I'm a girl 18 years old. I've only had two relationships in my life. One disappointment, the other not so much:D I don't fully open up to new people, I'm pretty shy sometimes. I'm easy to feel and fall in love easily. Two friends and I decided to go in for a change in the Omegle. We met a lot of interesting, nice people. Of course, there are some more perverse, but we didn't pay attention to her. It became our entertainment to talk to different people from other countries and we started to get in more and more often. One day we met a group of 4 men from Austria. They were fun. We added one of them to Snapchat and then he told me to add one of his other friends. I added it and we started writing to each other. He's 24, he's studying robotics and he's very nice, smart and sweet. We can talk about all kinds of topics. Really all sorts, for cars, cooking, universities, work, love, etc. etc. Sometimes it answers me very quickly, sometimes it happens to wait a long time XD. I looked at his Instagram and saw a picture of a girl hugging. They seemed pretty close. I'm not hiding- I'm pretty annoyed. One night when we wrote to each other, he told me how he's been working since he was 19, studying and supporting himself. It is clear from his photos that he does have a lot of money, and the very fact that he has achieved everything himself makes me like him even more. When he told me this I told him that if he had a girlfriend, she was very lucky (that's how I'd find out if the girl in the photo was his girlfriend or not) He told me he'd been out of the house for a long time. He thinks he's better off for now because he can focus on his studies and his work. Since then, we've become closer. He's been complimenting me for a while now. I've been cute, smart, funny, cool, etc. Two days ago, we were burning, and he asked me if I'd ever been to Vienna. I told him I wasn't, but I'd like to go someday. And he told me he really wanted to meet me there. That was the part with the butterflies in the stomach XD I got very attached to him, and I want to tell him, but I don't know how he's going to react. I'm not really going to rush it. What I like very much is that he's nice to me and he's never made me do any stupid things, send him pictures and stuff like that, unlike most of the older ones I've written with before. I think about him a lot. In the morning; of the school; being out with girlfriends; when I fall asleep. When I see he's written to me, I start to be happy and jump like a 14-year-old. I can't concentrate at school. I want to see you, but there's a slight chance that this will ever happen, and if it happens, eventually, it'il be in about two years. I'm happy, but it's really stressful. What am I supposed to do?
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bigdickdon4545 answered · June 23, 2020
Tell him to come to you.
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rachelslade1 answered · June 23, 2020
Hi! Fate has decided to meet you, and there will be some lessons from this acquaintance. As you describe it sounds very sweet, I am also in love, and such simple gestures would very impressed me. The thing is, you're a student, and he works and studies. I hope the difference isn't too big. I think he can use you for his escape from reality - to write with a man he likes, yes, but to know that he could hardly see live; you can be his vent. I'm not saying I'm right just think about it and try to somehow understand. The second thing I want to say is that even if you possibly have genuine mutual feelings of love and supporters, do you really think such a relationship could exist? :) I, as an emotional person, would end this while I have strength, but you as a teenager would probably like to indulge in the experience. Deep down, you know what to do. If you care about it and like it, write if it only burdens you and distracts you from your personal growth - Stop! A good friend of mine had a long-distance relationship with a boy from London(English), her first love, she was totally devoted to him, they wrote romantic poems, they dedicated songs, he sent her sweet cards, and you know what... Turns out he had another person by his side all this time, and my girlfriend was tricked. So she was extremely sad, she was usually an intelligent girl, but she succumbed to her feelings. I'm not saying your story will be like this, but always have one in mind. Success!
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pa_del_guy123_ answered · June 23, 2020
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Thank you very much for the comment.
Actually, you were right.
Yesterday I read what you wrote about your girlfriend, and I thought it couldn't be the same with me. I was so wrong.
Today I took to his Instagram again and he had let go of the most relaxed (because he knows I'm not following him there and I can't see him). So it was with the same girl in the photo I was talking about above. They've had their eight years together. I don't understand what kind of guy with a girlfriend of eight years is going to be dealing with other girls.
Anyway, I cried a lot after I found out, and I'm probably going to cry more, but there's nothing I can do.
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shy_maary_ answered · June 23, 2020
What kind of man? Eight years is a lot ,in every relationship there are declines and people want to diversify it with a chat with a side link.
That doesn't mean they don't like their partners, very few people are monogamous these days.
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marywon answered · June 23, 2020
I had a similar story, we met because of a game, he was supposedly three years older than me and he was from Spain. We were writing to each other all the time in skype * that was probably 10 years ago *, initially we were friends, then we started hitting on each other, I was constantly thinking about it and I couldn't wait to get home from school to write to myself. Whenever I wanted to hear from him with a video, he was busy or his parents were around him. I trusted him at first, but after a while, I started to doubt it. All we heard from him was his voice, and his voice didn't sound like a teenager. I decided to "try it"- I told him I loved him very much and would go to him in Spain. As I thought, he literally freaked out, there was no way to see each other, there was no point in giving my money for tickets, etc. Then he stopped texting me, and i was naturally so stupid that I screwed up. It was still at the beginning of facebook, but I decided to give it a go: I searched for it by his name and his city and surprisingly there was such a person, but he was nearly 40 years old and with family and children. I thought it was a coincidence, but on facebook he had written a skype that matched the one I was writing to.
Since then, I have finished all such dating from sites, etc. You never know if the person is real and he's completely sincere.
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tiffany9inches answered · June 24, 2020
respect, honesty, trust. in this sequence. Success! I'm in the same situation and I understand you.
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angie345 answered · June 24, 2020
Always have a good look at the people you're writing to. The chance of him being another hitman or someone with unclean intentions is huge. Don't take every word as a pure coin. The guy wanted to diversify, so he wrote to girls. As soon as you notice a picture with a girl, and a recent one, the job is clear.
Just don't put high hopes on virtual men from the future.