Hello, everyone!
I have a serious problem that I obviously can't solve on my own ... that's why I need your advice!
So let me tell you what this is all about.
I am 19 years old, I have a girlfriend of 2 years, she is 17.
So far so good, but, there is one huge BUT!
When we met, everything was wonderful, as at the beginning of any relationship, we both had a lot of "popularity" on social networks, because I've been doing fitness for years, and uploading photos of how I train, etc., she, in turn, has a very nice body and likes to share it with everyone on social networks, in short, likes to take pictures provocatively.
There's nothing wrong with that, or so I thought before he found out a lot about her ... after our 3rd month, a boy contacted me and sent pictures to my girlfriend ... like I was looking at pictures from playboy, and he had written to me - "here to see what your girlfriend is" ... I was amazed, I just did not know what to think and how to think .. I went to her, showed the photos, she explained to me that with this boy had been undressed and had been there, hadn't had sex or anything more intimate (she claims I'm the first). I thought about it a bit and said to myself, "Well, it was just a dunk, nowadays a lot of girls send each other nice bodies, etc.) I said it to myself to calm down. Another month passed- We were in them and cooking after the hard workout we had done, she went to the toilet, and just at that nasty moment the phone and began to constantly receive notifications, one after another! And so probably 10. I looked at the phone (I just want to add that I never allowed myself to dig into the phone, etc.) when I opened the chat with the boy in question, I saw something that threw me into the weave again! They were writing gold, chick, treasure ... my heart was broken when I saw that they wrote literally what they did before she met me, their erotic memories ... and that she had sent pictures of slingshots and bra, 6, 7 days after we left together ... she came, and I had already turned all red, I was both angry and broken everywhere! I started screaming, handed over the phone, and when I saw that I was chatting with this boy, he immediately cried ...
I didn't know what to do, I left! He started calling me, writing to me, but I was really confused! The next day I went to the village, turned off my phone and only heard from ours through my grandmother's phone, after 4 days I was determined to find out what happened to this boy, and whether they had anything while we were together. Without telling her, I went to them, rang the bell, and when I opened the door, she cried again, hugged me, and I hugged her too. We sat down, and she explained to me that while we were together they had seen each other only once, and only for a short time, they had done nothing, etc., they had only seen each other. I asked her what they had done before I came into her life, and specifically whether they had sex or if it was another lie of hers. She told me that they only pressed, colored, etc. I didn't believe her ... I just didn't believe her. A week passed and I lost my temper because I didn't believe her, I decided that I should find the boy and talk to him personally. It turned out to be a friend of my friend, the meeting was arranged, we saw each other without telling him what happened, I started asking him what they did and how they did it, he told me that they really only pressed and colored, he also told me that she always stood only in thongs, I didn't believe him, but a hop, he showed me a picture of him coloring her tits and ... it really was only in thongs ...
I freaked out, I wanted to sink. The boy, although startled by me, because I was 4 times older than him (in vision), told me that he was telling the truth and I told him that I had nothing more to ask him. I saw my girlfriend.
I hugged her and told her everything was fine. She went to sea the next day. While she was there, she did not stop posting provocative photos, she told me that she had seen a family friend, and the next day they would be at the beach together, with their boy's and their friend's. I didn't feel well after everything that happened, but I said no problem! When she came back from the sea ... her friend called me and told me that the boy had kissed her on the mouth. I didn't believe it! When I told her, she tried to lie to me, but I caught her not telling the truth, it turned out that he had really kissed her. She cried again, said she didn't want to, she wasn't guilty. However, this time I no longer had the strength to believe her, so I gave an ultimatum. Delete all your social networks, and I will. Erase them, really, me too. For a moment I thought that really everything would be fine. 5-6 months passed, there were no problems, 1 month ago we made social networks again, the first day's everything was fine, but after a while, she started uploading those disgusting porn photos again ...
I say porn because for me it's not an Ok tied girl to upload photos only in lingerie, and claim that she loves one ... there may be such women, but I already doubt that this is my girl. That week I actually realized how many boys she had relationships with, in particular the same relationship she had with that boy-colored, to stand only in thongs, etc. Already hah .. I do not believe, I do not believe anything said already from her, I don't believe that I'm the first, or that she didn't cheat on me ... I don't know ... And yesterday something like thunder and crashing came to me! My best friend told me she liked me ... really, she's smart, she's only had one serious relationship so far, and when she says something she keeps her word!
I really like that in her! She is not as beautiful as my current girlfriend, but inside I see the most beautiful person in the world, she has always been by my side for 6 years ... please advice .. what to do and how to proceed from now on! ? Thank you in advance!