Please write girls and boys who have had a similar situation. Thank you. My story is as follows. 4 years ago I fell in love with a girl. We had a relationship for a year. We both said a lot this year. We experienced the best moments. We have never been hurt. It was amazing. I couldn't even imagine life without her for a day. But here that day came. She left me because I wanted a very serious relationship that she doesn't have time for now. And that we need to think more about the future. It's very long and I can't write it. 3 years later I don't stop loving her. I fought for her for a year. After that I have no contact for two years now. But I'm still very, very much in love with her. I've done everything I've tried, believe it all. I haven't looked at another girl in 3 years. I haven't even met anyone. I'm not unattractive. On the contrary. I am a wanted man but I simply either refuse or do not respond to messages. I want advice on what to do. I miss him terribly. I miss every moment with her. Every smile and every hug. I even cried a lot for her. I love her and I don't know if I have to take serious measures for that because I can't do it this way anymore .... I just don't want to suffer anymore and I don't see any other way out but the most extreme one.
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Well done to real boys like you, unfortunately you are naive and do not understand that these girls are not worth the time and attention. As a girl, I tell you that if she loved you at least a little, she wouldn't say she didn't want a serious relationship and would find a way to be with you over the years. Stop paying attention to her and you'll see how she will run after you, but I don't think such girls are worth it.