I have been married for 14 years. I have 1 wonderful child of 12 years, I have a good job, nice appearance, normal family. I thought I was a happy person and wanted nothing more than life, but it turned out I was lying. 3 years ago everything collapsed suddenly. I have a brother and I have always felt that my parents have a preference for him. They have 2 houses and some time ago they transferred both to him, because he would take care of them, even though he does not live with them. My brother is very well off, he has his own business and yet everything was written to him. I experienced a lot of sorrow and pain not because of the material side, but because they divide us and everything became quiet, without having the dignity to stand in front of me and tell me what they decided, because it is their right and choice, but I learn by bystanders for the transfer of property. I stopped talking to them and my brother, but at one point I decided to forgive them despite what I had done, because they are the people closest to me and I forgave them, but my heart is made of stone and they are indifferent to me. From time to time we only meet on the road by chance or hear each other on the phone, but very rarely. In the meantime, I found that all these years, my husband had also lied to me and played part of his salary on poker machines, and he had lied to me all along that he was getting a lower salary. My life has been spent in lies only. I don't have any feelings. We live together because he asked me not to separate because of the child, and if I go out with the child, we have to live miserably, and the apartment we live in is now owned by my husband, inherited from his parents, but we got it empty. and we replaced all the windows, we have done heating and with joint efforts and a lot of savings we have furnished it, and now I have to leave it to him. I do not know what to do. He does not insult or rude me, but there is no trust between us and there is only tension. I don't know if I will continue to live with him until the child grows up. I feel very unhappy and nothing makes me happy. During my childhood I was unhappy - eternal lies and neglect, in 14 years of family life again only lies. Please give me some advice. I secretly hope to meet a person who will respect me and not lie to me, because most of all I hate lying and hypocrisy. I feel very unhappy and nothing makes me happy. During my childhood I was unhappy - eternal lies and neglect, in 14 years of family life again only lies. Please give me some advice. I secretly hope to meet a person who will respect me and not lie to me, because most of all I hate lying and hypocrisy. I feel very unhappy and nothing makes me happy. During my childhood I was unhappy - eternal lies and neglect, in 14 years of seed life again only lies. Please give me some advice. I secretly hope to meet a person who will respect me and not lie to me, because most of all I hate lying and hypocrisy.
1 iamsrk answered
The strange thing is that you always talk about some material things - both in the relationship with your husband and in those with your parents. But attitude and respect are not just about the material. Think again and reassess the situation. After all, it's about your closest people. And despite your pain, you must find the strength to forgive them. You will see that you will be relieved. Success!