Why it's too late, people in their 40s and 45s start a family and have children. It's never too late, but don't just do it because you have to, but start a family with a woman you really love.
You're at a very good age for a family. The question is, where's it not? I guess you're ready with the purely material stuff, so something else isn't going well. What kind of relationships have you had before, why did you end it? Do you have friends, social backgrounds, hobbies? What are you like as a character? Tell me more about yourself, let's know how to help you.
PS: You're 28, you say you're ready for a family, you call yourself another boy...
For a man in his 50s, it's not too late to become a father. Even you men are like wine, and you become more attractive as time. Live your life. The right one will show up when you don't expect it!
You're on time for this job. Look for a normal woman with a desire like yours and act. Well, it's not easy to find the right person for you, but if you don't do anything, it can't happen. Success!
M36
Author, how to connect. I'm 28 and I'm ready for a family too!
And I, at 28, already had a car, a place, a good job... only a serious boyfriend I did not have, respectively and I felt similarly. I'm in some kind of existential crisis. I'm turning 32 soon - I'm still like that, haha. I mean, though, most of my friends, who are down and down at my age, are in a similar position. It's just the weather today - especially in the bigger cities, especially in Sofia. It's not like old times. My father was married at 30 - in the 80s it was a late age. Now most men in their 30s are single yet. That's just what today's culture is. I'm not going to comment on whether she's okay or not, she's just like that. Most of my colleagues at work (in IT work) are also in the 25-35 age range and less than half of them have serious boyfriends or families. I'm saying this to reassure you, because it's not nice for a person to make hasty decisions about things like that. You can catch a boyfriend you can barely match and say "i'm 29 or 30 soon to have it" and two years from now you get divorced because you haven't actually been able to do it (as is often the case).
For the man, it doesn't matter, Yitzhak Finzi, 80, is a 30-year-old girl's baby. For women it is fatal age, over 30 are already risky. The author is still a young boy, he can live a little longer.
It's not too late. A man of 28 is in the prime of his youth, power and intellect. There is no specific time to start a family, the important thing is to feel ready and have a desire. If you say you want to, don't hang out on the forums, go looking for a girl. But don't rush or do it to please your parents. You're going to make one of the most important choices of your life, don't act with pressure. Maybe you don't find the right girl because you're not looking right. You don't give much information about yourself. In any case, you are much more likely to meet the right woman at a cultural event, in the park while playing sports, and even on the Internet, than in a bar.
It's not too late, even if you're just in time, it would have been too early. It's more like the perfect moment from now on. My husband was 26 when we became boyfriends, married me when he was 28, the child when he was born he was 33. All you have to do is find a maiden, and don't rush there, but choose well! And we, like you, had everything set up and we're doing really well, you're right to have a car, a home, a job! This is the most important thing before the next step and I do not understand people who create children and a family with poor work, unstable /not low incomes, living rented!
Enough with these boys and girls in their 30s (author and number 7). This shows your attitude towards yourself. As long as you're perceived in an infantile way, you're not a family. Guys were. Once at 18 they were at the front, 20 had families and several children, and now in their 30s they were boys. You're probably eating too. Pu is not a lesson to you. Gugu-gaga, to the boy.
You're not a boy at 28, you're a man of 28. In the first sentence of your theme is the answer to your question why you don't go with women ("girls" at 28). When you grow up in your mind and are mature enough for a family, then you'il be ready.
Live your life. You're a man with a future! Women as much as you want, they'il kill each other for you. You have a choice, take your time. Find the best. The woman has to hurry to chase her biological clock. He's 30 now in the old maids' column. You're a party 50. Success!
m38
So what if you have a car or a place? Very important!
Boy, 28, my parents tell me... You're a 28-year-old man first. Secondly, yours are not the people who set the tone for life at that age. Think about being too infantile, even though you're materially insured? Are you looking for your parents' advice and approval for everything? Have you ever let me interfere with your choice of partner or your previous relationships? Everyone's running away from cheat sons. Are you giving look like one?
You're supposed to be ready for a family, and you're listening to your parents. Once upon a time, everything was different. Now times are harder, people start families later. The car and the apartment are also not a factor, rather find someone to get along with and respect, and then without feeling the other things will come.
13, for a man, that's very important.
Look around, and don't look for too many couscous. A man who chooses a lot in the end is left alone, and that's the worst. The important thing is to be a nice person from the inside, the beauty is up to the time. When I was your age, I was still living my life, and I thought time had stopped and that I would be forever young. I had no candidates. The bad news is, I was out of a job, I wasn't living on my own yet, I was hanging out. I found them. I didn't get involved yet. At 32, I had a serious candidate, and that was the right time for me. We were together for 3 months, I had some money spent, instead of using them as starter capital to start a joint family life. Then I didn't want to get seriously involved, so I left it. A year later, you found another one, made one child, and now we're just friends. After two years, they split up, writing last spring with a desire to get together. I already live independently, I have a car and a job I had at the time, my life had gone, but visually I didn't like it anymore. After six months, I was thinking, and I ran after her, but she already had other derts on her head, her life situation was very complicated. I recently lost my job, I'm out of money, I'm out of friends, I've been hanging around a lot in life, I've missed the right moments. A lot of people passed and left in my life. I'm 37 now. without a man by my side, I wonder where to start. I've been home for a month, and I don't have any incentive to live. Learn from other people's mistakes. If you meet a woman to hold on to you, don't hesitate for a moment. Leave all that talk when you're 50, that you can have a family and make kids. At 50, you'il be looking for someone to live the rest of your life with.
