Just A Dissatisfied Woman!

   From what is written, it is clear that you have no choice. Infidelity will not solve your problem, on the contrary, it will get worse. You just have to take your child and leave. Divorce is only 30 years old. It's not that there is complete happiness. Because the next one may be a good lover, but with a naughty character, etc. Something you did not judge yours and the fact that he shares intimate things with his mother, I have no words, big man .. I wish you happiness, Yavor

   Told your mother ??! You have a big, huge problem with this man! In another situation, I would not recommend a divorce, especially with a small child, but from this run away! She has an unhealthy relationship with her mother! I hope it doesn't include sex ... If he is physically healthy, it is absolutely certain that he puts it somewhere else. I bet my head that this family has a rotten history.

   My personal opinion is that your husband has some serious problems with his erection, he feels that he can't lift it and that he is no longer fit. It seems that this weakness of his is harassing and infuriating him a lot. He doesn't want to admit it! She must be having a hard time with her, especially when she's watching you tan and she doesn't want to tell you directly, but she's trying to throw you on the willows. I hope I'm wrong, but I still think that's the reason.

   Buy a vibrator :)

   Why did you quit your job because of your daughter? Isn't 1 year of motherhood enough for you (or even 2 with a lower salary)? And your husband is bad enough to "say" some things to his mother, he's obviously a man under his mother's slipper. If she came to read you a horse, then she is a dominant and aggressive woman who hurt her son and made him passive. Apparently he was trying to satisfy you sexually until the child was born, because that was his goal, set for him by his mother subconsciously. Look for the book "The Shackles of Motherly Love".

   Sounds terrible! You won't be able to put up with this for long. Unfortunately, I agree with the opinion from the above lines that he has an unhealthy relationship with his mother. I think they used you to give birth and now he doesn't need sex with you, he has a mom. You have to raise a strong scandal for talking to her about these things, then a strong scandal that she allows herself to come to your house and talk to you like that, and then to a strong scandal that she doesn't fulfill her marital status. obligations and lied to you and deceived you before marriage! I would wipe the floor with it! I am a 33-year-old woman with three children, I would lubricate him until he crawls on his stomach. You tolerate more than you need. And most of all, you are a mom, don't set a bad example for your daughter! Stand up for the woman who taught her that. Don't put up with pseudo-moral values ​​and smearing your eyes. His job is not clean. And everyone on the slide! Not to come without prior arrangement and in case of inappropriate behavior to know where the door is without having to send it. To whom he does not export, his right path, you are young, with only one child, you will recover. Get back to work at any cost! If things get rough and you decide to run away from these people, you have to have your own income. Write what happened! I will follow the topic.

   Hello to the author. First I want to tell you that this one of yours has built you up. She gave birth to his child and now she is 100% calm somewhere and thinks that you have no movement. How many men I know use their wives only to give birth to them and that's it. Get rid of that mold and take your child. Malda will manage, but if you live without sex, it's not everything, but living as friends will not lead to anything good. He told his mother, fuck the poor thing. RUN AWAY

   From the author to number 2- no, there is no way to be so perverted to have sex with your mother are just very close. At least I hope so already nv I know what to think ..

   There is nothing in common between responsibilities for the child and sex. I would talk to him about whether it is normal for a 34-year-old man to discuss his sexual problems with his mother. It is normal for a 30-year-old woman to have her life outside the child. If his mother had come to talk to me about our sex lives, I don't know what I would have done to her. We're talking about sex, though. Don't let anyone interfere with you, you're not 13 yet, are you?

   Your husband has a serious psychological problem. Talk to the specialists and then to him. Not only is he like that, there are other men who change after the birth of his wife. But telling your mother is even worse. I hope number 2 is not right !!! Good luck.

   It does not have many options. If he is not stingy, which I doubt, or you have gained a lot of weight during pregnancy and reduced support so that you no longer attract him sexually or he has caught a mistress / s. Since he doesn't choose a word, you can tell him in plain text that you have needs and without satisfying them you won't last very long. And now it is your problem and decision whether you will ride on a manual / vibrator, you will catch a lover / s, or you will abandon him if he does not accept this.

   He uses you for breeding and to run his house. I don't think there is a medical problem with the lower head. Look, with the upper head, I'm sure there's a huge medical problem. My advice is to look for a job and a home immediately, to take your child and leave this house. You are young, you will cope, although it is difficult at the beginning. You will meet someone else later, if you want to have a man so much - lonely men a lot, some of them quite decent, will accept you with the child. But don't stay in this marriage - nothing good is waiting for you there.

