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Published on:
June 23, 2020
2 rachelslade1 answered
Hi! Fate has decided to meet you, and there will be some lessons from this acquaintance. As you describe it sounds very sweet, I am also in love, and such simple gestures would very impressed me. The thing is, you're a student, and he works and studies. I hope the difference isn't too big. I think he can use you for his escape from reality - to write with a man he likes, yes, but to know that he could hardly see live; you can be his vent. I'm not saying I'm right just think about it and try to somehow understand. The second thing I want to say is that even if you possibly have genuine mutual feelings of love and supporters, do you really think such a relationship could exist? :) I, as an emotional person, would end this while I have strength, but you as a teenager would probably like to indulge in the experience. Deep down, you know what to do. If you care about it and like it, write if it only burdens you and distracts you from your personal growth - Stop! A good friend of mine had a long-distance relationship with a boy from London(English), her first love, she was totally devoted to him, they wrote romantic poems, they dedicated songs, he sent her sweet cards, and you know what... Turns out he had another person by his side all this time, and my girlfriend was tricked. So she was extremely sad, she was usually an intelligent girl, but she succumbed to her feelings. I'm not saying your story will be like this, but always have one in mind. Success!
Published on:
June 23, 2020
3 pa_del_guy123_ answered
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Thank you very much for the comment.
Actually, you were right.
Yesterday I read what you wrote about your girlfriend, and I thought it couldn't be the same with me. I was so wrong.
Today I took to his Instagram again and he had let go of the most relaxed (because he knows I'm not following him there and I can't see him). So it was with the same girl in the photo I was talking about above. They've had their eight years together. I don't understand what kind of guy with a girlfriend of eight years is going to be dealing with other girls.
Anyway, I cried a lot after I found out, and I'm probably going to cry more, but there's nothing I can do.
Published on:
June 23, 2020
4 shy_maary_ answered
What kind of man? Eight years is a lot ,in every relationship there are declines and people want to diversify it with a chat with a side link.
That doesn't mean they don't like their partners, very few people are monogamous these days.
Published on:
June 23, 2020
5 marywon answered
I had a similar story, we met because of a game, he was supposedly three years older than me and he was from Spain. We were writing to each other all the time in skype * that was probably 10 years ago *, initially we were friends, then we started hitting on each other, I was constantly thinking about it and I couldn't wait to get home from school to write to myself. Whenever I wanted to hear from him with a video, he was busy or his parents were around him. I trusted him at first, but after a while, I started to doubt it. All we heard from him was his voice, and his voice didn't sound like a teenager. I decided to "try it"- I told him I loved him very much and would go to him in Spain. As I thought, he literally freaked out, there was no way to see each other, there was no point in giving my money for tickets, etc. Then he stopped texting me, and i was naturally so stupid that I screwed up. It was still at the beginning of facebook, but I decided to give it a go: I searched for it by his name and his city and surprisingly there was such a person, but he was nearly 40 years old and with family and children. I thought it was a coincidence, but on facebook he had written a skype that matched the one I was writing to.
Since then, I have finished all such dating from sites, etc. You never know if the person is real and he's completely sincere.
Published on:
June 23, 2020
6 tiffany9inches answered
respect, honesty, trust. in this sequence. Success! I'm in the same situation and I understand you.
Published on:
June 24, 2020
7 angie345 answered
Always have a good look at the people you're writing to. The chance of him being another hitman or someone with unclean intentions is huge. Don't take every word as a pure coin. The guy wanted to diversify, so he wrote to girls. As soon as you notice a picture with a girl, and a recent one, the job is clear.
Just don't put high hopes on virtual men from the future.
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June 24, 2020
1 bigdickdon4545 answered