Hello! :) I regularly read the stories published here. I will try and be as brief as possible before I go in the wrong direction with action. And so briefly my story .. I have a friend of 1 year and a half. I liked it when I saw it, although ok. We were just friends for 8 months. Fiery love - so sincere and pure. He was everything to me. It was a tender caress after crying, the warm embrace you need in moments of loneliness, it was the support and spiritual support, the laughter and the sparkle in my eyes ... In a word, it was amazing. I wanted to be with him every second just like him. He was constantly looking for me and took every minute to be with me. He was obviously a dream man, so now he's just daydreaming. It was like that until 2 months ago, when I found out that he had written to a girl, that they were dating, that he liked her, and so on. It was very hard for me - he was amazing. It is close to the mind that it will not remain so. A few days later I asked him and of course he denied everything. After that, however, I was terribly angry with him - to such an extent that I looked at his messages on Facebook while he was gone. Of course, he had my password, but not mine, and then I understood why. I had nothing to hide, I was loyal to him and rejected everyone with rude behavior, while he wrote to every 2nd girl ... Less than a week later, when I saw his text messages ... From the first, which was addressed to a girl, a leading friend of mine, with whom I was sitting at the same table, with = I just cried. And so the 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc. followed with the text messages, maybe there was no end after I showed them to him, he took the phone, got away from me and for about 30-40 minutes deleted everything while I was just sitting speechless .. However, he did not change his attitude for months - he became the opposite of himself. Now whatever I ask him makes me angry, tc-ka, etc. Even a question like How are you? or What does it do? it makes him angry. For a month now, whatever he asks me, I have to give him a detailed account of how I did it, where, with whom, and when I answer a question, I ask him. I never believed it would happen, but here it is. He just hasn't smiled at me in weeks, I can feel the coldness he radiates. I don't know what this is due to. I did not give him reasons for jealousy and I always treated him well. I just can't stand such an atmosphere, so I don't even impress him anymore, I just don't care. Please advice. What to do? Will things get better or just doesn't make sense? I tried to talk to him, oh he denies having anything ... I hope you publish my story. :)
1 annaxariana answered
He took you for granted. Well, show him you're not. Pay him less time, no reports and work. You don't owe him though. Who doesn't know how to behave, send him to hell.