Maybe you're shy or not pretty. If so, look for a boy with the same flaws. In the end, everyone catches up with one of his rugs. Women always want a man to be more than them, but not everyone can afford it.
The right construction is I've never had a boyfriend.
Maybe the problem is in yourself?
There may be something in your appearance - I'm not saying to dress like another whore, but you can change the way you dress a little, put on a little makeup, a different hairstyle ..
What do you do, what are your interests?
As worn out as it may sound - find something new to do, learn a language, take courses and gradually meet new people and finally like someone.
Well, take the initiative into your own hands. Don't wait for the boy first
Well, are you trying and in what way does someone actually like you?
I am not beautiful, nor with a well-shaped body, I am a definite introvert, but I do not suffer from lack of attention or at least not complete. In a sense, I'm not like my sexy blue-eyed and blonde girlfriend, who wondered before marrying who to go out with first; nor like the fluffy but super charming lady who flirts with everything that moves and spins them in threes. But then every month or two, one that I liked the measure.
So you don't grab anyone:
1. You don't get together with enough strangers.
2. You repel acquaintances in some way.
3. Your girl's company overshadows you.
There are different types of men, so different approaches are appropriate. It is advisable not to cheat on yourself in order to please someone, but find out what you do not like and consider what you can change.
Thank you for your comments, especially number 2 has contributed a lot to me! I study and for this year I managed to make a lot of friends, to develop as a person, to go out with more people, so I do not think that the problem is the lack of people around me. I am not shy or closed, on the contrary. Regarding my appearance, I don't consider myself ugly or unmaintained, up to number 3 - I put on make-up when I care, the same goes for my hairstyle, but I thought it unnecessary to go into such details :)
In love it is like in war. This ancient wisdom is absolutely true, although we do not always realize the full dimensions of this analogy. To make a breakthrough, you need to choose one direction and concentrate your resources on it. If you try to launch an offensive on all fronts at once, failure is inevitable. From what I read, I get the impression that in a company you communicate simultaneously and equally with everyone and no one feels special. In order for a man to go in a certain direction, he has to be green somewhere.
Men sometimes like smart and witty women, women who can have a normal conversation. I tell you this from the position of a not very attractive woman, who, however, throughout her life has communicated mainly with men and does not bother to talk to them on any topic. I'm neither beautiful nor pretending to be beautiful, but that doesn't stop them from talking to me and paying attention to me. Women don't like brainless mannequins either, at least not me. There is nothing so complicated about gender communication. Nevertheless, we are human beings and should be seen primarily as individuals, not bearers of secondary sexual characteristics.
Great nonsense you wrote that and supported. This is not love, but a desire for possession ... eternal human stupidity.
In love there are no wars, no offensive and the like, in love everything is at will and free choice!
Did it ever occur to you that your girlfriends were the problem? Isn't it possible to overshadow you or even involuntarily compete with you? Try a little without them and see the difference.
Don't worry, I had a boyfriend for the first time at the age of 21, I'm just younger, but I didn't think so then. You have your whole life, calm down, don't think about it at all, now is the time for you to develop, socialize, study and have fun. Make friends. Don't worry, hang out with the people you like and don't focus on looking, the boys will start sticking to themselves, especially when you're uninterested.
Greetings!
they are very special from my observations. I have two friends from there and along with them I have gathered with others from the academy and I noticed that in these circles people are oversaturated with beauty, artistry, falsehood, intrigue. They are all intelligent or at least with a broad general culture, most are nice, quite extravagant, seeking attention. Accordingly, no one is impressed by anything.
In such a community, it is difficult to stand out in order to be liked by someone. I know that my statements do not apply to everyone, I generalize a little, but still. If you only go out with such people, it is normal that you cannot grab anyone's attention. There is always someone more beautiful and artistic than you.
In my opinion, if you change the environment, you will have more success. If you go out with students from the University of National and World Economy, for example, you will be very interesting to them, because most girls there are muffins, and you will be the different art chick. Or something like that. Just because you're unattractive to certain people doesn't mean you are. Everything is subjective.
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