Hello. I'm a little desperate and I'm writing here to make it easier for me .. 2 months ago I started writing with a boy on Facebook, in general I rarely answer strangers, but after he wrote to me several times I decided to answer him and we signed up. The chat in the beginning was based only on jokes, we had a lot of fun and wrote to each other all the time, I cut it tactfully because I didn't know him, and over time he became quite insistent. We started writing more and more seriously. After 1 month of constant writing, we agreed to see each other. We saw each other, everything was correct. We met a second time, a third. Things were going well. After a few meetings, he invited me to their house, which worried me a lot that he didn't want us to do anything, but I went. Well ... we did some things, but we didn't have sex. Then we saw each other again, but less often because it started working and it was difficult. Our chat went on, but we started to get annoyed with some nonsense and before we saw each other we got annoyed, but not so much. We quarreled from time to time, then recovered. He told me he wanted me for him, he was jealous, but lately something was getting very annoying, from everything. I have the feeling that something has receded, but if I try to talk it irritates me even more. He doesn't offer to see me, he writes again, but now it's somehow "dry". I try not to impress myself and pretend that nothing happened to avoid quarreling, but sometimes I can't keep quiet like a characterless sheep. I don't know if the reason is the difficult and rare seeing, or I'm tired of him or another one has appeared, or he's one of the guys who thinks "I won her, I don't want her anymore", although I haven't shown him too much affection, I keep up . But obviously he doesn't think of getting into a more serious relationship and he thinks of ending them as soon as he withdraws little by little and I wanted to get it, but I think I should stop looking for him, obviously it won't happen, I'm just ruining myself nerves. Before, when I was pulling, he was very insistent, now things have changed. What do you think I should do, should I drop everything?
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Option 1: If he is always the initiator of things happening, he always writes first, he always wants to see you, he always shows his desire to have you ... Yes, it is possible for a person to withdraw, for fear that he may to have annoyed you, and just to wait for your actions and intentions towards the relationship. Option 2: It may be the type of people who, when they receive something, no longer want it so badly, their thrill passes quickly. Option 3: He may have met another who has attracted his attention at the moment ... But I can't believe it because, as a woman / girl, you must have felt it. Option 4: The person may simply be overwhelmed with work, or in a period of some fatigue I don't know: D The solution: For any problems or things you don't like, talk to him, not ABOUT him. (we can't guess what's going on in his head right now)