Hello everyone. I just don't know where to start, I'm worried that if I share more detailed, I'll shift your focus from the problem I'm mainly interested in, but I'll try. I hope to come across intelligent people to help me. I am 27 years old, already married to a man who has a divorce and a child behind him. This is not a problem for me or my loved ones, because he is an amazing person, but that is not what I want to comment on. Before we got married, we talked a lot and we both want a child, but here comes the problem, he wants everything in our lives to work out, almost to raise millions, to secure our lives for years to come and only then to think about a child. .. for two years. I don't think there is such an animal, there will always be something missing and if we have to wait to settle down, make big money and "live happily", as in fairy tales I think there will be much to wait for. The truth is that in these two years we have changed two countries where we were to work and make money. I write as if I am in dire need and I don't have enough money, which is not the case. We live well, we make money, it's hard for us, but who doesn't I'm very confused, I don't know what to do. We love each other a lot, but this situation weighs on me. Please advise me something, am I exaggerating ...
1 wittyamy answered
Money doesn't matter. However, they are not the most important thing and if you really love each other, I don't think they can stop you from having a child. If there is a desire, everything is possible, if we do not want, we are looking for an excuse. Money, at least for me, is a means, not a way of life. I give you my opinion most frankly :) But still children are a great responsibility and there must be a desire on both sides, you still have to listen to your friend's opinion, but it is best to tell him frankly how you feel and what you think . And lastly - to have complete happiness and money is not the means to it, the question is to seek the hidden truth, there are no perfect things, the world is a mirror image of our hearts!