We have freedom, thanks to the fact that we live in the 21st century and in a Christian country. We have many rights for the benefit of the woman and we are equal before the law. In Arab countries, even now, the situation is not the same. There, in addition to the fact that the child is written to the man by law, he is able to take the child away from the woman and she will never see him in a divorce. Not to mention the many social inhibitions outside and in the home. There, a woman has been a slave to a man all her life.
That's what I'm asking myself. You're right
You're right, author, I can give more examples. Or when you're a woman and you drive a nice car, or you're in a higher position than a man and you're told you've slept with the boss or how many l****s you can afford the car. Or when a man always takes more money from you, regardless of profession. Or that a bunch of women around the world are being raped and subjected to domestic violence. Or when they stick their chopsticks in the heads of women, that they have to live and fight, and men have their chopsticks. Or when a man is allowed, but you don't. Abortion and pregnancy are at a lot of risk. The thing about making the money from a man is far from the case, it used to be, now not. They make the money for themselves and they've become selfish, so men in their 30s take a nap with their mother and father to cook for him. You're going to be here, but that's the case.
Mm, yes, it's not easy being a woman.
Allo, your 19-year-old, is judging the women's cycle all week. If you do, you're wrong. In young girls, the cycle is 2.3 days and very rarely 4 days. If you think nature wasn't fair to women, then don't get married. Don't ever let it get to you because you think it's painful, too. With those words, you mean no one's ever put it in your ass yet. Don't let a man put it in you, why it's really a pain. If you agree to get pregnant, how do you suffer nine months of suffering, and then the birth itself... woojas. You're not good for sex, you're not good for a wife, let alone raising a child. Stay alone and don't date any men because someone might force you. Then how to look at this child. Do you have brothers and sisters? Have you asked your mother why nature is so unfair to you women? Well, God has so judged that you deserve such a fate. Start going to church and pray to God.
Once upon a time, my wife used to say "well, what are you doing, "only" going to work. And she shopped, walked the child around the park, changed diapers, pressed the button on the washing machine, all the work.
It's easy - you just find a man who will cherish you and not be there for a maid. By this logic, there are also women who believe that a man has to do everything - to make money, to provide a home, to provide a car, etc., and a woman hardly, she does not even have to go to work, but most to put on a vacuum cleaner.
The woman was watching the kids. And what does the man do during this time- he's ingesting his feet on the couch?
In this line of thought, why don't you provide a home that pays off with 20-30 years of hard work, if you've ever raised money for the first installment? Why don't you get a car to keep? Why don't you maintain and renovate the home? Why don't you work two places while your husband does the heroics of changing three diapers and making a plate of food?
It is very easy to say how you are the servants and you have only "no rights" obligations, but no one wonders what a man does while you at home mess with the dry milk and press the button on the washing machine. Nor do you have that responsibility. If the family has no money and has nothing to eat, the man is responsible, not the woman, because he is obliged to provide you. If his boss treats him like a slave, he has no right to say GUCK, because that's how he'd risk your ass with the kid. And he has to endure and be held accountable, but no one cares how to eat four throats and pays and maintains a car and an apartment worth a six-figure sum, nor does the woman see him while at home makes the immense effort to press a few buttons.
It's just that everyone has a role to play and they have to do it. Just because you don't see the other guy's efforts doesn't mean he's almost down, and you're having fun. If this is, I'm more willing to give me everything and have to support me for life in exchange for cooking and babysitting.
I see candidates for raising kittens here.
Up to 4
If you're not going to help, at least it doesn't hurt...
Well, that's it to have a... and It's not just about enjoying sex more, it's not just about choosing and mocking and humiliating your suitors, it's not just to flutter around you, it's about you with gestures and cheeky faces to choose is what you described. And at the end of the day, we're 21st century, with you not liking gender-changing, what's your problem?
You're right. That's why I hated men. Well, not only because of it, but it's having an impact.
As I knew it, men will immediately go with the attacks. Did I offend you with anything??? I'm just saying my opinion. It's about the other stuff. You have no right to say at all whether I'm a mother or a wife. I'm not a Christian! I can imagine how much you will feel and respect your wife...
If men had to go to war, make money and take the first step in everything - I think with one cycle we can do it. No one makes you be a housewife or a mother. If you don't, don't. The Earth is overcrowded anyway, no one has died to give birth and be a housewife. Being a woman in a relatively developed country in the 21st year is no problem. Who's stopping you? You're only 19, and in time you're going to get that naïveness out of your head - that life is 'just'. Well, it's not for anyone. Deal with it :D
Being a victim is a choice for weak-natured muffins.
For me, it is unfair to have very rich and very poor, and to have very beautiful and very ugly people, but there are.
