Hello! Interesting question. I have also thought and reflected on it and will share some of the conclusions I have reached. It exists, of course, but not for everyone. I personally know several such families, one of them was the family of my grandfather and grandmother, who are no longer among us - God forgive them! I mean families - that is, the situation in which people have met and married the "man of their life." (I will not analyze unrequited or unfulfilled love, because for me such situations mean that it was not "the man of your life.") In my opinion, it cannot happen that every man meets the "man of his life" in Several main reasons: First - there are people who do not have a predisposition to start a family and are left alone for life. Second - there are people who are too selfish and can never love another person more than themselves (or at least as much as themselves), which is a necessary condition. Third - there is no ideal person, and whoever seeks the "ideal" will never find it. And to get it - you just have to love the other person as he is, with his pros and cons. And it has to be mutual. But this alone is not enough - we see many cases in which after a while "love" passes and everything ends. Why is this happening? The answer is simple and clear - because it was not love, but passion. Love is a sublime and wonderful feeling, which in the modern world is confused with falling in love and the passion to possess the other person, and with other vulgar and low passions. Other important things besides mutual love are: to have spiritual closeness and the same or at least similar priorities and spiritual values. This will help you to always be united, unanimous and together to overcome all problems, difficulties and obstacles in your life. There may be more to add, but I'll stop there. A wanderer
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There is everyone who will not meet.