I'm 21 years old. A year ago I ended a 4 year relationship. For six months I had not dealt with other girls, I had gone to work and I did not want relationships. At one point, the girls began to "stick" to me on their own. They were all for less, so enough to keep fit! I recently liked a girl, ie. I had liked her a long time ago but recently I saw her and took her number. We went out and I liked her. We went out for a while, but I made the mistake of dealing with it as I was used to for 4 years, ie. too intimate. And she noticed and told me that things were too hasty and put an end to it, I was naughty but after 2 days I was with another (I'm not guilty). A week later the girl in question called again and wanted us to try again, this time my mistake was absolutely in the opposite direction, I behaved too rudely and after 3 days she left me again! !! So my problem is that I can "fish" a girl but only for one night and then if I like I don't know what to do ?? !! Maybe a lot of people will consider me a hook that this does not satisfy me, but I'm tired of these things, I want to have a relationship again, not just sex with different girls who tomorrow I will not even remember their names! So if there is someone to give advice, or if there is something like a guide "How to start a relationship?" or I don't know but I really need help. or if there is something like a guide "How to start a relationship?" or I don't know but I really need help. or if there is something like a manual "How to start a relationship?" or I don't know but I really need help.
Hey bro, don't worry, keep going. She was not the right one. Believe me, when you find the right girl for a relationship, you will know what to do! Now continue with the non-committees.
You just can't keep a woman, and that happens with practice or never.
How did you have a 4-year relationship when you don't know now how to build a relationship? There is nothing connected here.
As a woman, I can personally and personally tell you what would keep me close to a man. I generally fall a little cowardly (in the sense of being afraid to commit, I think I will sacrifice my freedom to have my time..etc.) So..to stay with someone he would be nice to: - looks for me when he knows that I do not have the opportunity to go out (but without overdoing it) - invites me to them by leaving me to make coffee in the morning (I do not perceive myself as a temporary guest) - encourages me to introduce him to my parents - possibly to introduce me to his family - to be afraid to talk to me about things that interest me, sure that he is annoying - to accompany me to places that are not just another public event, but are just my commitment, who I don't want to do alone Of course, it's nice to guess these things, because there is a danger of becoming too much and scaring another girl. But he is not looking for a future boyfriend at any cost. Try here and there and as something inside you trembles, apply a little more cunning and consider the consequences of your behavior. Sometimes I get very angry with you men. We women need so little, we are so easy to "catch". and you seem to ... uh ... face something who knows what. Success! I hope I was useful to you!
It's easy but I can't build a relationship for the very reason that I had a serious relationship with a girl I loved so much and I was ready to give her everything, but she decided that she wanted to try with others and that she lived. Here comes the crux of the problem, I may have a relationship but I don't know exactly how to start it! I wrote above how I behaved as I used to and scared a girl.
OOOOOO, so the problem here is completely, completely different, even if you don't admit it to yourself. You will start a relationship and you will not have any problems with it when you are done, but you really end your old relationship. This "I was ready to give her everything, but she ..." - does not sound good at all. I may be wrong, but it sounds more like "Iskaaaam siii yayayaya!"
And I think your problem is that you haven't forgotten "that one" yet. You need to understand that you are no longer with this girl and stop comparing others. with her. I was too, but at one point I realized. But apparently you loved her very much and it is still so regardless of the elapsed time!
Thanks to everyone who writes on the so-called "problem" of mine. You are very useful to me! Thanks.
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I have no textbooks, practice!