Lack Of Motivation

There is another woman and now she is wondering how to tell you. I'm sure of it. He moves away slowly, start avoiding him, and otherwise, it will be difficult for you. The same thing happened to me - he told me that I do not respect him and there will be no wedding 6 weeks before the wedding. She was with her for 5 months, and now they are engaged. He didn't even say it in my eyes but wrote me an SMS.

There are no men who do not like to have sex - the question is in its quality and quantity! If in the intimate moments he finds what is the realization of his sexual fantasy / here is the moment to emphasize that this moment must be bilateral / there is no reason for reluctance and abstinence from sexual intercourse! However, there may be another aspect of the problem on a psychological basis and it is related to his true intentions towards you and his desire for a serious commitment - something I guess you hold on to! As a man, I will advise you to talk seriously about the topic and he should be so good to download the cards on the table because I suspect an intention to withdraw from the relationship and this is an excuse to avoid sex but not in principle but only in this case!

I think there may be another problem - stress at work and during the day. This has a big impact on your sex life. If he is the boss of a large company and has to make important decisions every day, on which many destinies depend, and he happens to take the wrong step or even something less, it can affect. My advice is to ask him face to face why he behaves as you would naturally start gradually. You ask him if there are any problems at work if he goes out with enough friends and some similar veiled questions (which you identify before) and when you feel that the moment has come, ask the question.

One option is to want to dump you. The second option is to have problems that he wants to overcome on his own and that burdens him mentally. Work can also be a reason for not wanting to have sex. If he doesn't want you to separate and sticks to you, there is something he doesn't want to share so that he doesn't burden you with his problems.

Talk to him, something is wrong, sit at the table, first buy a salad, buy a vodka, have a drink and tell yourself what's going on between you and what's the problem, don't guess but just ask him, put the problem rib, don't settle for evasive answers. Cool men you want, you just haven't found them.

Maybe there is another. How will he want to have sex with you if he is over satisfied with the other?

A man who doesn't like to have sex :) To them, this is one of the three things they live for!

That it has this type of man who do not like to have sex. I think there is another and he is satisfied, so he does not want to. You need to talk seriously.

I don't know a man who doesn't like to have sex, so they are crazy about it! Either there is another or you do not attract him enough or at least sexually. if things continue like this, you have to leave him, how far will you go?

Hello, I want to share something, I read in the article because I have the same problem. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and he does not show any desire for sex. This torments me a lot, not so much from the lack of sexual intercourse as from the fact that I feel unwanted and unloved. I can't explain why. I'm sure he doesn't cheat on me, we make plans for the future and everything is fine, but by leaning against the bed There is still something wrong. He is generally closed, he does not go out with friends, he just does not feel the need to contact, and at work everything is fine, he laughs and has fun. In my opinion, he is complex and I do not know how to help him. Please some man help me! I will be very grateful to him. I don't want to part with him, I love him.

Hello from me, another woman in this situation. I want to share it too, because I'm starting to go crazy. My "boyfriend" and I have been together for almost 3 years. It can be said that we have lived together since our acquaintance. We got along with him, we get along very well. We already have a child, but ... This "but" is the only thing that spoils the good picture. Our sex is once a month, and sometimes up to 2 times ... for me it's like a holiday :)))) I started asking myself all sorts of questions: He has another. He does not love me and therefore does not want me. He is too busy with commitments. ; Because of the lack of money it is ... Even, 4e is the opposite. It may sound ridiculous, but it's true. After all, men are sex. Their maxim is sex, sex and sex again-The more, the better. I tried many things, but he didn't even look at me naked, let alone dressed. It happens when he needs it, and I .... And me ??? I thought that the problem was in me ... Then why in my previous relationship sex was 3 times a day with great passion and desire? I have not changed anything before pregnancy, during and after birth - even myself weaker than before. It's like I didn't give birth. He is not of age - I am 25 and he is 34. Tell me ... PLEASE ... where is her problem. I'm tired of falling asleep with desire every night and waking up with the thought: He doesn't want me, he doesn't love me.

About 12 and similar wondering women. Well, you're tired of him. Just as a woman gets tired of shoes and she wants new ones, so a man likes women. Especially if she doesn't know how to hold a man's attention. There is enough scientific evidence / see Uncle Google / that in most relationships/marriages / the frequency of sexual intercourse after 2-3 years decreases sharply. But that doesn't mean he doesn't love you, that's different.

Well, how can it be explained that in my case there was desire and sex and passion and everything, but for 2 months we have been reminded of them. He escapes as I try to talk about what's going on. He says no. And he loves me less and less, out of respect. I'm very sick, OK, no sex, I'm sick of causing this, and I can't put up with it. Why did this happen, how did I repel all his urge?