When I read the headline, I thought it was a man in his 40s. But even then, it won't be too late...
You're 28 years old, in a show of force. No one's going to think you're chasing the last train... Some people of this age are completing an education and are yet to think about starting a family.
If your question is, where can I get a girlfriend? - Attend events, seminars, interest clubs, etc. Or if you're looking for the "woman of your life" in a nightclub...
Write down something new- a new foreign language, for example... You're going to enrich yourself, you're going to meet new people (including girls)...
Success.
Over 30 is family time. Before that, you're flying around and doing stupid things.
Starting a family is not an end in itself, there is no plan-schedule to follow and a winning formula for success. The ideal age is the one where you met a person with whom you want to share your life with all its good times and bad moments. Some find the man in his 20s, while others happen at the age of 35. You can't just accept every woman as a potential wife, it doesn't happen like that, not everyone will feel good and not everyone will want to have children.
Even if I think you're young, very few men I know before 30 have made a family, most courtesy 32-35 years create them. My father was 38 when I was born, what is this rural limited thinking from yours? Enjoy your last years as a single, that then responsibilities and commitments with family are for life!
He's got that age. Make sure you've handled this task by 35. Not for anything else, but to have time to watch your kids. Being strong and hard-working as they take their own path, being able to help them if they say to follow. Yitzko Finzi, be alive and well, but if he made a baby at 80, he'd be 98 at his prom. Who's going to watch... Then you can enjoy your grandchildren. If you wait until 45, figure out what's going to be.
From the author: number 5, let me look for you if you want. Thank you to the others for your opinions.
29, 2014, in New York. You can ask if it's early, but if it's too late it's laughoria. You're just about to start a peaceful search, not tossing the first pig you showed up. At 34-35, you can already think about whether you're late.
12, 30, was the woman in the old maids column? What are you doing so that an old lady in a 30-year-old woman's column isn't in the old maid's column? Marriage man will rarely offer (for a wedding will have to give money), children rarely make "boys" at 28, they even washing machines rarely know how to let go. To have a place to take a woman if she gets pregnant - a mirage! And then the woman was an old maid in her 30s?! If there is nowhere to take you, it will remain forever an old maid as far as the Bulgarian men are concerned: they did not come out of mom's skirts!!!
Late?
I'm 30.
Our eldest daughter is now 17.
Don't make movies!
What are you so so ary about the man being called "boy" and not "man"? It is expressed figuratively, as are many others. One word doesn't mean everything to him.
It's more important to meet the woman you spend your life with, not how old you are. You could meet her at 35. Tell your parents not to interfere with you, because from the touch of it, you're going to marry the first supposedly serious one, and soon a divorce will follow. It's not right at all.
Look, author, I don't want to scare you, I'm a year younger than you.
I'il tell you my story as the son of elderly parents.
My father and mother made me 40 years old.
Because of their age, they couldn't have any more children, and I don't have a brother or sister. A lonely childhood.
Again because of their years, I don't know what it's like to have grandparents, just because they all died shortly before and shortly after I was born.
As a child, I was very jealous of my peers, because after weekends everyone would talk about how he spent with his grandparents. What he made with his grandfather, what his grandmother cooked, etc.
After school, I looked at myself because my parents were at work and they just had no one to leave me to. It's another thing when you're a young parent and you have living parents who can help you, with childcare, mental and material support.
Because of his age, my father was eternally tired. The others were playing with their fathers, doing some cool stuff, and mine was always sleeping on the couch with a newspaper in hand. Because of the huge difference in years, my parents didn't understand me for anything. It's one thing to be a 40-year-old father of a teenager, it's another to be a 60-year-old father of a teenager.
The worst happened when I was 20 years old and my father died. My future child will never know what it's like to have a grandfather.
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I agree that there is no certain age for men to start a family. It's much more important to be with the right person.
You're not too late.
My husband was 32 when we met and I was 33. We had both come to terms with the thought that we would ever start a family with someone. We both lived downstream, whatever came. And it came.
I got pregnant at 35, naturally, extremely quickly. It's extremely surprising, given my age.
I gave birth to our daughter 3 weeks before I was 36, and he was 35 (we were born every four days apart).
And going back in time, in none of the men I've ever been with, I don't see a better father to my child.
Oh, don't forget, yes, at 28 years old, you're still a boy.
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