Hello, I write here because I do not know who to turn to because I have been abroad for 3 weeks and my girlfriend. I'm 22 years old and she's 17. That's what happened we had sex, but the condom broke and I ended up in it, we were very worried because it was too early for a child, so the next day we took a tablet of Escapel and calmed down, A few days later, I went abroad and had to come to her at 09. 11, but today is 13. 11 and four days late, although we know this pill is likely to cause a change in menstruation like being late or coming until next month because she's worried and says she's got symptoms, she's coming, she's going to be nervous and she's having a lot of pain, she's eating a lot and she's sure she's coming, and she's coming, and she's getting sick. that may have side effects from the pill. I told her to take a pregnancy test to calm down, but alas the test came out positive, two lines one was pale, she could not believe and take even 2 more tests and the other two were the same. I talked to her tomorrow to go to a gynecologist to consult him, but she worries if she is 100% pregnant that she can't keep the child because she's underage and that will interfere with her education. He's also worried about telling his mother not to have bad consequences. What can you advise me, because we both don't want this pregnancy if we have to remove the fetus, how it works through medications that cause "miscarriage" or through abortion or I don't know, and if I need an abortion, whether they want a parent to agree, I guess it will be. I'd be grateful for every single answer because I'm overseas and I don't have the opportunity to go home to her at the moment and it's very difficult for me.
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gabrielle404 answered · June 15, 2020
It matters a lot, how many hours after sexual contact, escappel took. If she drank it by 12 hours, she's certainly not pregnant. But if it's 12 hours and up, the percentages increase to be pregnant..
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johnnysinsboyfriend answered · June 15, 2020
so far you do everything right -1. test, 2. Doctor. The doctor will answer the other questions. it's nice that you don't hang out, because the faster - the better. The symptoms that will come to her are very close to those of early pregnancy, so they are not a criterion.
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johnjohnson23252325 answered · June 15, 2020
Consult a doctor. To tell her mother, things like that don't hide, she's a woman and she'il understand and help her, even more so you're far away and you're not there right now. A lot should be careful when abortion before the first birth and if you have decided not to postpone much in time. After 3 months, there is no abortion, and in an unborn woman there are risks. I need support now, if there's a way back and calm her down, she's got a little bit of support now, if there's a way back and calm her down, she's got a little bit on her. Every woman has a hard time having an abortion.
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messydarla answered · June 15, 2020
If it's early week it's better, otherwise I guess a parent will. The gynecologist will tell.
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danger_ladiess answered · June 15, 2020
I don't know, man. You've run over the onions. She's either going to have to give birth or an abortion.
If three tests tested positive, she's pregnant. My only hope is that the escapela has robbed her of hormones and influenced the result, but it's unlikely.
If she has an abortion now, if she has not given birth, there is a good chance that this will lead to her being unable to become pregnant again.
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look_bigcock answered · June 15, 2020
It's a big mess, but condoms are tearing up, and it's not your fault, so let the girl not bother to tell her mother. Because she is a minor, parental consent will be required to have an abortion. The good news is that abortions in a very early pregnancy pose fewer risks. Now she can go to the doctor alone, without her mother, to become clear if she is pregnant and to calmly ask herself the questions. But I don't know if it can confuse the test. Tests from the pharmacy detect a certain hormone that is excreted during pregnancy, but they are not 100% sure, therefore the most adequate is to go to the doctor.
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thor_and_sarah answered · June 16, 2020
Run to the doctor right now! First, she will find out for sure whether she is pregnant or not, and secondly, if she is, at first there is a chance to have a medical abortion, that is, to remove the fetus only with drugs, but if delayed already requires surgery, which is a great stress for the body, not to mention that there already the consent of at least one parent is mandatory because it is 17.
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edenasia answered · June 16, 2020
1 - The next day she took the pill may have been 20-24 hours, if we survived the low probability that the pill did not work, then there are no such carrots..
Yes today it is for a gynecologist i think he will best advise her what to do and most of all will calm her down a little bit, because I guess it will not be the first time for the doctors, thank you for your quick comments and advice.
3.4 - Well, early in the week it's because Escapelle drank it on 24.10 or 25.10 I'm not very accurate, but she had to come to her at 9.11, but she was also late, and now we found out yesterday that she was pregnant. This morning she bought another one and did the test again before going to the toilet and without drinking any fluids so as not to interfere with the result and again positive, but it's in the early weeks I mean it's not in the second month or anything like that, I just hope everything is ok ..
5- We also hoped the pill would have confused the result, but I feel sick that there is a risk that there is no possibility of having a child after a while, but there is no way to keep it, because she is still studying, and neither I nor she is ready for it, and nowadays you have to be stable in order to raise a child. I hope in time if we are with her in about 4-5 years, god forbid if she shows me the test to please both of us, because there are so many people in the world who can not have children and dream about it..
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destinyt3en answered · June 17, 2020
I've done a pregnancy test more than once. I remind you that they are usually drawn two traits. When one is bright and the other very, very pale test is negative. I also have a vague memory that there was something about the time the streaks were stained. In fact, it also says in the test leaflet. Haven't you read it? Maybe she's not pregnant. If it is, he will say that. Her mother will need to know if you're right in your guess because she's a minor and can't have an abortion without a parent's consent.
