My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months .. we decided to do it for me it will be my first time .. Everything was fine, he was aroused, he was just putting on the condom and he can't do it anymore .. it was probably 2-3 times .. in the end he even cried that nothing had happened, saying that he was very ashamed of what had happened. Tell me what to do .. what to change in my approach to help both ..
1 sailor_moon_1 answered
Haha, I hope you didn't laugh. Otherwise - sweethearts. Don't worry, darling, it's happening. You can help him a lot. Don't talk about what happened and from now on you put on the condoms, but first ... first make him teach you to blow his whistle. Say you don't feel ready for sex, there's no hurry. He, even if a virgin, knows his "boyfriend" very well and will show you. After about a month, just grab the condom and put it on. Make sure you apply gel-lubricant beforehand or it has aroused you well. The bad thing is that you have to take the active role in this case, and you yourself are a boy, but women are the stronger sex sexually, as she convinced herself. You will do it!