Hello! I found the site and decided to ask you. I have a sister of 14. From time to time I catch her alone in my room, in the dark, wrapped around her head, not moving, with headphones. Sometimes she has no desire to eat. Does not show up. Once or twice a week for a while. He refuses to spend a few hours with his family or let alone his friends. He is constantly on his bed listening to music. Once she was asleep and the phone was under her. I pulled it out carefully. I wondered what exactly he was listening to. There were some slow and sad songs about unrequited love, lies, infidelity. There was even suicide. I was a little scared for my little sister. I don't want him to get hurt. About a month and a half ago, she broke up with her boyfriend, then there was another boy she liked a lot and kept talking about him, but I realized that he hated her for some unknown reason, given that they don't talk much as far as I know. Most likely because of the second boy my sister is blamed and hurt further ... Is this depression .. how can I help her ... Please help! .
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Hello! I think your sister is melancholy. This is a temporary state of sadness, despair, etc. If he is in his teens it is very typical. Most teens fall into such states, and more. It will pass, but it will not be suddenly. He has to be distracted by something, no matter how much he doesn't want to do it at this moment. Talk to her and try to cheer her up. Melancholy should not deepen. To replace sad music with cheerful. She is young and life is ahead of her, she should not grieve for it. There are worse things. She will be the first to meet you and go out with men / boys. Good luck :) Write later if there is development.