Hi I'm a girl of almost 18 I have a friend for almost a year, he is 22. In the beginning when we met he was constantly on business trips this was his job. After about 6 months he left because it was unbearable to be together only 2 days a week. During this time, even if only for two days, we spent a super summer at sea back and forth. After he left he couldn't find a job for a while and we were almost always together, too, everything was OK. Then I had an argument with my best friend and so far I don't know why, but maybe that's how it should have been. Recently he started a monotony, when he finished work we are together, but we do nothing different. His friends call him to go out together, he doesn't want to (I don't have such close friends anymore and I don't go out much except with him). I think I'm tired of this monotony, and on the one hand I get stupid when he goes out with his friends, and I stand and wait for him and there is no one to go out with. I want to get together with his friends and their girlfriends a little variety and it will be more fun, but he somehow does not want I do not know why. I want if someone can give me advice or something to diversify our relationship a bit.
1 trishayearwood answered
The mistake of young people and people like you is that you are not ready for serious relationships. You got caught for aho-iho-to. Morenza, discos. Muffin in front of other people on excursions, etc. Drop it and indulge in whoring. Or at worst, at least don't live together and keep your freedom. Get out without him. Only if you are going to cheat on him, tell him in advance ... I hope you find the courage. In order to be in a serious relationship, to have a quiet life and to REALLY love each other, you must have been there before, you must be bored, you have already experienced jealousy, sadness, pain, humiliation ... to finally find the person with whom you can just blissfully enjoy every day. To anyone who rates my post with 1 point, I will tell him in advance that he is a hypocrite in front of him. I am not and I have given myself to life while I was young. And when you turn 40, you remember,