As someone above said - you live in the 21st century, in a country where women are taken from livestock. No one makes you bring it in (though most women enjoy putting it in them), or getting married, giving birth and so on. These things are optional in case you find a man with whom your DNA fits and you want to get into it. Although there may be pressure from parents and other relatives, ultimately it's up to you.
What century do you live in? 19? Nature has decided that the female should wear the fetus, that's the situation. If you don't like it, either don't get pregnant or change gender. What justice can ever be about when there is no justice or morality in nature? Justice is a concept invented by humans, our morality is artificially accepted norms created for us, not to be applied in the organization of life in nature.The only norm in nature is to survive at all costs. We are the creation of nature, there is no point in rebelling against it.
We have a cycle, often very painful. And? He's got painkillers, isn't he? I don't see where the problem is. I have a hell of a painful cycle, without pills, I can't lie in bed in pain, but when I take my medicine on time, I forget I'm in menses at all. There are also birth control pills, different categories, and are used not only against pregnancy, but to regulate a painful cycle, hormonal imbalance, etc.
As for sex, if you think sexual intercourse is painful, you've never had sex or have any problem. It's not normal to hurt. And as a last resort, if you don't like it, why are you doing it? No one makes you have sex, not necessarily.
The same goes for children. Who makes you have one? There are many ways to protect yourself from pregnancy. They have the ones they want. You might even choose the way you give birth. Those who do not want pain or disability have anesses, a c-section...
If you choose a lazy partner who doesn't touch anything at home, doesn't bring money and waits for everything, it's your fault, not society.' You've had a good choice. Everyone is responsible for what they did. There are men who are completely busy with the children while the wife works.
I'm really surprised how a woman in the 21st century complains about cycle and family. Ask our grandmothers and great-grandmothers, theirs was really hard. Without bandages or tampons, with pain, without anti-inflammatory and anticoncetices, they gave birth without anesthesia and had not 2, but 4-5 children. And they had to take care of the house and the kids on their own while the man was at work. It's been a really tough time.
Now no woman is obliged to be a wife or mother. Each settles as it sees fit. If she settles badly, to be mad at herself, no one else is to blame. I just wonder what kind of environment you live in, that in the 21st century so you think.
Calm... the time comes when the cycle will not be such a problem. medicine is advancing!
Author, what do you want from life? What's supposed to happen to you?
Your reasoning shows that you're well cared for by your parents! This weak characterization of today's women is very common, and one part use their sex and appearance to provide material peace without working! Women are cunning because you use their natural assets, with which you manipulate men and their perfectly normal need for a faithful partner and regular sex!...
This behavior would be tantamount to if we men use our physical strength to settle our lives - that's what thugs and criminals do!!!
Your complaint is a sign of a lack of education, culture and values!
Life is a sacrifice that each of us must make in the name of the well-being of the society in which we live and our children!!!
If you don't go down that road, you'il never feel the taste of life. You're not going to be valuable to anybody.
Women are very privileged and in the above comments have clearly explained why!
The lack of selflessness and love for loved ones, husband and children will not be compensated by anything...
In life, you wonder what you can give from yourself, not what you get! Because to get ready for everyone can, but only strong people can give without taking!!! ...
Didn't you ever think that instead of your wife, you could have been born as an animal for slaughter? Keep you in some tight cage full of shit, be constantly pregnant for milk, and end up hanging you upside down and electrocuted before they cut you up with butcher's knives? Or being a wild animal fleeing predators, not knowing if it's going to survive the day? Or are you a predator, perpetually stalking and persecuting so that he doesn't starve to death, and so as long as he's healthy, he has powers, and then he becomes the prey of the vultures? Or be a tree and someone comes to cut you down? I suggest you turn to the creator of the universe with better suggestions for the device of the world. How do you propose to breed humans? With a single-sex system of self-fertilization, you're going to have to put it in on your own, and there'il be no one to help you with anything. With internal birth, you'il still have to give birth, and if you only lay eggs, you'il have to protect them from predators. Or do you suggest that there is no breeding at all and that people are immortal? It's not because of the possibility of mechanical destruction of the body, which cannot be avoided. Even a population of non-aging but without reproduction is doomed to disappear because of accidents and interagrices. Such a population is also doomed to eternal stagnation, because those who took power will never let go and will hold the rest as slaves. And if there's a breeding opportunity, there should automatically be a possibility of death, or we won't have enough of the planet. What's your problem, the bisexual model in general, or your private case that you're screwed to be born a woman? Everybody's yelling like that, what are you like? Well, who else is this a concert at will? Look, if there really is a rebirth, it gives a much broader meaning to the current model. You just take turns being both and the other of all opposites until you mature enough to free yourself from everything and leave this vicious cycle.
From the author: How much negativity I read, I just have no words! Like all women, I dream of a husband and children. I never mentioned that I had no intention of being touched by a man or so. Take a real look at the things I've listed and you'il understand me better. I don't hate men or anything like that, I just think they've got more rights and freedom, nothing more. I don't regret being a woman at all and I don't complain about my cycle (if anyone got me wrong) These days we're just unwell, which is not comfortable. I just expressed an opinion without any hard feelings for anyone.