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groe56 answered · June 17, 2020
If your parents support you, you can keep the child. I believe there were no random things, and if it had to happen, then there was a reason. Even with a child, you can still find a way to finish school. It would be a great pity to destroy this future life.
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sethf52 answered · June 17, 2020
Dude, bad news, the baby's not from you. She had sex with someone else! I've resorted to a spasic many times after stormy evenings and no hook-up. You're such a jerk now her parents are going to blame you.
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evayourdream answered · June 18, 2020
Boy, did you know that the day of the last menstruation and the day of ovulation are considered for the first day and for the beginning of the SECOND week of the beginning of the future pregnancy respectively! From the 24th (and ovulation may have been earlier) 3 weeks 2 = 5 passed. It's exactly the second month now!
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karga66 answered · June 18, 2020
I've had three pregnancies and all three tests have pale traits. For abortion is not a guarantee of no future children, I also have a miscarriage, and now I am waiting for a child, this is not the cause of reproductive problems.
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xomaddieox answered · June 19, 2020
The tests are secure. Two traits, though pale second, usually means pregnancy. That's exactly what it was with one brand of testing. Tests must have been done correctly. It's a story. Not that you can not tear a condom, but this happens relatively rarely, and I somehow do not believe such explanations with a torn condom. Which doesn't matter. Wait a week after the date, make another one and the doctor.
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mark28100 answered · June 19, 2020
The third day since you wrote the subject, didn't you go to a gynecologist or was it cut?
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marshmallow_girl answered · June 19, 2020
Hello, sorry for the late response we eventually agreed to talk to her mother. I'il write again to tell you what happened, thank you very much for the advice.
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sirena99 answered · June 19, 2020
All right, how so quickly the pregnancy symptoms came to light. I know it takes longer until 'sync' occurs between the fetus and body and this pregnancy hormone rises enough to report a positive test. I ask out of curiosity, and as for advice, dude, whatever happens, just be there for her because it's not easy at 17 to experience things like that.
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twiliiight answered · June 20, 2020
There's a very big risk with abortion. Yes, giving birth at such an age is also not an option and it is dangerous, but one day you can't have a baby... Do not reject it immediately - think a little. If your parents agree, there are financial options and who should babysit... things can work out. Of course, if the girl is strong-willed. I have a friend like that who graduated, went to a good university and with the help of the grandmothers are doing well at the moment...
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shane14567 answered · June 20, 2020
Well, it's been a week since you wrote the subject, haven't you gone to a gynecologist yet? By the time she's on her way, she's going to give birth.
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youtw1234 answered · June 20, 2020
What do you care? If you wait 9-10 months, it'il pass!
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kinkysandra answered · June 20, 2020
He's a gynecologist today because he has an echograph today.
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lobziqlol answered · June 20, 2020
And?
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yourbabygirlll_ answered · June 21, 2020
Well, congratulations on becoming dad, and a drink later.
To make sure it's from you, your baby took a paternity test in a lab, but watching a child who else did is a betrayal. Women are capable of anything if they're aiming for something specific, don't underestimate them!
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peachy1167 answered · June 21, 2020
Three days passed by the echograph and we heard from us, not a bone.
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dannafresh answered · June 21, 2020
But we both came to the conclusion that we're going to take it out as well as her parents know, and they agree, except that when I get home I'm going to have to take her to live with me because kind of doesn't, they don't want her. but do not want to go through this again, but anyway, thank you very much for the advice. After the abortion, I'il write again.
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calliemack answered · June 21, 2020
Author, I'm sorry you have to have an abortion. Not that it matters, but it doesn't have to have been before the pill, because gestational weeks count from the last menses, not conception. It's quite possible that it didn't work then. Especially if it's not taken early enough.
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scorpion_lagata answered · June 21, 2020
25, a big girl is 17, what do you think she's going to be aiming for, giving birth at 18?
To the author: you have only made the right decision. Abortion doesn't necessarily mean infertility. And how are you going to get her to live with you, isn't she studying?!
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eve_evans answered · June 22, 2020
I'm 13. You've dusted me the minuses, but I've been right- she's five weeks pregnant (exactly 2nd month), Well, did I tell you!
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start_sex answered · June 22, 2020
13, even the week I've calculated correctly! Next time, listen to your cock!
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harly_quinx answered · June 22, 2020
up to 30
You still didn't realize that minuses are being slapped, not because you're wrong, but because some people don't like your opinion.
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angelsweety_ answered · June 22, 2020
Yesterday the procedure passed, everything went well removed the fetus. After the procedure, she had a stomach ache for 10 minutes, and then everything was fine. Thank you very much for the advice, everything is already fine, although the gynecologist had told her that she was underage and would not take money for the procedure, only 50 LEVA for some examination, but alas they took 200 leva, but the important thing is that everything is fine already.
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anymaisa_air answered · June 22, 2020
No longer rely on condoms, tell the girl to pass on chimonal tablets, consult a geneticist yes and prescribe them and take them correctly.