It Is Constantly In My Thoughts

   This is very nice, I'm glad for you. Yes, he likes you too, because I am in a similar situation. Try to catch the moment and explain to him your sympathies for him. DO NOT DELAY ..

   In my opinion, if he knew you had sympathy, he would have been active by now if there was reciprocity. After all, we're talking about a man in his 40s, not a teenager in his 16s, to worry so much about. Of course, there's the option of being really super mega shy, that even knowing you like him, something pulls him back. Why don't you just talk to him face to face? If you have a problem with being completely direct, just invite him to come out sometime - delicately and unobtrusively. For example, "On Thursday they give you a movie. Have you heard it? ..." And you turn the conversation so that you go together to watch it. If he likes you, he'll guess in a second where you're beating. Come on, and good luck. :)

   First see if there is a woman, then take a look. Aman ... If not, fine, but if there is, one day you will be in her place and you will suffer ...

   I don't know, a man in his forties, to have confirmation that you like him and worry ...