Everyone here will attack me for being a player and a womanizer, but this is not the case. I am a nice and romantic young man, 28 years old, Pisces, I can talk on many topics, I have more female friends, because in general I like their grace and personally I feel more malice than men and envy, so I prefer friendships with women. It's normal to glance at them, I'm a straight man after all, but I've never taken any of them (my girlfriends) off with the thought of sleeping with them. There are certain qualities that I look for in a woman and I generally pursue this type. I don't like sex overnight, but it just so happened. I have a girlfriend, I would call her my closest after my really best friend from school years yet. She is the sweetest, sweetest and most well-meaning creature. She's terribly emotional because she's a water sign like me, Cancer. I treat her like more than a sister and I love her. But it's no secret that she's liked me since we met. Many times I have shown her that she only has friendly feelings and she seems to be moving forward, but it is obvious that she wants me. There was no way I could back off, because I wanted to communicate with her too. So in September we were at a big party for the engagement of some friends, we drank a lot and went home together. She started pushing me, I was in euphoria and I responded and so we had great sex. After all, half a bottle of vodka that I drank + the fact that she is a very beautiful woman who knows how to arouse you (she has beautiful hazelnut hair, smooth skin with a nice complexion, a slightly tight body and large gray-green eyes). But in the morning, in addition to having a terrible hangover, I felt like the biggest garbage and scoundrel, and she was sweetly hugging me. I even vaguely remembered, but she clearly remembered everything. Since then, she thought she had a chance and behaved like a boyfriend, and I didn't know how to explain things to her without hurting her and arguing. In fact, I know I acted like shit, but she's not justified in taking advantage of my drunken state and now manipulating me for something I don't want. And why don't I want to Because although we have similar characters and interests, our views on life are very different. She wants to meet a good man to give her security, to start a family as soon as possible, she wants him to be stronger than her, because she is slightly unstable as a person. I'm blown away too, but I'm proud of that. I want a woman with an adventurous spirit, not a wife with whom we can have two children and live a typical life. I want to live for the moment, for the adventure. I can be very responsible, but I don't want to. If I go with her, she will want to sculpt me according to her ideal, and I will want her - according to mine. So no one will be happy and that's it. She has even started already, she hints at various things for a common union. But unless she changes, and I don't want that from her, there's no way anything can happen. I feel the worst from the fact that I want to sleep with her again, at least, I feel inhuman sexual attraction. We have already ruined the friendship everywhere. And I have to talk to her, because I haven't done it yet and she thinks of herself as my boyfriend, even though she knows exactly how things are inside her. What to do? Am I really big garbage? Please only without overly cynical and vulgar comments. But unless she changes, and I don't want that from her, there's no way anything can happen. I feel the worst from the fact that I want to sleep with her again, at least, I feel inhuman sexual attraction. We have already ruined the friendship everywhere. And I have to talk to her, because I haven't done it yet and she considers herself something like my boyfriend, even though inside she knows exactly how things are. What to do? Am I really big garbage? Please only without overly cynical and vulgar comments. But unless she changes, and I don't want that from her, there's no way anything can happen. I feel the worst from the fact that I want to sleep with her again, at least, I feel inhuman sexual attraction. We have already ruined the friendship everywhere. I also have to talk to her, because I haven't done it yet and she considers herself something like my boyfriend, even though she knows exactly how things are inside. What to do? Am I really big garbage? Please only without overly cynical and vulgar comments. although inside she also knows exactly how things stand. What to do? Am I really big garbage? Please only without overly cynical and vulgar comments. although inside she also knows exactly how things stand. What to do? Am I really big garbage? Please only without overly cynical and vulgar comments.
1 beznaplet answered
You are very narcissistic. Complete selfish. You want sex with her, and you claim that you only like her as a friend. The problem is, you don't want to limit yourself to her. However, tomorrow you may meet Adriana Lima and be thrown around the neck. Then you will suddenly rethink your concept of life and decide that you want the right family. Deep behind your words, it's clear that you don't like her enough. And because you describe her as very sexy, she's either not pretty enough for your high scandals, or you're just bored. I bet on the latter. From the beginning, she was interested, and you weren't. Stop fooling yourself. You just don't like her enough. And since a sexy woman doesn't grab you, I imagine with her adventurous spirit what criteria she has to meet - at least a top model, at least a Harvard graduate, at least a crazy nymphomaniac, at least the soul of the company.