not leave your wife without sex, because wanting pain for her. If my husband refused me sex, I wouldn't want spaceships and various interplanetary trips, but I would get what I needed with another man. Easy and simple. The hero of the topic is only asked to tighten up and realize that there is a woman next to him, and sexy and wanted by other men. What kind of way will he not want sex with a cool and sexy woman, especially if it is his? !!

   Number 32, this statement is more than funny - "What kind of way will he not want sex with a cool and sexy woman, especially if it is his ?!". This statement alone denies that man is a human being who has his own emotions and feelings. The man is not a robot, nor a vibrator, which, at the sight of a "sexy" woman, automatically gets an erection according to a program and starts vibrating. A man's sexual desire depends on his emotional and mental state. For a happy sex life, it is not at all important that his partner is "sexy". As "sexy" as she is, if she behaves disgustingly, she at least repulses the man. If a man feels unloved, rejected, criticized, hated by his partner, it immediately reflects on his sexual desire for her. And she can then put on the sexiest clothes and wonder why the "man" does not work as expected of him. A man's desire for sex with a woman also depends on how much he loves or is in love, and this very much depends on the woman's attitude towards him. It's not the same whether you have sex with someone you love or someone you don't care about, even hate. Of course, the things said apply in full force to the woman. I will quote a famous sexologist - "Throughout my practice and all these years I have learned that the most effective pill for male impotence is the love and care of the partner. Impotence is often mental and is the result of accumulated insult and emotional alienation." Number 32, you deny in your words that man is a human being, that his sexual desire also depends on his feelings. Instead, you have equated half of humanity with a vibrator. To a soulless machine without feelings and emotions, unable to love, and which only at the sight of a "sexy" woman should be activated immediately. And if it does not start, then there is a problem with this machine "man" and can not be called "man". And for the words "even more so if it's his ?!" I will remind you that many men, precisely because they are "their own" and lose interest. I no longer feel like explaining long-known things. There is enough literature on the subject, you just have to read. K-Man

   32, you seem to have overturned it. She hasn't read such opinions from women ... You seem to read only what is beneficial to you.

   K-Man, you're a little high-spirited, but in this case I agree with you. Being sexy is not enough for someone to want you, especially someone who has had you many times. I think it is normal for sex in the family to decrease with the time spent together, as well as the desire of the man for his own and already long "used" partner is not the same as in the beginning. Now comes the turning point, if there's anything else to hold you together and bring you satisfaction, you just keep moving forward together, if only sex matters, well, you know. here come the lovers - one for her, one for him, depending on who is complaining. There was another similar topic, in which the chick ended up with something like: "I can't take it anymore, I'll catch a lover." So I ask, where do you catch them? Do I need a hunting ticket? Is the hunting all year round, or are there restrictions? And what do they peck at? That in our country, too, sex has drastically decreased, so that I can take one too. So, I'm so sexy ... A woman said

   The lover is easily caught. It's not a contagious disease, but still. You can find it in any season, regardless of the temperatures outside. And yes, when a man is missing from home, he is replaced by another. And the believer to go and treat his psychological barriers.

   №35, you are very cute, especially with your final irony! However, sex is part of any full-fledged relationship, and as much as there are other things that are very important for a relationship to exist in its good form, they cannot replace sex. So - love, support, respect, etc. - it does not happen without them, but only with them it does not happen. As it is not possible only with sex, without everything else. We can't talk about priorities here, because sex, communication, the desire to be with this person and the feeling that it's good to be together are equally important. Certainly, sex dilutes over time, but so much ... Come on, come on ... The author can realize her behavior and attitude towards the man she is with and assess whether the relationship between the two is the reason. I don't see where it can be if the man is physically healthy

   Sex is desirable and you blame each other for his belly and so on. And what are you doing about it ... ?? If he is still a potent man and you, as you say, are a twisted chick, you should, if you get dark as mentioned in the above comments on thongs, and even a naked lady smile and behave like a slut, she should not lose desire to have sex with you. Another question is if he is already a sexually deceased person who does not have an erection, then look for a sweetheart and live your sex life to the fullest. But I think your problem is that you try, as I said, with sexier lingerie or to behave more perversely with it, be it French caresses striptease or something that comes to your mind to challenge him sexually, if that doesn't help, the reason is already in him. .

