Hello. You will probably read one of the banal stories that often appear here or on similar sites. Let me first say that I am 34 years old and he is 38 years old. We met on dating sites. He is from another city. Nothing new, right Even before we met, he insisted a lot on this meeting. Well, we saw each other, he came to my city, which is 200 km from his, we had a great time and even in the end there was an unexpected outcome for me-sex. But let's say it's human, we couldn't stand it. The emotion between us was very strong and so we did. Then we continued to talk, even text each day, in the morning, sometimes in the evening for good night. Time passed and we saw each other again. We both went somewhere outside our cities, and this time most of the expenses were at his expense, which made me feel uncomfortable and even offered to take half, because I know he doesn't have great opportunities either. We agreed. So then after about 20 days we saw each other again, during which time we wrote again on the site and text messages, sometimes we heard each other on the phone. We met for the 3rd time. Then he told me he was afraid I didn't want him. I told him it wasn't, but sometimes I was reserved. After this meeting, he stopped entering the site where we had met, but we continued to hear each other and text each other, but he started to skip. Gone are the days when we didn't hear each other, I had no word or bone. And when I asked him what was going on, he was giving me a drama every time. But still he kept writing to me, telling me how much he missed me and wanted me, how he thought of me, and so on. It's probably an exaggeration, but to lie completely ... I can't believe it. Why does he care at all, if he doesn't sleep? The last time I offered to see him for the first time, but he refused, on the pretext that he was out of town on his birthday and couldn't help but go. Although he wrote me such a love text the day before that ... when he told me, I showed understanding, but it seems that my irritation was felt. He immediately sent me how much he missed me and how he dreamed of us being together forever, etc. If anyone has an idea why this happens and why it behaves like this ... am I too naive or ... at times it seems to me that he looks at me a little more seriously, as a possible more serious attitude in the future, and at times it seems to me that it is just sex. but my irritation seemed to be felt. He immediately sent me how much he missed me and how he dreamed of us being together forever, etc. If anyone has an idea why this happens and why it behaves like this ... am I too naive or ... at times it seems to me that he looks at me a little more seriously, as a possible more serious attitude in the future, and at times it seems to me that it is just sex. but my irritation seemed to be felt. He immediately sent me how much he missed me and how he dreamed of us being together forever, etc. If anyone has an idea why this happens and why it behaves like this ... am I too naive or ... at times it seems to me that he looks at me a little more seriously, as a possible more serious attitude in the future, and at times it seems to me that it is just sex.
1 ronstoke answered
Hello. Coincidentally, my last 2 connections started on the internet. We were together with one gentleman, but not quite 4 years, and with the other nearly 3 .. of course somehow from a distance .. The balance for me is that these were not relationships, but rather sex with empty promises ... With you it may be different, but no one here on the site will know for sure ... Ask him, have a face-to-face conversation with him and watch as a bystander .. from a third party judge whether he is deceiving you. I know that at the moment you want things to be different, but be impartial so that you do not suffer yourself at a later stage of your life :) Good luck