Offf, mother, but you commentators are really bad. What kind of animals are you talking about? What massacre? We're talking about the guy. But you men how to find out when you're never and won't be a woman. I wish you well, but in some other life... Come on, cheers!
And with your last comment, you decided to play him a victim. So you can write whatever you want, but when others express an opinion, it's negativity. So you just want us to agree with you. Learn to accept criticism, not everything revolves around your opinion. The truth is born in the argument, but you don't want to know that there are two sides to the coin. You literally put on a theme explaining that women are harder and not justified. Were you a man that you knew?
Do you have any idea what some men have been through? In your imagination, men are reduced to sex machines, having no other purposes, ideals, problems. No uncertainties, no difficulties, no moments of weakness. In general, zero complexity. They're born, they're having a child, they're suffering for nine months, they're dumping her at home. Then she becomes a maid, and they look at their lives.
Can you do that kind of naivety at 19? It's equally hard for all of us. Some have a better start, but they have problems, too. Life is a constant struggle and it makes it so beautiful, but also a little scary.
18, I don't think you realize your problem yourself, then. You just repeat the typical baseless feminist statements in your attempt to live as a victim and get imaginary benefits from it. What rights do men have more? To die years earlier than women (statistically)? Kill themselves three times more (because they're so safe)? Yes, as they said above - men and women are different in their very fetus. You can't say "men have more rights because they don't have a cycle." According to Eurostat, Bulgaria ranks second in the EU in the number of women in leadership positions - 44%, almost half of the managers are women. Wow, there are a lot of oppressed women, great sacrifices, no rights and no privileges! Only weak and disoriented women can claim it's bad to be a woman. In fact, you have to stop wanting to be a man, realize your feminine nature and accept it. No schizoidy fraughts.
What rights and privileges do you dream of? What do you think should happen to be happy? Or you don't know, and you just know that you're unhappy with something, but you can't even know what?
For the cycle and birth straight - it sucks, but there is no way for both sexes to do this. These tasks are done by only one.
Now: it's the woman herself's fault! Scoring is painful if its size is too big for your options. So if it's big, you find a smaller one, and it won't hurt that much. And if by painful you mean sex, you don't have to do it either, honey! I personally allow you to blow off every meraclia for one. Disgruntled people complain to the mayor of Tanganyika!
For the household: these days things are individual. If yours doesn't, think about whether you ever made it or sit and sigh heavily about the clichés that oblige you to do this and that!
And by making money, if you don't have enough money, find yourself making money, man! Delyan Peevski and company - one of those ones is free, and he makes money! Maybe someone poorer than them, why are you hooking up with these bad poor guys, man? Did anyone oblige you?
Yes, I've heard this stereotype about male birth, but again- there are men and men! If you don't like this guy, you go to the other guy and live together. I don't think you knew she wanted a man's baby before you got pregnant. Then why are you standing with him and giving birth to his children?
In simple words: reduce the reading of bitter old maids, called their new extreme feminists (they are the ones to whom their feminism is an excuse for the hatred of men they have for a long time, and not women fighting for something good for the benefit of the fair sex) and take their lives into their own hands! If this man doesn't want the same as you, you find someone else and then you give him a child! First study and then nativity - male, female!
If someone obliges you to stand with the example you described, tell me his name, and I'm going to go to him personally... explain how stupid he is. Once I'm done with the horse, he'il hide somewhere and never give you the tone of life anymore. And if no one obliges you, but you still continue to suffer, and you suffer, silently standing on a bench, with a sad gaze and in the "Multi-Suffering Genovese" pose, the explanation will not be for any man, but for the sufferer. Suffering is something that is against our will, not a modern psychofetic. I mean, you should really be obligated to do something, not do it voluntarily, but claim that someone is obligating you.
Fortunately, we are in a democratic state with Christian values. The rights of men and women are equal.
You think only from your point of view - don't you think that men are the ones who, in a possible war, will be mobilized.
I don't think you've witnessed a grossly unfair treatment of women - are you forced to walk veiled? Are you married when you were a child? Have you been subjected to the so-called "no-go zones"? female circumcision? I hope not.
American feminism is an intrusion of malicious values - it does not promote gender equality, but supremacy over men. The example of Western Europe is positive - there is no gender divide in Sweden, even in politics the number of men and women is equal.
- Female circumcision
- Early marriages
- Lack of access to education
- Prohibition of skilled work
- Burki and other headscarf
Fortunately, Bulgaria is a Christian country with democratic principles. These things are absent. Menstruation and household care are the least of the problems, if we can even call them. Wars, fatigue, high demands... It's not easy for men either. We need gender tolerance, not play Who's the Best.
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