Hello, A woman of about 30 writes to you. I am already in such a period that I am quite well developed in my career - I have the dream job, I practice my hobbies on a professional level and in general, I am reaping success. I have a good relationship for many years, we are engaged. Here, however, comes my little problem, which has stuck in me like a tick and doesn't let me live properly. Many people hate me and pour negativity on me. Believe me, I am not a conflicted person and if I do bad to someone, I could not sleep for months ... But even though I am good with the people around me, someone will still try to blacken me, gossip behind my back and more. Mass attacks on the things I love to do have recently begun. I don't know who I teased so much and in what way, but there is a group of people who regularly waste their time reporting me on Facebook, to slander me and the things I do ... I don't even know some of them personally. It got to the point that my friends dropped sharply and my good acquaintances, with whom I can talk, are literally counted on the fingers of one hand, and that's because they know me really well and know that the things that are said have nothing to do with reality. It has been very difficult for me lately to deal with this negativity on the part of people. I don't want everyone to like me (this is not possible), but I would just be happy if they are more adequate and normal. I feel terrible when after every good thing I create or do, the obligatory wave of negativism follows ... I'm even starting to wonder if it makes any sense to continue ... And I really want to. It got to the point that my friends dropped sharply and my good acquaintances, with whom I can talk, are literally counted on the fingers of one hand, and that's because they know me really well and know that the things that are said have nothing to do with reality. It has been very difficult for me lately to deal with this negativity on the part of people.
I don't want everyone to like me (this is not possible), but I would just be happy if they are more adequate and normal. I feel terrible when after every good thing I create or do, the obligatory wave of negativism follows ... I'm even starting to wonder if it makes any sense to continue ... And I really want to. It got to the point that my friends dropped sharply and my good acquaintances, with whom I can talk, are literally counted on the fingers of one hand, and that's because they know me really well and know that the things that are said have nothing to do with reality. It has been very difficult for me lately to deal with this negativity on the part of people. I don't want everyone to like me (this is not possible), but I would just be happy if they are more adequate and normal. I feel terrible when after every good thing I create or do, the obligatory wave of negativism follows ...
I'm even starting to wonder if it makes any sense to continue ... And I really want to. which are spoken have nothing to do with reality. It has been very difficult for me lately to deal with this negativity on the part of people. I don't want everyone to like me (this is not possible), but I would just be happy if they are more adequate and normal. I feel terrible when after every good thing I create or do, the obligatory wave of negativism follows ... I'm even starting to wonder if it makes any sense to continue ... And I really want to. which are spoken have nothing to do with reality. It has been very difficult for me lately to deal with this negativity on the part of people. I don't want everyone to like me (this is not possible), but I would just be happy if they are more adequate and normal. I feel terrible when after every good thing I create or do, the obligatory wave of negativism follows ... I'm even starting to wonder if it makes any sense to continue ... And I really want to.
1 noeljack20 answered
They hate you for one thing only - the answer is in the first two sentences. It's envy, envy to the point of hatred ... these types of people are pathetic ... don't blame yourself for anything, just be happier and more successful, that's the only way you'll ruin them without doing anything bad. If this type of people spent their time spitting on others for things like "how can I be successful / happy" we would surely live in a better world ...