   I will hardly say anything new, but I will try to say it elegantly :) Author, having sex in the family is a manifestation of bad taste, a ridiculous restriction. It is enough that you live with this person, why should you have sex with him? :) And to worry that he didn't want to ... Well, rejoice! Life is in front of you, it is only now beginning. :) Yes, it starts when you already have a family, that is, there is someone to cheat on and why to cheat. You are better than most people - you have reason to do so. YD

   Here you have gathered a group of not enlightened women and your minds are blurry. They told you - a psycho-emotional state. It doesn't have to be beautiful, it doesn't have to be sexy - it has to be exciting. Some women are beautiful, but without radiance. And did not have sex. Well, good - sex is important, but life is not just sex. And physically you can live without sex, you will fight fantasies and masturbation. Your grandmother always cheated when there was no sex. Very spoiled work. The other option is - sex outside, but get a divorce instead of putting horns.

   Number 41, that's exactly what I want to say to all the MEN you know: "Well, good - sex is important, but life is not just sex. And you can physically live without sex, you will fight fantasies and masturbation. Your grandmother always cheated when she didn't have sex. It's a very spoiled job. The other option is to have sex outside, but get a divorce instead of putting on your horns. "

   №41, you have achieved great enlightenment - you can physically live without sex, fantasies, if you are alone of your own volition or just do not have a partner at the moment. But to have a marriage and lack sex, sorry! How many men would you put up with this situation in your opinion, because I know the answer ...

   №41, Sex is the basis of a relationship, of a marriage. There are indeed moments of crisis in the relationship, but both should work on them. Fatigue of the age of 2-3 years is nonsense. A man on the spot starts looking for the problem. It can be low testosterone, fatigue, etc. These things are treatable. If it's boredom - diversify. If you don't get up - who is from where. But to justify yourself and to anoint ... And not to do something. That's funny to me. Really in such a situation, why doesn't the man leave? No, he keeps the faithful to tolerate him. That most are starting to get jealous. And why should a woman endure 2-3 years of asexuality, given that her husband has not put a gram of effort, and she just has not checked the thong lamp? The answer is: You shouldn't. The relationship ends through the man's fault. Because he has not given himself trouble, even make an effort to look for the problem. / and not because a problem has occurred / It is fully valid for the opposite situation. Only an asexual can say that sex is not important. Ask a man / woman with normal sexuality if sex is important?

   My husband is the same as described for 2 years. In the beginning I tried, I talked, he talked .... Now when it comes to: Everything is fine, only sex is not. He knows that there is a problem ... I say that I am not a grandmother at 50, but there is no change in him. There is in me. I am no longer aroused as I used to be and I don't want him so often. I can easily spend a week and I don't care at all. On the other hand, I watch other men, movies ... they fill my head with fantasies and only after them I can with him. Why? Because they don't want creases and underwear every time. Because they don't look at you with one eye in bed and don't yawn to show fatigue, so that they don't get hooked. Because they are the most harmless way to release the fantasy. I am sorry that we are in this situation. I tried. Now I have no desire on a level, but only to my husband.

   "My wife won't let me go" "My husband doesn't want me" "I miss sex." I suggest we get together and solve each other's problems. ) 356

   Number 46, it's like I wrote it. That's exactly what I think and that's exactly how I feel. It's just that over time, the insult of not wanting me turned into indifference. Now I feel like this, I don't pray anymore and I don't want anything, whatever came is welcome. I haven't rushed to cheat, but if someone excites me enough, I don't think I have anything to stop me :)

   № 18, № 18, Please say the title of the movie you mention, because it's a great loss not to share it with everyone! Although reading what they wrote, at least half would have no interest in this film .... Which is a pity ....