No, I'm not sinless. Surely I could have treated her differently in some situations. But I don't think I've crossed boundaries. Yes, I loved her, but I didn't show it the way she wanted me to because I am. Years ago, I swallowed my feelings for another with whom we had more in common. It was very difficult for me. I did it for her sake, not to betray her, because I held on to her, because I didn't want to become a scumbag, because I had chosen her. I made quite a few compromises. I invested as little as I could. Now, it turns out that everything was pointless. She stabbed me in a difficult time for me. She threw everything lightly in the dump, showing everything as a tramp, the man she had been with for years ... I don't know if she has changed or been hiding. Now I wonder if I shouldn't have been selfish? Because being loyal is obviously not worth it ...
1 sigalacon answered
Have you ever wondered why you continue to be with someone who humiliates you? Okay, you love her, of course, but when one thing starts happening again and again, you forgive again and continue with the same person - man / woman, you stab yourself. She knows your weaknesses and when something doesn't turn her around she knows exactly where to aim. Because you will be angry, angry and in the end you will forgive again. She will come to you again and ask for love, you will give it to her again and the wheel will start turning again. Think well and find the mistakes in both you and her. Success! Girl