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Hello everyone, I want to share my story and get advice. My friend and I have been together for 6 years with sections through them, and we have been living together for a year and a half, but with his parents. The problem is that he recently started writing quite often on the net with a girl I also know. Sitting in front of the computer was more than normal even while he was at work and this made me doubt until I finally realized that there was more than just sharing between them, it made no sense to have intimate contact just one coffee, but I found an e-mail in which he writes that he is in love with her. My reaction was normal, I immediately said that this was the end for us and to continue my life with her, but he did not let me go and said that he did not want us to separate, but to fix the relationship between us, which lately really was not very pink. So I wanted to end all contact with her, and he did not stop writing to her to explain that he wanted them to be just friends, and I think it is impossible to be friends with someone with whom you wanted to have another relationship. Later I found out, not from him, that he asked her for time to leave me, that he couldn't so easily after so much time, and according to her he didn't love me anymore and was with me only out of fear !!!! For now, he doesn't seem to be looking for her anymore, he doesn't want friendship, but the doubt will always be there. And my question is, why after he told her these things he stayed with me and why after he claims that he loves me and wants to be with me wants to have a friendly relationship with her since she knows I don't like it Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. and he didn't stop writing to explain that he only wanted them to be friends, and I think it's impossible to be friends with someone you wanted to have another relationship with. Later I found out, not from him, that he asked her for time to leave me, that he couldn't so easily after so much time, and according to her he didn't love me anymore and was with me only out of fear !!!! For now, he doesn't seem to be looking for her anymore, he doesn't want friendship, but the doubt will always be there. And my question is, why after he told her these things he stayed with me and why after he claims that he loves me and wants to be with me wants to have a friendly relationship with her after knowing that I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. and he didn't stop writing to explain that he only wanted them to be friends, and I think it's impossible to be friends with someone you wanted to have another relationship with. Later I found out, not from him, that he asked her for time to leave me, that he couldn't so easily after so much time, and according to her he didn't love me anymore and was with me only out of fear !!!! For now, he doesn't seem to be looking for her anymore, he doesn't want friendship, but the doubt will always be there. And my question is, why after he told her these things he stayed with me and why after he claims that he loves me and wants to be with me wants to have a friendly relationship with her since she knows I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. that it is impossible to be friends with a person with whom you wanted to have another relationship. Later I found out, not from him, that he asked her for time to leave me, that he couldn't so easily after so much time, and according to her he didn't love me anymore and was with me only out of fear !!!! For now, he doesn't seem to be looking for her anymore, he doesn't want friendship, but the doubt will always be there. And my question is, why after he told her these things he stayed with me and why after he claims that he loves me and wants to be with me wants to have a friendly relationship with her since she knows I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. that it is impossible to be friends with a person with whom you wanted to have another relationship. Later I found out, not from him, that he asked her for time to leave me, that he couldn't so easily after so much time, and according to her he didn't love me anymore and was with me only out of fear !!!! For now he doesn't look for her anymore, he doesn't want friendship, but the doubt will always be there. And my question is, why after he told her these things he stayed with me and why after he claims that he loves me and wants to be with me wants to have a friendly relationship with her since she knows I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. that he couldn't so easily after so much time, and according to her he no longer loved me and was with me only out of fear !!!! For now, he doesn't seem to be looking for her anymore, he doesn't want friendship, but the doubt will always be there. And my question is, why after he told her these things he stayed with me and why after he claims that he loves me and wants to be with me wants to have a friendly relationship with her since she knows I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. that he couldn't so easily after so much time, and according to her he no longer loved me and was with me only out of fear !!!! For now, he doesn't seem to be looking for her anymore, he doesn't want friendship, but the doubt will always be there. And my question is, why after he told her these things he stayed with me and why after he claims that he loves me and wants to be with me wants to have a friendly relationship with her since she knows I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. that she loves me and wants to be with me, wants to have a friendly relationship with her, knowing that I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be. that she loves me and wants to be with me, wants to have a friendly relationship with her, knowing that I don't like it? Does it make sense to continue or not. Please advice if anyone has experienced it what would you share? Thank you for taking the time to talk about my story, however confusing it may be.

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October 25, 2020
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