It Turned Out That My Friend Was Mired In Credit

A year and a half ago I met a man in the restaurant where I worked. I was 18, he was 26. He came every night, sat at the bar, drank good whiskey and generally radiated confidence and calm ... I didn't take it because I thought he had money, because he drank expensive whiskey if someone thought that now. 4 months after we met I moved in with him. I didn't want to move, but he kept muttering that he couldn't see me as much as he wanted. At first I felt very uncomfortable with the fact that he lived with his grandmother. He told me that the apartment belonged to him, but in fact it turned out to belong to his grandmother, who had transferred it to his aunt, because she also had a large loan and one type of apartment was currently at the bank until the aunt paid off the loan. to the bank! The grandmother is very powerful and stubborn, which does not happen to her is angry. At first I didn't know how things were, he told me that the apartment was his and he would repair it! He built a bathroom for euros 8,000 and he ran out of money. The apartment is from the 65th year, as is the furniture in it ... all the doors on the lockers hang, the kitchen is hellishly small and extremely uncomfortable, after the grandmother it is almost always quite dirty because she can't see ... half of the appliances are melted again by her, how she has not set us on fire yet, because of her and the whole seed, his mother, his father, his aunt, their children, neighbors, grandmothers, he and she are forever hanging in our country! Not long after I realized that he has a loan of euros 30,000 and will pay for another 10 years !!! Ours bought on credit the car, TV, telephone, air conditioning, window frames and the famous bathroom, which I later hated because, although so expensive, the masters turned out to be incompetent. In other words, he poured over euros 15,000 into someone else's apartment !! And a small part of the loan wasted on restaurants with friends! I was thinking of going out to a place to go, to go to a bigger city, to find a good job, because since the eighth grade I've been running around the bars as a waitress and bartender and I'm tired ... I love him so much that I missed the first year I'm applying to a university so I'm not far from it. Now we drive from salary to salary, we are constantly squeezing, the money is enough for food, bills and loans ... all my savings flew in the last year, because the car broke down and had to make expensive repairs.

Now I can apply to university again, but I don't have a penny, and I work double shifts to have money to cover my needs. I don't want to leave him, but at the age of 28 he works for euros 1,000 and lives with his grandmother, because if he left her alone she could not recover and he was happy for her. Until the age of 28, you can't buy a phone and a TV without credit? !? !! My grandmother doesn't like me, because since I came she is no longer the center of the world and she keeps repeating that since I came to this house the peace has evaporated. Not to mention that his mother comes and sits for 10 days and makes the house a mess, and when you make a remark she shouts I'm here, who are you ?? I love my boyfriend very much, he is my best friend, he understands me about everything, because of me he got a second job so we can fix it and he regrets the loan ... he is just very trusting and pitiful, and although he doesn't admit I suspect that his mother gave him the wisdom to take out loans, she doesn't care about her child. They lied to him that they would attribute the apartment to him when the grandmother was gone, and I have the feeling that this will not happen. I want to study, to move out of this dead city, the place is dying out, only gypsies and grandmothers, but because of his loans I can't do any of this unless I leave him. I cry every day and I don't know what to do. I do not want to leave him because he is a unique person, he just showed stupidity under the influence of his family, who even now take advantage and treat him like a taxi since he bought a car. If I stay with him, I will drag myself to the restaurants in the city until I turn 30, because there is no other job, and I will have a baby at 35, when the loan is over. Advise me, please ... even at the moment I wrote this I cried ... unless he leaves it. I cry every day and I don't know what to do. I do not want to leave him because he is a unique person, he just showed stupidity under the influence of his family, who even now take advantage and treat him like a taxi since he bought a car. If I stay with him, I will drag myself to the restaurants in the city until I turn 30, because there is no other job, and I will have a baby at 35, when the loan is over.

Advise me, please ... even at the moment I wrote this I cried ... unless he leaves it. I cry every day and I don't know what to do. I do not want to leave him because he is a unique person, he just showed stupidity under the influence of his family, who even now take advantage and treat him like a taxi since he bought a car. If I stay with him, I will drag myself to the restaurants in the city until I turn 30, because there is no other job, and I will have a baby at 35, when the loan is over. Advise me, please ... even at the moment I wrote this I cried ... when the loan is over. Advise me, please ... even at the moment I wrote this I cried ... when the loan is over. Advise me, please ... even at the moment I wrote this I cried ...