   An author, even if one does not necessarily go into the other with his mother, does not mean that they do not have such a relationship, even if it is platonic. Abnormally, it's crazy to share your intimate things with your mother (complains or justifies ???). What's even crazier is that she considers it her full right to come and scandalize you like a jealous "partner." It's as if she's the lawful wife and you're just the incubator, believing there could be more to "her" husband. Neither one nor the other feels or feels ashamed or abnormal in this, for both of them it is obviously normal and their right, and you are "the annoying and capricious one". No matter how close they are, it is NOT normal for his mother to know and raise a scandal about you wanting sex with your husband! Only a jealous WOMAN can do that, and her son, her husband ... uh, I hope I'm really wrong,

   There are many good reasons for a young man to give up sex. It is hardly a disease if he had regular sex before birth. Everything happens after birth !? And who changes after birth - the woman. So the cause must be sought in it. Either she doesn't leave him alone and teases the child, or they usually get depressed and completely distance themselves, and she is already obsessed with the child, she writes - "I spend all my time with my little daughter, I even quit my job to be with her. "What can be expected from such a woman, feelings during sex !? She wants to turn her husband into a vibrator, but he doesn't have a power button. The author to buy a vibrator and solve the problem! If she continues like this, she will expel her husband. Of course, it was not he who tied her to the child, but she played with him, through the child!

   Your husband just can't do it! Whether on a physiological basis or on a mental basis is not clear, but it is true. It has withered! That's the problem. He has an erection problem! He does not want to admit it and is afraid of exposing himself in bed. He must have told only his mother and did not want others to know about it. Think about how long you haven't had sex. A normally developed man, can drive me dry for a long time, will want sex. Hormones rage and push, it doesn't last. Moreover, there is a woman next to him who, on top of everything, is offered to him. Discuss the problem carefully with him. Tell him to go to a urologist or suggest that you go together, get examined and, if necessary, be prescribed any stimulants, Viagra, etc., until he recovers and recovers.

   Did you happen to gain a lot of weight after pregnancy? And the fact that he told his mother I will not even comment on it. Fuck the "man". M34

   You all give great advice ... Get out, get a divorce ... I don't think that such extreme advice should be given just like that, especially for a person you don't know! There are problems in every family, but that is why there is a family to solve these problems! Yes, it is definitely very stupid that he told his mother about it, but what happened - happened, everyone makes mistakes, everyone talks nonsense, is not something fatal after all, except that it is extremely unmanly and stupid on his part! I don't want to blame or justify anyone because I don't know you, I'll just give you some advice, which of course you may not follow if you don't like it ... It's normal for there to be a change in both of you after pregnancy. However, such a drastic change in either of you is not normal! Yes, obviously there is a striking change in his sex, especially since, as you claim, you were quite relaxed before and everything went well! It is normal to gain a few kilos, but I don't think this is a problem for him, you are still the mother of his child, and sooner or later these kilos are lost through sports or appropriate and most importantly sparing your health! And even if you don't take them off easily in the beginning, don't worry, for sure your bust is bigger at the moment, and there is no man who doesn't appreciate it! However, you do not say how your sexual relations developed during pregnancy - did you have sex in early pregnancy, did you satisfy him orally or did he only drive for "adulterous pleasures" ? My question in this case is whether this lack of sexual desire is from now or is it from the beginning of pregnancy? Sexual desire is also lost when abstaining from sex, keep that in mind, but the good news here is that you can easily regain it, yet where it has flowed, it will flow again. If you love each other, if you've had great sex until recently, then I think the problem is entirely psychological and it's in it! And this problem is solvable, it just takes time! It is possible to be busy at work and have some problems there, stress has a serious impact on sexual desire and erection. You say you tried to seduce him - how? Do you talk openly about sex, wear erotic clothes or ... how do you seduce him? Having been liberated until recently, I don't think that it's a problem to make him a little French love one night and remind him what he's missing by not having sex. Even if he has no desire for sex, I don't think it's good to cheat on him! You will ruin your family because of one sex, there is a separate issue that it is not clear at all how capable, discreet and good sexual partner you will find! And as strange as it may seem, if the desire for sex pushes you so hard and you can't stand it - well, buy a vibrator was a woman. There are all kinds, you will always like someone and will relieve you! Play a little, so what, so I don't think you're going to hurt your family, you're just satisfying your physiological needs. If after a long time, your husband avoids any opportunities for sex, go to a family psychologist. If all is well with your family (except sex), try to save your family! Divorce is a last resort and is not good for anyone, especially the child! Do not spoil your family lightly, just for one sex! Yes, sex is important, but things are fixable, since until recently everything was OK, I think that things will get better again and you will raise your child happy! I wish you health and success!

   It's amazing how many men are actually gay and their families are a cover

   Was this pregnancy of yours planned or was he "a little" surprised? Isn't he afraid of an imminent second one? Didn't you mention to him that you shouldn't procrastinate the second or something like that?

   Your husband is a complete asshole! That's what I can tell you. When my wife was pregnant, I fucked her until she gave birth, and then immediately, a month after giving birth.