Hello! I have been in a relationship with a man for a year (he is 20, he is 26). I've been feeling a little different for a few months now. At the beginning of the relationship he was hellishly kind, kind words, hugged me more, paid more attention to me when we had sex, made me French. Not so now. I started working in 2 months and almost every day I was really tired, I was very sleepy and my legs hurt a lot. I also had to study and I had to combine a little free time with several things at once. As you can guess, I was very nervous, sensitive and I needed more tenderness and understanding from one idea. We often take offense at him, but as a joke. The point is that this is more prevalent on his side, and the kind words are less (I know he's crazy, but still ..). When I go to him and he kisses me once, the next moment he has already grabbed my ass or chest, and I don't care at all, I just want him to hug me, talk to me, kiss me more .. Somehow he's still used to me, we almost every day see you. I also have a problem with sexuality, because when I have some nerves in my head or I'm tired and I don't feel like having sex, but in no case have I kept it dry on purpose. I hate sex with him, but here's the other problem. I love licking and this is the only way to finish, but he doesn't do it to me that often anymore .. He mixes with his fingers and as much as he gets wet, so much .. And I am expected to give blowjobs, because otherwise it is dry. And when I ask him if I have anything, not to have a different taste or smell (we even talked about saying that if there is one) and he says no. He just didn't like to do it (otherwise he likes to see me, that I'm done !? ), did not know what to do (well, not everyone was born a scientist, not trying pesto how to know .. Although when he does I have no complaints). I have no complaints in general about sex itself, I have always understood it, although there have been cases (rare) for it to fall, to end quickly, but I have always understood it and I have never made it a problem, rather I try to reassured him. He does not want to sleep in us. I sleep with them at least 2 times a week, and he has slept so much for 1 year. I ask him many times, because I also do not like to sleep on someone else's bed and pillow, but to be with him I make a compromise. He felt that he was always intruding on us, and I told him that if he felt that way, then I was intruding on them if he understood things that way. He said it wasn't like that. Another problem is that for some time now he has wanted us to do nothing but be in them or once a month with his friend. I make him walk, on foot, so as not to give money for fuel. He doesn't want to. I asked him for 2 months to go to a swimming pool in his town, he didn't want to, there would be gypsies. How much I begged him and he finally went with his friends today. I was dumbfounded because today I am overwhelmed with learning and just when I can, he runs, and when I begged him, he doesn't want to! And I have no problem that he was with his friends, I like them and many times when their boyfriends were not with them, I did not go to be their only male company. My problem is that he didn't want to be with me until now. I drove him to a restaurant to go for a drink, he still doesn't want to, but I've been driving him since we've been together ... Today I couldn't stand it and I was upset, I told him all this, and he told me, that I wanted to quarrel with him and I just grumbled, I made a victim, only he was guilty .. And I just wanted to discuss, but I will not tell him what's wrong with me, let's see how he will wonder and how he will ask me all the time. But tell me, what is wrong with you, what is wrong with you, what is there ... For him these things are insignificant, and for me they are important, after all the attitude for me is in the first place. to do, I understand that there is no work at the moment, but I don't think that this should reflect on our relationship, I also have problems, we share, but I don't change my attitude towards him ... He generally doesn't behave badly , but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things? I made a victim, only he was guilty .. And I just wanted to discuss, but I will not tell him what's wrong with me anymore, let's see how he will wonder and how he will ask me constantly But tell me, what's the matter with you you are, what's up .... For him these things are unimportant, and for me they are important, after all the attitude for me is in the first place .. And I don't know what to do, I understand that there is no work at the moment, but no I think this should reflect on our relationship, I also have problems, we share, but I do not change my attitude towards him ... He generally does not behave badly, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how can I do to make things right? I made a victim, only he was guilty .. And I just wanted to discuss, but I will not tell him what's wrong with me anymore, let's see how he will wonder and how he will ask me constantly But tell me, what's the matter with you you are, what's up .... For him these things are insignificant, and for me they are important, after all the attitude for me is in the first place .. And I don't know what to do, I understand that there is no work at the moment, but no I think this should reflect on our relationship, I also have problems, we share, but I do not change my attitude towards him ... He generally does not behave badly, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things? but I will no longer tell him what's wrong with me, let's see how he will wonder and how he will constantly ask me But tell me, what's the matter with you, what's the matter with you, what's the matter .... For him these things are unimportant, and for they are important to me, after all the attitude for me is in the first place .. And I don't know what to do, I understand that there is no work at the moment, but I don't think that should reflect on our relationship, I also have problems, we share I don't change my attitude towards him ... He doesn't behave badly in general, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things? but I will no longer tell him what's wrong with me, let's see how he will wonder and how he will constantly ask me But tell me, what's the matter with you, what's the matter with you, what's the matter .... For him these things are unimportant, and for they are important to me, after all the attitude for me is in the first place .. And I don't know what to do, I understand that there is no work at the moment, but I don't think that should reflect on our relationship, I also have problems, we share I don't change my attitude towards him ... He doesn't behave badly in general, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things? For him these things are insignificant, and for me they are important, after all the attitude for me is in the first place .. And I don't know what to do, I understand that there is no work at the moment, but I don't think that should reflect on the relationship us, I also have problems, we share, but I do not change my attitude towards him ... He generally does not behave badly, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things? For him these things are insignificant, and for me they are important, after all the attitude for me is in the first place .. And I don't know what to do, I understand that there is no work at the moment, but I don't think it should reflect on the relationship us, I also have problems, we share, but I do not change my attitude towards him ... He generally does not behave badly, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things? He generally does not behave badly, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things? He generally does not behave badly, but not as before. Am I tired of him or is he too used to me? He wants a future with me, to live together and have children, I want too. I'm not asking you whether to leave it or not, but what and how to do to fix things?
1 youthcat answered
Stop complaining and be by his side. Men feel like men when they make money. In this case, he has no job, is lying down and feels depressed. Sometimes he obviously wants just plain sex with his girlfriend to forget about his problems. And rejoice that you still manage to make him want you so much. He did French to you in the beginning because he knew you liked it, but that doesn't mean he will always do it or he always liked to do it. He doesn't want to spend extra money, so he didn't go to the pool with you, but he did go with his friends, because somehow his company can't say I don't have money, I won't come, especially if it was one of his few outings. lately. He doesn't want to sleep with you often because he really feels intrusive. It is one thing for someone to sleep with a boy, it is another for someone to sleep with a girl.