Hello, everyone. I am writing here to express my indignation about a man who has recently entered my life. Personally for me, this behavior is extreme and I cannot accept it. Alas, however, most of those with whom I shared criticized me and wondered in what century I lived. It's about my girlfriend's mother's behavior. I will try to explain clearly what we are talking about. The woman is in her late 40s, the mother of three children and the grandmother of one grandchild. However, her behavior is more appropriate for a teenager in her early 20s, but not for a woman her age, but I still hope you don't tell me if I'm wrong or really not normal. Her husband works a lucrative job abroad, and he provides everything she needs for years, and that's why she's in the "housewife" column, but that's very strongly said, because 2/3 of the time he spends outside the home. She is not at home all day, hanging mostly in cafes. He even comes home very often at dawn, and I have no idea where he goes. For Fridays and Saturdays I know it's a must for a disco, but for the rest of the day I have no idea. For years, her daily life has been cyclical. It is most logical that she has a lover and is with him all day, but this is excluded as an option, because, excluding her behavior, her appearance is also shocking. He is constantly experimenting with all sorts of crazy hairstyles, artificial eyelashes, extensions and what not. For the last 2 years she has covered half of her body with tattoos, and her style of dress is like a slut. I just don't know who will bond with her and who would spend time with her. At the same time, two of the children still live with her. She doesn't cook for them and they take her to ready meals from the culinary shops or they eat in the restaurants. The issue of housework is the same. It's as if they swapped roles, their children are their mother and she is their teenager. The most shocking thing is that one of her daughters totally supports her. Although she is 14 years old, with her mother's permission and approval, she lives as a settled woman. From the 6th grade she started smoking in front of her mother, she started with tattoos at the same time, and the most shocking thing is that her mother ordered hard alcohol when they went out somewhere ... I just don't know ... Just for me Is this not normal. And why can one of her daughters be a total copy and the other not seem to be from this family? her children are also their mother and she is their teenager. The most shocking thing is that one of her daughters totally supports her. Although she is 14 years old, with her mother's permission and approval, she lives as a settled woman. From the 6th grade she started smoking in front of her mother, she started with tattoos at the same time, and the most shocking thing is that her mother ordered hard alcohol when they went out somewhere ... I just don't know ... Just for me Is this not normal. And why can one of her daughters be a total copy and the other not seem to be from this family? her children are also their mother and she is their teenager. The most shocking thing is that one of her daughters totally supports her. Although she is 14 years old, with her mother's permission and approval, she lives as a settled woman. From the 6th grade she started smoking in front of her mother, she started with tattoos at the same time, and the most shocking thing is that her mother ordered hard alcohol when they went out somewhere ... I just don't know ... Just for me Is this not normal. And why can one of her daughters be a total copy and the other not seem to be from this family? and the most shocking thing is that her mother orders hard alcohol when they go out somewhere ... I just don't know ... Isn't that normal for me? And why can one of her daughters be a total copy and the other not seem to be from this family? and the most shocking thing is that her mother orders hard alcohol when they go out somewhere ... I just don't know ... Isn't that normal for me? And why can one of her daughters be a total copy and the other not seem to be from this family?
1 da_ice_toru answered
For me, her behavior is unworthy, but still everyone decides for themselves what to do and bears the consequences. So I am poorly warmed by how people spend their daily lives.