My boyfriend and I have been together for many years and we seem to love each other, but he is constantly jealous of me and we fight a lot. On the other hand, I can't have fun with him, I don't know why. I only have fun with my friends and WITHOUT HIM. Maybe I'm still young to commit and I want my freedom. But something always pulls me back and I stay with him. I can't with him, I can't do without him - that's exactly how I feel, but there is no middle ground. I love him, I can't do without him, but I'm young and I want my freedom. He has given me a lot, he is in love a lot and he can't do without me. Whether to 'fly out of the cage' as a part of me wants or to try to change for the sake of love. I can't make a decision, but I can't go on like this. Please advice.
1 SintyGuepa answered
I think it would be better to separate. In the future, you will still hope that it will change, but this is unlikely to happen. I also hold the person next to me very much and I try not to hurt him. I don't think I gave myself a chance to be happy that way. Too responsible and not decisive and unhappy. I chose this life for myself. Think hard before you become like me.